giving that thing called space
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by madaboutlove on Thursday, December 3, 2009 and has 16 replies.
i am still trying to get used to giving my cap space. he has venus in aqua too, so freedom is a necessity. i am sometimes the one to break the silence. but i am always nervous about how it will be received. do the caps like just a little hint of our love? like a sweet text? he is always happy to hear from me but really cherishes his freedom. so i want to be sure i am there enough but not too much...its a fine line. sometimes if i wait for him it seems i will wait forever! thoughts?
i am a female cap venus aqua. i NEED my space. The more you dont call the more I want you. I dont like calls all of the time. i like the little texts the say u were thinkin of me.
he also writes status updates that i know are for me on facebook. he knows i see them but i rarely comment on anything he does on facebook. its kinda cheesy and sweet at the same time. lol!
I am in the same situation. It's very frustrating. My cappy has a pisces moon which on top of all his cappy hidden emotions he feels things even deeper, but refuses to let it show. We've a history of just over a year, but did split up for about 6/7 months. I'll give you my most recent experience with his disappearing act. We had a great couple of weeks everything perfect and amazing. We made love on Thursday, he called me on Friday earlier than our normal time and it's not even normal for him to call me, I usually do all the calling. We had a great conversation. We text a little Saturday early...I could tell immediately something was off, I call him Saturday evening...we had a 2 minute convo..he says he will call me back, he is running out the door with his son. Phone call never came, I text him no response, Sunday I call at our usual time...no answer, Monday I text him at our normal time...no response, Tuesday, I get a text from him in the afternoon saying "I'm alive"..I don't respond, because at this point I feel I am done, this is not the first time and it hurts way to much, he was reaching out and I should have responded, but I feel it is a game and don't want to play anymore...I always feel he has met someone else. Anyway, that was Tuesday, Wednesday...nothing, Thursday...nothing, Friday....I'm devastated and can't take anymore and want some answers....I show up at his house. He invites me in as calm as can be. We talk, he apologizes over and over and over, even has tears in eyes....I know he is so sad inside, but won't let me in...I've got tears in my eyes and ask him what will it take for you to trust me...he doesn't know. Anyway...what I do know....he sunk even deeper into himself because I didn't respond to his text on that Tuesday and because I didn't text or call the next 2 days after that....they actually feel you are dissing them when you don't contact them. I also know he felt relieved that I showed up to bring him out of it....I could feel it. Although I feel like I need to leave him, for some reason I can't, I love him and because of this I do always end up reaching out to him first. So if you care for this person....I would reach out...nothing excessive, just something simple to let him know you are still there. I'll text things like "I hope your day went well today, good night". Usually when he is ready he will text a "What's up?". These are very difficult men and I seem I'm always trying to figure him out....but each t
it cut me off I guess I ran on to long 
....anyway after each of these episodes for some odd reason I feel closer and as if we have taken a couple more steps forward. Hopefully, it will continue. Good luck!
....anyway after each of these episodes for some odd reason I feel closer and as if we have taken a couple more steps forward. Hopefully, it will continue. Good luck!
Hey ladies. I thought I would add my two cents on it. Madaboutlove. It doesn't sound like he is that into you. When caps are inlove we always want to be near the one we love. Some caps are even clingy but no not I.
And this silent treatment, I don't like it. I think it is hurtful to give some one the silent treatment especially your gf. I don't know your boyfriend so I can't comment why is doing that to you but I think it goes alot deeper than is star chart. You can't blame the aqua for his behavior.
I would advise you to give him his freedom and let him come to you. If he doesn't, than he isn't into you. Cut him off and find yourself another guy who will want to be with you.
And this silent treatment, I don't like it. I think it is hurtful to give some one the silent treatment especially your gf. I don't know your boyfriend so I can't comment why is doing that to you but I think it goes alot deeper than is star chart. You can't blame the aqua for his behavior.
I would advise you to give him his freedom and let him come to you. If he doesn't, than he isn't into you. Cut him off and find yourself another guy who will want to be with you.
Scorpiot you are scorpio, strong and powerful. I think you have it in you to leave him but being that you care about him and are holding on to the possibility that he will change. A cap is like a kinder surprise. You never know what you have until you break it. Okay I am not sure where I am going with that, but it sounds he has some issues.
It makes me angry to hear of capricorns acting so ellusive. I hope it works out. If he opens up to you, capricorn and scorpio is a match made in heaven.
I always wanted to find a scorpio but I never did.
It makes me angry to hear of capricorns acting so ellusive. I hope it works out. If he opens up to you, capricorn and scorpio is a match made in heaven.
I always wanted to find a scorpio but I never did.
Thanks Eric. I'm not really hoping he will change...I can see and have seen who the true man is...I'm more hoping he will overcome what he is going through and learn to trust me. He does have issues, that is one of the reasons I do give him so many allowances and keep hanging out. He had a horrible marriage that ended with her taking their son a 1000 miles away with another man that doesn't treat the boy very nicely and he has been unemployed for a few months...2 things that hit this man very deeply. I know he feels lost and hurting badly....I really just want him to get, that I love him no matter what. Who knows maybe he is not sure of his feeling toward me....only time will tell. I have asked him straight out when he does this if there is someone else and he always swears there is not and that he is not wanting or looking for anyone else.
we need about 1,000,000 light years of space.
clingy? never we just do that to make you fell needed
When a cap want's you
this is more like (every step you take every move you make you Ill be watching you)
God I lov stings stalking song.
this is more like (every step you take every move you make you Ill be watching you)
God I lov stings stalking song.
thats stalking to a cap when women hang on us its one of two things go through our minds what does she want sex? Money? money for sex?
sorry thats just the way we are, our minds even during sex are on string theory, the singularity, space time continuum the coherent whole characterized as a collection of values or elements varying by minute degrees. Thats why we can have sex for a long time were not there thinking about it.
sorry thats just the way we are, our minds even during sex are on string theory, the singularity, space time continuum the coherent whole characterized as a collection of values or elements varying by minute degrees. Thats why we can have sex for a long time were not there thinking about it.
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by tooseriouslol
i'm not into stalking
i just like to hang myself on him like i'm part of his body lol
I know right? LOL my cap gets off in an hour & a half.. I can't wait to go straddle his lap like a pair of tight jeansclick to expand
:O
forget the jeans go for it
Posted by scorpio_chic
LOL my cap plays songs and I'm almost certain they're directed at me. The words are always fitting.
Like after the first time he told me he loved me, I acted surprised and he told me that I should have known by his actions that he loved me all that time. He said I shouldn't have needed him to confirm it with words. I was like WTF? LOL
Shortly after that he played this song by Alicia Keys called "I need you", and the song starts out like this LOL
The sand loves when the waves come
The sky can't wait for the light of the sun
So how could you look me in my eye
And not see what what i feel inside
Tell me how could youuuu doubt the fact that I
I love you...
I love you
This is defiantely me lol. I have a song for every situation that I am in. And if you piss me off then I have a song that will be just for you. lol
Me and my cappy have been together a year and half and one thing that I've learned through past relationships is that men need space and so do I (Leo woman). I really don't have a problem with his pool nights, out with his friends...etc. but so do I and when do we take breaks away from each other to be with friends and family...when we do get together its insane!
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