So there's this guy I really like and when we met he was having problems with his gf at the time and broke up with her. We talked for a week and he decided to go back and try to make things work with her and dropped all contact with me but by that point I'd already developed feelings for him. That was about 3 months ago. Well he recently got back into contact with me and things were bad with his gf again so he broke up with her. He said it was for good and he told me he liked me. His ex adopted 2 kids right before they got together and he's the only dad they've ever really know. Well everything was great until he went to take the kids back to her after she let him have them for a few days; he hasn't talked to me since he left. That was 5 days ago and I'm upset because I have genuine feelings for him. What should I do?
Help with Cap man?
I think you should ask him to be completely honest with you about what he wants with you and what he still has with his ex, because it seems like he still has feelings for her but is using you to pass the time. But before asking that express to him how much you really care for him and how long you've really cared for him, Virgo's are sensitive af so if you start with the good it won't seem like you are pressuring him or trying to offend him as much. I really hope you two can work it out!

Boo, he got back with her. Don't listen to a man talking trash about his recent ex, many times he doesn't mean it. He may like you but he's always gonna return to her. He's done it once in the past, now the second time, don't let him do it to you for the third time.

You are his rebound...don't get involved in his mess
I would move on if i were you
Thank you guys for the advice. I'm going to move on with my life. If he decides to come back (which I doubt he will), I'll just tell him I'm not a backup plan for when things with his gf get bad. If he liked me like he said he did, he would make an effort to talk to me and I'm not gonna play his mind games anymore.

24 = 16 in man years..
He's not in relationship play for at least another ten years..

What should u do? Never develop feelings for a man that is on the verge of breaking up with his gf.. chances are high that he will go back .. even if he didn't, he will still most likely have some feelings for his ex & that basically makes u the hump girl
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