Hi Cappies! New here, question for you...

What do you think about prenuptial agreements? I asked for one, he flipped out.

Marrying is SO 20th century 😛

I would sign one because I am going to spend it while we are together. All woman and maybe men should have a secret account. You just never know. He would be like "why do you need so many tampons and why do they cost so much" LOL

Angela Bassett in Waiting to Exhale " I've lost something that once meant everything to me and it hurts and right now I'm really pissed about it. But you know what really gets me , I didn't have a plan B. I thought my marriage was going to last" .... Classic Line

I have taken many Supply and Demand courses and they talk about "exit strategy" so much I can't help but have one.

I don't have a problem with it! Most divorced people my age would probably agree to one unless they have an ulterior motive. We've been there, done that and know how ugly it can get. Whatever you take into the marriage (such as a house, retirement fund, bank account) you should get to take back after a marriage ends.

My boyfriend's ex-wife opened numerous credit card accounts in his name he didn't know about and ran them up before they divorced. Now he has to pay for them. And everything else that was put in his name.

Cowpuncher - that SUCKS what she did!

Posted by M
It would seem futuristic to you in the 14th wouldn't it? 😉

Dude, 14th century marriages were more like deals 😛

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Marrying is SO 20th century 😛

We can't all be free wild stallions like you Shaks, few can be so studly. 😉 The rest of us get trapped at least once sooner or later! It's the Indiana Jones angle... it's gotta be.

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Heh, very honourable sir, you have hit on a very profound truth..

Thats why Im gonna end up with a cappy, they're the only ones who give me enough space but are dependable enough at the same time.

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Marrying is SO 20th century 😛

plus, it'd rub me the wrong way. i wouldn't marry someone i didn't trust and vice versa. maybe naive in this day and age, but that's how i do.

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Pre nup is a must otherwise no marriage.