How can a Leo woman win over a Capricorn man after 7 years? Am I tripping or can this be reality???

Posted by thisismylife2015
*sigh* I just.... I can't tonight.

Really? Is this real? Are we being punk'd?

C'mon....this can't be real.

I'm just going to grab the popcorn and wait patiently.

Posted by thisismylife2015
*sigh* I just.... I can't tonight.

Really? Is this real? Are we being punk'd?

C'mon....this can't be real.

I'm just going to grab the popcorn and wait patiently.

Posted by sultry kitty
OK, I 'll bite.

If he hasn't left his gf in 7 years, it ain't gonna happen.

If you want even the slightest chance that he will, leave him.

Posted by faith $ golphin

Posted by sultry kitty
OK, I 'll bite.

If he hasn't left his gf in 7 years, it ain't gonna happen.

If you want even the slightest chance that he will, leave him.

Maybe not but i wasn't giving him a reason to leave. I stop talking to him several times but that didn't change anything! A couple times i saw his heart wasn't with the other girl but i didn't capitalize off of that. I think he love her and wouldn't do anything to break her heart. She found out something about us before and she know what type of car I have and the area I live in but i'm sure he act like she didn't know what she was talking about!

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Posted by justagirl
Lmao get outta here. This shit ain't real.

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by justagirl
Lmao get outta here. This shit ain't real.

I've seen it happen. Stoooopid girls wasting their lives on worthless guys.

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Posted by justagirl
Lmao get outta here. This shit ain't real.

Posted by sultrykitty
He's getting what he wants from you and that's enough for him. You're wasting your time, and he isn't worth the wait, IMO. He doesn't sound conflicted at all, he's telling you what you want to hear to keep you around.

If you leave (that means ignoring hos texts and calls), he will know you're serious. If he wants you, he'll leave her. If not, you can be free to find someone who actually loves you. This guy doesn't.

Posted by exxtasyx
No offence but you're completely delusional. Don't you realize how this man has you fooled? You're his SIDE-CHICK, and nothing more. If he hasn't left his girlfriend for you after 7 years then he NEVER will. He is using you and playing with you like a toy and your self-esteem is so low that you're allowing him to do it. Cut him off immediately! Stop chasing an unavailable man who see's you as nothing more than a toy. He's manipulating you just like he's manipulating his wife. This man is bored and has no intention on ever committing to you, and if anything you're helping his main relationship stay afloat by messing around with him. He is scum, leave him alone and move on.

Posted by faith $ golphin
He not fooling me and i'm far from delusional. This is not the only man I've been with that had a woman, infact every man I ever had was taken when I 1st started dating them. Some men didn't tell me and maybe they weren't 100% committed but I know all the signs of a man that's not available. I've been around guys all my life and I only had a few girlfriends. I talk to all my male friends some married and others aren't. They tell me everything as if I was one of the boys!!! That's how it's always been!!! I know men inside out and outside in!!! Every man i wanted i got and there's only one man I dealt with and had sex with, was out my league and I stop talking to him after we had sex twice because I just sense he could have been married. I just think I happen to get with him when he was broke up or apart. I'm unsure if he was married but he was out my league. When I say out my league I've been around a lot of entertainment artist and professional athlete and could have slept with them and didn't because I knew it wouldn't work. I have a lot of friends in industry. The last 2 guys I dealt with 1 is a high division 1 coach and the one I think could have been married was a agent but he was a major hunk!!! Just a little backdrop of who I am I worked in the entertainment and sport industry.

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I was so tempted not to read this, but since I'm not asleep yet, decided to read it anyways. I'm not throwing shade on your chase of this man, but why did you come seeking advice if you're not going to stop messing around with a man who has a long term girlfriend? I don't get what you're wanting to know.

Is he going to leave his woman for you? No, because by being with him in a compromising relationship, he already knows enough about you to make decision on whether or not he could be in an exclusive relationship with you...even if he decides to leave her.

What does he know about you that deflects his desire to be with you? You don't have the integrity that he wants in a partner. Sorry, but he's exercising the double standard strategy. He's a Cap after all. He can do what he's doing because he's a man and his woman better not EVER be the type to engage in what he's doing. Whether she's the cheater or the one cheating WITH him, knowing that he has a partner.

Why won't he leave you alone? He can get some ass on the side and not worry about complications. He knows that you're always going to open up to him...he just has to be nice enough. He also knows that you would NEVER dare try to expose him to his woman. Not truly. You might make threats or come close, but he knows that you're NEVER going to out him. If my male bestie (a Cap) could get away with it, he would do the same with me and his girlfriend. He knows I'm not doing that BS. So, the closest he comes to it is mildly flirting. When I told him about my condition, he said that if I needed him to, he would come over to my house every single day. Then he said, "_______ knows better than to stop me. She knows what's up, what you mean to me. She already knows what's good." I would never in my LIFE allow him to do that to that woman, to his young kids, and more importantly to HIMSELF. Smh You on the other hand, you're not supporting him being a better/upstanding man. Caps will indulge in being with that kind of woman on the side, but you'll NEVER be his main chick. Not ever.

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Posted by faith $ golphin
He not fooling me and i'm far from delusional. This is not the only man I've been with that had a woman, infact every man I ever had was taken when I 1st started dating them. Some men didn't tell me and maybe they weren't 100% committed but I know all the signs of a man that's not available. I've been around guys all my life and I only had a few girlfriends. I talk to all my male friends some married and others aren't. They tell me everything as if I was one of the boys!!! That's how it's always been!!! I know men inside out and outside in!!! Every man i wanted i got and there's only one man I dealt with and had sex with, was out my league and I stop talking to him after we had sex twice because I just sense he could have been married. I just think I happen to get with him when he was broke up or apart. I'm unsure if he was married but he was out my league. When I say out my league I've been around a lot of entertainment artist and professional athlete and could have slept with them and didn't because I knew it wouldn't work. I have a lot of friends in industry. The last 2 guys I dealt with 1 is a high division 1 coach and the one I think could have been married was a agent but he was a major hunk!!! Just a little backdrop of who I am I worked in the entertainment and sport industry.

I'm happy for your ties to successful circles, because that's obviously what feuls your self esteem, but what does that have to do with satisfaction in your love life? And how does your ability to attract financially successful men help you have the relationship that you obviously want? Is the only success you know measured by achieving a certain level of fame? Do you believe in any other definition of success? If not, then you're right where you want to be and hooking up with famous married men should be enough then...no?

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Posted by blackphase
Why do you want someone that clearly can hold down two relationships for 7 years!? What makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you if you did manage to steal him away? I'd be running in the opposite direction as fast as I could.

Posted by champranger
lol, if you believe that the cause of his lack of commitment to you is because of your mixed signal, by all means go ahead and try. Just be warned that the reality might be a lot different than you expect.