how do i get my capriocorn man to be more romantic
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by fishi on Monday, February 16, 2009 and has 7 replies.
even if hes faking it.
this valntines day he picked me up from work and went, "oh yeah i got you some chocolate" and tossed a generic heart shaped box of chocolate at me. no note, no nothing. and this is after we just recently got back together and hes supposed to be showing me how much he really cares about me.
this valntines day he picked me up from work and went, "oh yeah i got you some chocolate" and tossed a generic heart shaped box of chocolate at me. no note, no nothing. and this is after we just recently got back together and hes supposed to be showing me how much he really cares about me.
im a pisces, obvs
Fishi is this how you want to be treated? You are telling him with your actions by ACCEPTING how he treated you that it's okay for him to behave that way with you, if he threw a box of chocolates in your lap, no card, no I love you, just a generic heart shaped box thrown into lap then he's basically saying through his actions that he most likely didn't care enough to do something special for and with you....this isn't a Cap thing, this is a man that isn't that into you thing, he tossed that box as if your a burden and Valentines is a chore like washing dishes (I hate to do it but I have to or I want get what I want) this a I don't care enough about you thing, if your not happy with his half assed attempt at showing you romance then you must show him through your actions that your important, that you are first and will not put up with his slack behavior. Dig deep and bring forth some self love and do what's in your best interest and be around men that want to give you the romance that you deserve.
You said he's SUPPOSED to be showing you that he cares by my standards and yours, him throwing a generic heart shaped box isn't showing you that he cares, either ditch the jerk or put up with it.
You said he's SUPPOSED to be showing you that he cares by my standards and yours, him throwing a generic heart shaped box isn't showing you that he cares, either ditch the jerk or put up with it.
"even if hes faking it."
I understand you not being happy with his half-arsed attempts at romance. But why would you want someone to fake it?
I understand you not being happy with his half-arsed attempts at romance. But why would you want someone to fake it?
"cause she is young. she wants the perception...not reality."
It couldn't have been said any better
It couldn't have been said any better
im 20, hes 22. i understand folks saying im young; i do disagree. ive experienced a fair ammount of tragedy, turmoil and war trhoughout my life. although my number of years lived is low, time is a concept and illusion.
i lost my father.. and mother, basically, and he and lived together for like 2 years. when we first started dating we knew we wanted to be together forever. it was love at first sight literally (and when we first saw each other we were each a silhouette)we never wanted to live together though unless we were married. i was ACTUALLY YOUNG when we first met, me 17, him 19. so towards the end of the second year we moved out. neither of us had a place to go, or any money, but we knew we needed time apart. so we took it. for about a month. then the coming back together is where everything gets complicated. i look back on that time and it has been a blurry 5 or 6 months. now here we are.
i love him. if anyone on this board knows love, thats the love i have. i love him like my mother, my father, my sister and brother. like my dogs and cats. he is my best friend.
nothing will make me want to not live every day next to him for the rest of my lifetime.
im just asking for advice on how to appeal to a cap about romance, y'all!
there is absolutely no need to start accusing me of being.. to young, and just wanting the perception and not the reality. they go hand in hand, friends.
i lost my father.. and mother, basically, and he and lived together for like 2 years. when we first started dating we knew we wanted to be together forever. it was love at first sight literally (and when we first saw each other we were each a silhouette)we never wanted to live together though unless we were married. i was ACTUALLY YOUNG when we first met, me 17, him 19. so towards the end of the second year we moved out. neither of us had a place to go, or any money, but we knew we needed time apart. so we took it. for about a month. then the coming back together is where everything gets complicated. i look back on that time and it has been a blurry 5 or 6 months. now here we are.
i love him. if anyone on this board knows love, thats the love i have. i love him like my mother, my father, my sister and brother. like my dogs and cats. he is my best friend.
nothing will make me want to not live every day next to him for the rest of my lifetime.
im just asking for advice on how to appeal to a cap about romance, y'all!
there is absolutely no need to start accusing me of being.. to young, and just wanting the perception and not the reality. they go hand in hand, friends.
Well you may want to look at how he's treating you, would you throw a box of candies onto your mother, father, sister, brothers lap, so their is a complete imbalance in how he's treating you, cap men have no problem showing romance to the woman he's deeply heady in love with I'm sure you can think back when he's was head over hills in love and compare that to NOW to gain some insight that he's not that into you, this guy doesn't seem to care that much....if he's not putting on his romance hat on his own then he clearly isn't comfortable being romantic with you, outside of throwing yourself across his lap and begging for attention and romance which would only make you look desperate there isn't much you can do to inspire him...
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