KekeB
@KekeB
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How does this work?!
Run he wants to have his cake and eat it. It's clear you couldn't do it as you have such strong feelings and it will completely mess with your head.
Posted by -elle-Posted by -elle-runPosted by Capzforrest
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beat me to it....
*and fixed. What's with all the typos?
Run. When you invest feelings into someone and you want to get rid of them due to a relationship not happening, you need time to heal and lick your wounds. I was sorta in the same situation years ago with an Aries man. I thought I could have a friendship but at the end of the day, I needed space for not only me but for him too. It became too toxic in the end. And I love me more than him.
This is so hard! I want to stay friends but like everyone say it will hurt to see him date if he do start. My heart is saying stay around because he's going to come around and that he's just testing me to see how loyal I am to him but my mind is saying walk away and never look back
We talked and I told him I didn't want to be friends because it would hurt. And he said that he will not date anyone and we don't have to have sex but he still wants to hang out and talk like we used to. I said I would think about it then he adds in that he doesn't want me to date anyone else either. So pretty much be in a sexless relationship with no commitment!!!
Posted by KekeBYou can always be friends, stop the sex and be strictly his friend. Maybe when it's time for him to be in a relationship he will come around.
This is so hard! I want to stay friends but like everyone say it will hurt to see him date if he do start. My heart is saying stay around because he's going to come around and that he's just testing me to see how loyal I am to him but my mind is saying walk away and never look back
What you can also do is wait, if he starts dating sometimes it doesn't hurt anymore bc you do see him as a friend.
Posted by KekeBHow sure is he that he wont date anyone? What if someone came along who changes his mind. He could be seeing someone you don't even know about.
We talked and I told him I didn't want to be friends because it would hurt. And he said that he will not date anyone and we don't have to have sex but he still wants to hang out and talk like we used to. I said I would think about it then he adds in that he doesn't want me to date anyone else either. So pretty much be in a sexless relationship with no commitment!!!
If you want to keep the friendship, reduce the time you spend with him. You cannot talk and hang like you used to.
In the extra time, go on with your life. Take care of yourself
Date other people who are available. You will forget about him when you occupy yourself with other stuff (interests, hobbies, people etc)
Posted by netpowerHe says he won't because he doesn't want to learn no one new. I asked what will he do when he wants sex and he said he hadn't figured that out yet. So I told him we will see what happens but I can't promise to stay his friends. I agree I will limit my time with him and try to focus on something else.Posted by KekeBHow sure is he that he wont date anyone? What if someone came along who changes his mind. He could be seeing someone you don't even know about.
We talked and I told him I didn't want to be friends because it would hurt. And he said that he will not date anyone and we don't have to have sex but he still wants to hang out and talk like we used to. I said I would think about it then he adds in that he doesn't want me to date anyone else either. So pretty much be in a sexless relationship with no commitment!!!
If you want to keep the friendship, reduce the time you spend with him. You cannot talk and hang like you used to.
In the extra time, go on with your life. Take care of yourself
Date other people who are available. You will forget about him when you occupy yourself with other stuff (interests, hobbies, people etc)click to expand
Posted by KekeBThis guy lol!!! So yeah greatly limit your time with him. There is other fish in the sea who would offer you more.Posted by netpowerHe says he won't because he doesn't want to learn no one new. I asked what will he do when he wants sex and he said he hadn't figured that out yet. So I told him we will see what happens but I can't promise to stay his friends. I agree I will limit my time with him and try to focus on something else.Posted by KekeBHow sure is he that he wont date anyone? What if someone came along who changes his mind. He could be seeing someone you don't even know about.
We talked and I told him I didn't want to be friends because it would hurt. And he said that he will not date anyone and we don't have to have sex but he still wants to hang out and talk like we used to. I said I would think about it then he adds in that he doesn't want me to date anyone else either. So pretty much be in a sexless relationship with no commitment!!!
If you want to keep the friendship, reduce the time you spend with him. You cannot talk and hang like you used to.
In the extra time, go on with your life. Take care of yourself
Date other people who are available. You will forget about him when you occupy yourself with other stuff (interests, hobbies, people etc)click to expand
Avoid keeping tabs on him if you are.
You will gradually forget him with time.
Blessings 🙂
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