How long shud wait before sex with a cap man?

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Ok... he's been chasing me for a very long time! Finally after lots of help and doing so much practical stuff n very kind to me n my son we finally kissed today... after like a 5th date lol.... he mentioned ex girlfriends and ex wife's a lot but I never told him anything about my past...: now, after the kiss god I know our physical connection will b crazily amazing. I just wanna know , shud I wait until he claim me untill I have sex with him? Been heart broken so many times n I don't wanna stuff this one up by sexing him early.... him. Sun cap. Moon in Pisces. Venus in Aqua.... me.. Sun in Taurus. Moon in Aquarius. Venus in Gemini. .....
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Your placements look compatible.

No, their moons are going to clash...

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I think my Taurus sun calms his Pisces moon... my ex( or a guy I was seeing ) had Pisces moon and he was in love with my Taurus sun maturing energy... I do admit my Aqua moon cold side did hurt his sensitive moon a bit even if he had Aqua sun... lol... but I think this cap moon can handle all my sacarsm much better as his sacarsm is crazy too lol....
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Posted by Tauruswithspunk
Wether it's now or later if he's gonna leave he will leave and if he'll stay then he'll stay... there's never no telling until you go through with it... sometimes a man and how they were raised determines their morals.
Yay that's what I think too....😢 he keeps saying it's not the Sex coz we have crazy connection and he wanna b in my life n my son long term..... mmm.... I just know my feelings will most likely grow deeper after sex( as all women ) do n I don't wanna get hurt again....T--T ... should I have the talk like so what are you looking for talk first?
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Wether it's now or later if he's gonna leave he will leave and if he'll stay then he'll stay... there's never no telling until you go through with it... sometimes a man and how they were raised determines their morals.
Yay that's what I think too....😢 he keeps saying it's not the Sex coz we have crazy connection and he wanna b in my life n my son long term..... mmm.... I just know my feelings will most likely grow deeper after sex( as all women ) do n I don't wanna get hurt again....T--T ... should I have the talk like so what are you looking for talk first?
The longer you wait.... the more you'll fall. Do you want little hurt or big hurt?
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Hahhh interesting !!! >< u r right as a venus gem and moon in Aqua I can actually don't relate sex to love. Actually I was a bit worried that if I sex him he will want me all to himself n I may not be ready for a real commitment considering he's a cap... coz once he set his mind on something .. it's like a long term plan... that show to all his work n his house n his furnitures . God very fuzzy with high standards kind of men lol
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Wether it's now or later if he's gonna leave he will leave and if he'll stay then he'll stay... there's never no telling until you go through with it... sometimes a man and how they were raised determines their morals.
Yay that's what I think too....😢 he keeps saying it's not the Sex coz we have crazy connection and he wanna b in my life n my son long term..... mmm.... I just know my feelings will most likely grow deeper after sex( as all women ) do n I don't wanna get hurt again....T--T ... should I have the talk like so what are you looking for talk first?
The longer you wait.... the more you'll fall. Do you want little hurt or big hurt?

Hahhh interesting !!! >< u r right as a venus gem and moon in Aqua I can actually don't relate sex to love. Actually I was a bit worried that if I sex him he will want me all to himself n I may not be ready for a real commitment considering he's a cap... coz once he set his mind on something .. it's like a long term plan... that show to all his work n his house n his furnitures . God very fuzzy with high standards kind of men lol


VEry high standard but always be yourself cause then you'll know he likes you for you... also don't have sex if you're not ready for the commitment because they take it seriously and based on what you guys are saying I thought you were ready? Sex does complicate things but we all have desires... if both of you can go through sex and come out ok (maybe talk about what next after) then go for it.... trust me the earlier the better when it comes to emotions.
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Very interesting. Yeahhhhh that's why I held off the kisses and the sex..... hehehe... more because I know he really really likes me and over time I have grown to have really enjoy his company etc... n I know he actually take me very seriously!!!! in terms of commitment... I wasn't really sure yet.... but I'm becoming more ready as time went on and h has shown me many great qualities that I am willing to sacrifice my freedom for lol....
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Your placements look compatible.

No, their moons are going to clash...


I think my Taurus sun calms his Pisces moon... my ex( or a guy I was seeing ) had Pisces moon and he was in love with my Taurus sun maturing energy... I do admit my Aqua moon cold side did hurt his sensitive moon a bit even if he had Aqua sun... lol... but I think this cap moon can handle all my sacarsm much better as his sacarsm is crazy too lol....

Well, it's not impossible for the two to work well together. It's just that your Aqua moon has to be more aware of his Pisces sensitivity (especially during disagreements)...

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Yeah I learnt that form my ex ( Aqua Pisces mooners) maybe he was a trial for a reason lol.. today I asked him the cap guy apart from his penis what other parts of his bodies is his sensitive are... n he said ... his heart.... lol... awww
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Is commitment and security important for you? All it takes is a conversation...

Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. Tell him you want to get tested before your relationship gets more physical.
Mmm ok yay. I shud do that. I think I will ask him what he's looking for...
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5 dates in and you don't know what he's looking for —
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Is commitment and security important for you? All it takes is a conversation...

Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. Tell him you want to get tested before your relationship gets more physical.
Mmm ok yay. I shud do that. I think I will ask him what he's looking for...
5 dates in and you don't know what he's looking for —
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Hahahaha yay he's been chasing me for over a year... honestly i don't even wanna call them dates coz I canceled all his dates lol... the only time we hanged out are actually me going to see him for him to fix my stuff and him cooking, cleaning, doing all the practical stuff for me u noe like atypical cap man. Been very close to his housemate too hahahahhaa
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Finally a new guy although it's still with the same old pisces moon —?
Mmm I know hehe... god he's so practical though. Get all my stuff done without me even asking. He's a great man.. see how it goes lol.....
Surely better than the last —??
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Hahahaha this one i do a blink and all my stuff get done without my asking . That one I throw fire bombs and no help was offered IMAo.... they r feeding my love needs diffently though 😢
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Finally a new guy although it's still with the same old pisces moon —?
Mmm I know hehe... god he's so practical though. Get all my stuff done without me even asking. He's a great man.. see how it goes lol.....
Surely better than the last —??

Hahahaha this one i do a blink and all my stuff get done without my asking . That one I throw fire bombs and no help was offered IMAo.... they r feeding my love needs diffently though 😢

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You seems didn't like it?
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Finally a new guy although it's still with the same old pisces moon —?
Mmm I know hehe... god he's so practical though. Get all my stuff done without me even asking. He's a great man.. see how it goes lol.....
Surely better than the last —??

Hahahaha this one i do a blink and all my stuff get done without my asking . That one I throw fire bombs and no help was offered IMAo.... they r feeding my love needs diffently though 😢


You seems didn't like it?

It's still early days you know.. the Cappy has intense sexual chemistry he even almost bit my lips lol. The Aqua has this homely comfortable feeeling like that Winnie the Pooh hug feeling lol... just have to keep seeing... the cap also swears way too much n smoke a bit of weed!!!! So I'm still testing the water

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Hmmm you're not comparing him to your ex right? you can't move on with that mindset.
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My God woman, how many men are you with? Weren't you after this one man who you swung with, then another who wanted to marry you, now this?

No wonder the other guy you've been pinning after hasn't committed to you.
What is wrong with testing the water😉 I was exclusively dating someone for 7 months . So stop judging me people lol. But wharveeb u don't know me so I don't care lol
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Finally a new guy although it's still with the same old pisces moon —?
Mmm I know hehe... god he's so practical though. Get all my stuff done without me even asking. He's a great man.. see how it goes lol.....
Surely better than the last —??

Hahahaha this one i do a blink and all my stuff get done without my asking . That one I throw fire bombs and no help was offered IMAo.... they r feeding my love needs diffently though 😢


You seems didn't like it?

It's still early days you know.. the Cappy has intense sexual chemistry he even almost bit my lips lol. The Aqua has this homely comfortable feeeling like that Winnie the Pooh hug feeling lol... just have to keep seeing... the cap also swears way too much n smoke a bit of weed!!!! So I'm still testing the water


Hmmm you're not comparing him to your ex right? you can't move on with that mindset.
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Not really. Just going with the flow🙂
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LOL!! Nothing about the post or you..but I just found the kissing on 5th date being considered a long time(I mean the way you said finally there?) funny?
I knowwwww hahahah .. I think he's a cap after all n took very slowwwwww.... I was actually pretty worried about our physical chemistry but omg the kiss was intense he almost bite me tounge off... I cud feel some intense Scorpio energy inthere but he has no Scorpio in his chart !!!! He's actually a pretty deep person not a normal cap men I used to meet... I like the intensity ... 😉
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I would hold off until you're in a relationship. Aqua Venus are notorious when it comes to stalling commitments.
Yeah . I kind of agree... now my Aqua moon is like. But what do I want commitment lol....
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I also have mars in aquarius. Which one is stronger like which one resist commitment more. Moon mars or venus? Hahahahha