How Long to Wait Before Having Sex?

This is a good article by a psychologist that addresses both the male and female perspectives.

It's not specifically geared toward Caps, but with all the posts by "damaged" women on here who
have jumped into the sack too early, perhaps it will help. 😉


http://dating.lovetoknow.com/How_Long_to_Wait_Before_Having_Sex_When_Dating

How long?

When you fucking feel like it, that's how long!

Posted by JTG
Till we get home.

hahah

Me and my now Cap GF. Did it after our second date. She's the best sex I've ever had! 😉. Oh u Capricorns!

*sigh*

88, I don't think she intended to call all the other signs that come on here needy or damaged. But, some are. There are some on all the boards that are really needy.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I know you said not specifically for Caps, but I'd like to point out that the "damaged women" are other signs that come here to complain or get advice about Cap men.

I don't really see Cap women doing the same on other boards.

They may ask questions, but typically not of the needy variety.

I think we have a pretty good communication going between our heads, hearts and knees.

Hmmm... I wonder how the Aquas see me? I have asked a lot of questions, and even whined a few times. lol!

This is a TABOO topic for Caps! PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD RIGHT NOW!!! LOL 😄

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by truecap

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I know you said not specifically for Caps, but I'd like to point out that the "damaged women" are other signs that come here to complain or get advice about Cap men.

I don't really see Cap women doing the same on other boards.

They may ask questions, but typically not of the needy variety.

I think we have a pretty good communication going between our heads, hearts and knees.

Hmmm... I wonder how the Aquas see me? I have asked a lot of questions, and even whined a few times. lol!

You ask questions and maybe vent a little, but I wouldn't compare your threads to most.

And 88, I didn't mean any disrespect. I will apologize for coming off snippy. Wasn't pissed at you or anything. You've been to the Scorp board. They have a higher than average amount of the one's I was referring to when I said "needy".

"He said this, but he's doing that and now he doesn't text me and blah blah...".

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*guilty* tho never posted it on the scorp board, lol. It goes on in my head.

Posted by SureShotCap
This is a TABOO topic for Caps! PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD RIGHT NOW!!! LOL 😄

.....and please hang on the "DO NOT DISTURB" sign after you close the door 🙂 !!!!!!!!

Well, Steve Harvey says with a job you have a probationary period of 90 days before you get benefits. Why shouldn't a man be any different?


Awwwrgh! Don't know if THAT is possible!!! lol!!

*Why should a man be any different?*

Posted by Undine

Posted by SureShotCap
This is a TABOO topic for Caps! PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD RIGHT NOW!!! LOL 😄

.....and please hang on the "DO NOT DISTURB" sign after you close the door 🙂 !!!!!!!!

More like "Meeting of the minds and souls in progress, please allow idle time before we come back to our logic senses!"

Posted by JTG

Posted by truecap
Well, Steve Harvey says with a job you have a probationary period of 90 days before you get benefits. Why shouldn't a man be any different?


Awwwrgh! Don't know if THAT is possible!!! lol!!

That's fair.

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90 days? Do you know how much can get accomplished in 90 days?

If trust and attraction is escalating within a month, the relationship is doomed!!!

Posted by Nicrobliz

Posted by truecap
Well, Steve Harvey says with a job you have a probationary period of 90 days before you get benefits. Why shouldn't a man be any different?


Awwwrgh! Don't know if THAT is possible!!! lol!!

Men should do that with women too. At least we'll have longer to enjoy our porn before having to throw it in the trash...

Correction: put the porn into storage, as she could be absolutely shite in bed... or the porn was just miles better.

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Don't trash the porn! We'll watch it together later! You know, we can do what they do! Wahoo!

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Posted by coolcappy

Posted by cheekyfaerie

I mean, I'm all about watching porn together, but who the fuck still *buys* porn?

exactly 🙂

Watching porn together?!!! Most of you are too bloody insecure within yourselves to even deal with your man having an interest in such a thing.

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On the contrary!! It's hot!

Posted by coolcappy
oh dear oh dear someone is in denial! Just because I am rare doesn't make me a liar! but believe it or not I do watch it with my man and the great sex that follows wow is totally unmatchable! We often reffer it to lets have our afternoons only the way we know it lol especially when day to day life takes both our minds of sex, it's a reminder of what we can do too and should. Makes us want it within 10-15 min of watching and having a glass of something! Would I give a damn he might be turned of by the girl in the movie? No bloody way because I look better and he often says I do and am better than any or the actresses. I am his private porn star, that's how he likes teasing. And it's a big, great compliment and makes me love him even more. PLus hell yeah some of the guys in it turn me on as well! So it's like tit for tat if you know what I mean!
Why do guys think we're a liar I have no idea! Get a life 🙂 tease :p

That's always true!!!!

It's also fun to make a game out of it and act what they're doing, while they're doing it!

I THINK A 90 DAY TRIAL IS IN ORDER, FOR BOTH SEX'S IF YOU CAN'T KILL EACH OUTHER IN 90 DAYS FUCKING EACH OUTHERS EYES OUT SPLIT AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
NOW FOR THE SUPRISE
I NEVER START THE SEX TALK I LET THE WOMAN DECIDE WHEN IT SHOULD START. SOME TIMES ITS THE FIRST DATE AT OTHER TIMES ITS A WEEK OR TWO LATER. SOMETIMES NEVER WE MAY GO OUT A COUPLE OF TIMES AND SHE MIGHT SAY SOMETHING ABOUT SEX AND AFTER A TALK WE DECIDE THAT IT IS ONLY ABOUT SEX NO OTHER CONECTION. SO IT ENDS THERE I KNOW THIS IS A SHOCK BUT THERE ARE OTHER CONCIDERATIONS.
AND IF THEY SAY SOMETHING ABOUT MY SPELLING I TRY TO MAKE IT WORSE.

Posted by james tate
I THINK A 90 DAY TRIAL IS IN ORDER, FOR BOTH SEX'S IF YOU CAN'T KILL EACH OUTHER IN 90 DAYS FUCKING EACH OUTHERS EYES OUT SPLIT AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
NOW FOR THE SUPRISE
I NEVER START THE SEX TALK I LET THE WOMAN DECIDE WHEN IT SHOULD START. SOME TIMES ITS THE FIRST DATE AT OTHER TIMES ITS A WEEK OR TWO LATER. SOMETIMES NEVER WE MAY GO OUT A COUPLE OF TIMES AND SHE MIGHT SAY SOMETHING ABOUT SEX AND AFTER A TALK WE DECIDE THAT IT IS ONLY ABOUT SEX NO OTHER CONECTION. SO IT ENDS THERE I KNOW THIS IS A SHOCK BUT THERE ARE OTHER CONCIDERATIONS.
AND IF THEY SAY SOMETHING ABOUT MY SPELLING I TRY TO MAKE IT WORSE.

Ah, Tate! You really are a gentleman afterall.

GOD I LOV THAT SPORT BRA NICE RACK FOR 45.

Posted by CapsRule
This is a good article by a psychologist that addresses both the male and female perspectives.

It's not specifically geared toward Caps, but with all the posts by "damaged" women on here who
have jumped into the sack too early, perhaps it will help. 😉


http://dating.lovetoknow.com/How_Long_to_Wait_Before_Having_Sex_When_Dating

There is a major reason for NOT having sex on a first date and that is: GUYS OFTEN CANNOT PERFORM SEXUALLY ON A FIRST DATE!!!!

In my case, the majority of guys couldn't even get a hard on.

When asking what happened during our first romp in the sheets, I hear answers like these:

Pisces: I've been jerking over you for the past two weeks and got exhausted.
Cancer: You were far prettier than I thought from your pictures. I've got nervous.
Sag: You were the most confident/intelligent woman I've been with and was intimidated.
Cap: Your sexy foreign accent made me believe I was in a James Bond movie and you were about to cut my balls!
Aqua: It's true I went all soft on you, but at least I didn't faint!

Did any of these experiences "damage" me in any way? LOL, no!!! I actually prefer it this way, because the little embarrassment humbled these guys, shifting the power towards me. With one exception, all of them asked for another date. With time, they managed to perform and even wanted to have a relationship with me.

None of these men got "damaged", because I'm such a nice woman! What would have happened to them in the wrong hands, I wonder?

Advice against sex on a first date is to protect men, NOT women!

Posted by coolcappy
great! I'm starting to believe that Cap women are much easier, open minded and cooler than the Cap guys though. They seem to be so stubborn, inflexible and mean lol I'm so glad I'm a woman and that I prefer Virgo men above all! Nothing beats them 😛

Take that back!

Posted by SureShotCap

Posted by coolcappy
great! I'm starting to believe that Cap women are much easier, open minded and cooler than the Cap guys though. They seem to be so stubborn, inflexible and mean lol I'm so glad I'm a woman and that I prefer Virgo men above all! Nothing beats them 😛

Take that back!

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And you, bring back that sexy picture of yours, where we could see the famous Capricorn cleft chin 😉!

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Posted by Undine
And you, bring back that sexy picture of yours, where we could see the famous Capricorn cleft chin 😉!

And would you look at that; he went as far as to kindly comply with your request Undine. You persuasive lil minx, you 😛 😄

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He's gorgeous, isn't he?

*sigh*

Now if I could only make the Capricorn I used to date unblock me on our dating site!

Posted by 88
what happened bonita Undine?

Heaven and hell, 88. Please don't get me started, I just ranted about him on the Astrology forum, Venus/Pluto thread. I'm not over him yet.

However, he was a Cap/Sag cusp and yes, I'm of Sagittarius ascendent. Not a typical Capricorn-Pisces relationship. Regretfully.

I was very surprised when you gave up on your Cap, though!

Posted by 88
I just spoke with an older cap 01/05. and everytime I talk to him, his wife is right next to him telling him what to do. she is the most annoying woman ever. Him so calmly talking to me and repeating what she says. wtf.. lmao

But he is one of the nicest caps when he calls.

Just curious. What is her sign 88?

You need to wait until you feel comfortable and unforced being sexually intimate and are not acting out of overwhelming horniness, spite, revenge or under the pervasive influence of alcohol or drugs. I hope all your sex is marvelous.