How to apologize to Capricorn

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Posted by JenLove
Definitely the second option "an apology with a reasoning as to why certain things were said and an explanation". We like to know why you did it and that you care enough to feel bad about it and to say sorry. There's never a guarantee you'll be forgiven of course but, it's more than likely that we'll hear you out to decide if it's reasonable to fix things. Hopefully you didn't screw things up too bad lol



Thanks and yeah I screwed things up (read my post about Capricorn being over virgo) But I don't want forgiveness and I just love him his so much that I want his heart to be at peace.
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Posted by Sangfroid
Thinking back on the past few times someone's apologized to me, I just wanted them to STOP and leave well enough alone. Now I'm waiting to see if they're really going to change their behavior or if there'll be repeat acts but while I'm still guarded, I can accept if they just aren't worth keeping in my life without holding a grudge.

On the other hand, I hate it when an apology is used to wipe off someone's conscience and wipe off responsiblity. Then I would've preferred if they'd kept from putting on a mask and just gone off and done their thing. Whatever, as long as I don't have to suffer their drama.



You Sound exactly like him...im terrified of apologizing now
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Posted by Sangfroid
Thinking back on the past few times someone's apologized to me, I just wanted them to STOP and leave well enough alone. Now I'm waiting to see if they're really going to change their behavior or if there'll be repeat acts but while I'm still guarded, I can accept if they just aren't worth keeping in my life without holding a grudge.

On the other hand, I hate it when an apology is used to wipe off someone's conscience and wipe off responsiblity. Then I would've preferred if they'd kept from putting on a mask and just gone off and done their thing. Whatever, as long as I don't have to suffer their drama.



You Sound exactly like him...im terrified of apologizing now
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Don't apologize... pretend like nothing happened or better yet blame it on him. 🙂 They know everything and they sense everything so what's the point in discussing anything? Don't be weak.
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How do you apologize to a Capricorn?



Oh thats easy! You dont.



Huh? Why lol



Hmm im no expert, but even tho you Caps seem all fucked up and hurt, you really have your shit together and everything is usually going according to your plans under the surface.
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"Hmm im no expert, but even tho you Caps seem all fucked up and hurt, you really have your shit together and everything is usually going according to your plans under the surface."


OMG, YES!! I've seen this a million times with my Cap. When I call him out on it his response is denial! Argh!!
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Posted by PerfectlyVirgo
How do you apologize to a Capricorn?


Oh thats easy! You dont.


Huh? Why lol


Hmm im no expert, but even tho you Caps seem all fucked up and hurt, you really have your shit together and everything is usually going according to your plans under the surface.
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Nah, we are fucked up and hurt but the planning still continues. It just can't go nowhere.
The moment the weather eases up a little bit we gain traction and send out all of our plans.
We just use plan #4,13 and 25 out of the 52 that have been raging at the time.

Then we can say "We had it all planned out" 😛
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Posted by JenLove
Definitely the second option "an apology with a reasoning as to why certain things were said and an explanation". We like to know why you did it and that you care enough to feel bad about it and to say sorry. There's never a guarantee you'll be forgiven of course but, it's more than likely that we'll hear you out to decide if it's reasonable to fix things. Hopefully you didn't screw things up too bad lol



Thanks and yeah I screwed things up (read my post about Capricorn being over virgo) But I don't want forgiveness and I just love him his so much that I want his heart to be at peace.
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Yeah right. You're bullshitting yourself here with the "I love him so much I want him to be happy/at peace/etc line". We've all been there and said that, but it really means you're lying to yourself. Come on admit it!!! You'd love to be driving that karma bus! lol! 😛
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Posted by pssymonstaa
Posted by xxoommmxxoo
Posted by pssymonstaa
Posted by PerfectlyVirgo
How do you apologize to a Capricorn?



Oh thats easy! You dont.



Huh? Why lol



Hmm im no expert, but even tho you Caps seem all fucked up and hurt, you really have your shit together and everything is usually going according to your plans under the surface.



"Hmm im no expert, but even tho you Caps seem all fucked up and hurt, you really have your shit together and everything is usually going according to your plans under the surface."


OMG, YES!! I've seen this a million times with my Cap. When I call him out on it his response is denial! Argh!!
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Deny, deny, deny!!! Never admit to anything! Be vague and talk in circles! Answer questions with questions. Turn it around so the finger is pointed at THEM instead. Yep, yep!

*runs before the cap mob catches up*
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We expect routines from everybody. We try to have everything calculated and analyzed before you can think about it. We see everything as patterns, every outcome and almost everybody's actions can be predictable. When you can change that, you will have our attention...

Time is our weapon, depending on how much your damage did, the longer you will be waiting for your desired outcome...

Sorry to a Capricorn is NOT A WORD! Its an action felt through a course of time...