Good day all,
Met a Cap man a few months ago and we had great chemistry, however he went from I want to spent more time with you to disappearing totally. I reached out to him several times but no response even though I saw that he was online on whatsapp. So I have deleted his number because I want to move on. Last time I saw or spoke to him was two months ago so I doubt he is coming back. But I cant stop thinking about him and I really want to forget about him. He made me feel used, do Capricorn men always go around just hurting undeserving women like this? I was totally honest and upfront with him and he said he liked that. Sometimes I wonder if he misses me but anyway for the same of my heart how do I forget him, especially when the chemistry we had still lingers in my memory.
PS: I'm a Virgo woman.
Cap here, you must have done something to annoy him or he saw a side or something he didn't like.
Didnt he say anythin before disappearing?
Time is very important in life, don't wait around for him. Move on. You will never get this time back, regardless of sun sign, anyone who gives you a vibe that they are happy to ignore you when you reach out, fk them off. When someone's gives a fk, they engage, if they can happily blank you and risk losing you, then you should give them what they want and fk off out there life.
Bahahaha!
Fuck, thought I fixed that typo!
Thanks, jerk
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
When you find out this answer I would like to know also. LOL He will probably reach out to before you really forget all about him. You may have done something that made him upset or this could be his normal disappearing act. I haven’t been able to forget my Capricorn friend and I have tried numerous times. It got to the point where I think I can never cut him off for good because when I do we really miss each other and eventually start back seeing each other. The longer you hold on it will become harder to cut him off especially if he don’t allow it to happen.
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Jun 19, 2014Comments: 161 · Posts: 1869 · Topics: 31
I hate to say it but Cap men are good at forgetting about people. Logical question what stands out about you to remember?
Hey! Do you forget about him? Please tell me yes, cos i m in a same situation...
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
What exactly did you do? If you didnt do anything don't worry about it. I have done a lot of things to my cap friend but I just apologize and tell him I love him and I wouldnt do anything to hurt him intentionally. I am very sincere with my apology. He will probably distance herself from you but eventually he'll come back. He will have his guards up. If he reallly care about you he would continue to see you.
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
If he think your a good person you will always have a chance.
only reason a Cap would disappear like this is he saw you were inconsistent and/or you hurt him.
we don't just do it for no reason. if the other person seems wishy washy.. it's like, why waste our time
kind of weird to see a Virgo stress over a Cap though, considering I just had this same scenario pulled on me, but in reverse lol. I thought Virgos were the ones who pulled disappearing acts. anyway, bless your soul....I feel you sista. I'm in the same boat
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Feb 01, 2015Comments: 51 · Posts: 446 · Topics: 27
^not true.
In my experience Caps cant handle anything other than praise. Any criticism of any kind or raising any rational issue in a relationship and they are gone.
I saw his behavior as psychotic. It was beyond what is reasonable.
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Feb 01, 2015Comments: 51 · Posts: 446 · Topics: 27
But I may have just picked a rotten apple. Or two.
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Jan 15, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 200
I do agree that it might be some kind of "inconsistent" behaviour that they interpret to be a big deal. Ie. You say you're only with him, but you won't give him a title (my situation). You say you care about him, but don't listen when he wants space. Caps tell you something briefly, and expect you to know which is fine but sometimes they are not great at transparency imo. Contrary to popular belief I think Caps do come back after a blow-out, but usually only if they are in love.
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Feb 04, 2016Comments: 9 · Posts: 3545 · Topics: 254
If you find out how please let me know...been 5 yrs and im still stuck on him not sure when to give up
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Feb 01, 2015Comments: 51 · Posts: 446 · Topics: 27
You're very grounded. I admire it. What's your sign ^
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Feb 01, 2015Comments: 51 · Posts: 446 · Topics: 27
Ahh. The sweethearts of the zodiac. I kinda had a feeling!