How to Forget a Capricorn Man

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by mysterious on Thursday, December 17, 2015 and has 30 replies.
Good day all,

Met a Cap man a few months ago and we had great chemistry, however he went from I want to spent more time with you to disappearing totally. I reached out to him several times but no response even though I saw that he was online on whatsapp. So I have deleted his number because I want to move on. Last time I saw or spoke to him was two months ago so I doubt he is coming back. But I cant stop thinking about him and I really want to forget about him. He made me feel used, do Capricorn men always go around just hurting undeserving women like this? I was totally honest and upfront with him and he said he liked that. Sometimes I wonder if he misses me but anyway for the same of my heart how do I forget him, especially when the chemistry we had still lingers in my memory.

PS: I'm a Virgo woman.
Same boat girl.
Cap here, you must have done something to annoy him or he saw a side or something he didn't like.
Didnt he say anythin before disappearing?
Time is very important in life, don't wait around for him. Move on. You will never get this time back, regardless of sun sign, anyone who gives you a vibe that they are happy to ignore you when you reach out, fk them off. When someone's gives a fk, they engage, if they can happily blank you and risk losing you, then you should give them what they want and fk off out there life.
Posted by Venusinscorpio786
Time is very important in life, don't wait around for him. Move on. You will never get this time back, regardless of sun sign, anyone who gives you a vibe that they are happy to ignore you when you reach out, fk them off. When someone's gives a fk, they engage, if they can happily blank you and risk losing you, then you should give them what they want and fk off out there life.

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Couldn't have said it better myself. Thanks, saved me the typing! Lol Big Grin
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Posted by Pandala
Posted by Venusinscorpio786
Time is very important in life, don't wait around for him. Move on. You will never get this time back, regardless of sun sign, anyone who gives you a vibe that they are happy to ignore you when you reach out, fk them off. When someone's gives a fk, they engage, if they can happily blank you and risk losing you, then you should give them what they want and fk off out there life.

+1

Couldn't have said it better myself. Thanks, saved me the typing! Lol Big Grin

no disrecpetful but you are a scrop moon
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Again...?

Why does EVERYONE think I'm speaking for a whole Sign when I'm not?

No disrespect taken, but why even respond saying this?

I was going to say what they said... How does that AT ALL make it seem like I'm a Cap Sun trying to give advice?

Fuck, this is why I lurk :/
Bahahaha!

Fuck, thought I fixed that typo!

Thanks, jerk
When you find out this answer I would like to know also. LOL He will probably reach out to before you really forget all about him. You may have done something that made him upset or this could be his normal disappearing act. I haven’t been able to forget my Capricorn friend and I have tried numerous times. It got to the point where I think I can never cut him off for good because when I do we really miss each other and eventually start back seeing each other. The longer you hold on it will become harder to cut him off especially if he don’t allow it to happen.
I hate to say it but Cap men are good at forgetting about people. Logical question what stands out about you to remember?
Posted by frostey91
I hate to say it but Cap men are good at forgetting about people.

Sad but true.
Hey! Do you forget about him? Please tell me yes, cos i m in a same situation...
Posted by mysterious
Good day all,

Met a Cap man a few months ago and we had great chemistry, however he went from I want to spent more time with you to disappearing totally. I reached out to him several times but no response even though I saw that he was online on whatsapp. So I have deleted his number because I want to move on. Last time I saw or spoke to him was two months ago so I doubt he is coming back. But I cant stop thinking about him and I really want to forget about him. He made me feel used, do Capricorn men always go around just hurting undeserving women like this? I was totally honest and upfront with him and he said he liked that. Sometimes I wonder if he misses me but anyway for the same of my heart how do I forget him, especially when the chemistry we had still lingers in my memory.

PS: I'm a Virgo woman.

Sorry to hear this Mysterious. I know how hurtful it can be. Can't tell you how many times my Cap and I have fought and "got back together" in the last 8 months. PM if you want to talk.
Posted by SunMoonStars
Posted by mysterious
Good day all,

I reached out to him several times but no response even though I saw that he was online on whatsapp. .

I hope this was a vent and she's over it.
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What exactly did you do? If you didnt do anything don't worry about it. I have done a lot of things to my cap friend but I just apologize and tell him I love him and I wouldnt do anything to hurt him intentionally. I am very sincere with my apology. He will probably distance herself from you but eventually he'll come back. He will have his guards up. If he reallly care about you he would continue to see you.
If he think your a good person you will always have a chance.
Posted by mysterious
Good day all,

Met a Cap man a few months ago and we had great chemistry, however he went from I want to spent more time with you to disappearing totally. I reached out to him several times but no response even though I saw that he was online on whatsapp. So I have deleted his number because I want to move on. Last time I saw or spoke to him was two months ago so I doubt he is coming back. But I cant stop thinking about him and I really want to forget about him. He made me feel used, do Capricorn men always go around just hurting undeserving women like this? I was totally honest and upfront with him and he said he liked that. Sometimes I wonder if he misses me but anyway for the same of my heart how do I forget him, especially when the chemistry we had still lingers in my memory.

PS: I'm a Virgo woman.

Hey girl,
I am a virgo cusper and my cap just bolted after 4 months of declaring to everyone win his family/friend that I was the love of his life.
I too felt used in some aspects. I noticed some things didn't add up, and I spoke to him, this is what made him run.

Woman to woman, beyond astrology- If you feel used, you probably ARE being used. That is not a normal feeling. You need to trust your gut. Be thankful he did u a favor in cutting it off if that was the case. Capricorns can get us hooked because when they were 'there' it felt SO good. I can totally relate. I know my guy wasn't right, and couldn't fulfill my needs, but I still miss deeply the love and affection/fun we shared.

Start looking at yourself. Your needs. Do you really want someone who bailed? Is that acceptable? I think not....It's okay to miss and be sad, just don't lean too deep into it. Knowing it will pass and you will be okay is the best thing to cling to. Sending you lots of love and hope.
PS I will also add, getting to WORK can help. Start putting yourself into your work. I often will pick up a new skill. Start learning a new language, or something very physical (because this requires all my attention). It's a HUGE confidence builder, and it's very distracting. You gotta better yourself and be patient. Just know that it will pass.

PPS Sometimes they DO come back, just not full on. So be prepared for someone to pop up, even if it's just to say hi and gauge if you'll accept them, etc. An ex cap did me wrong wrong and I cut him out. About a year later he tries to re add me on fb. I Ignore. Almost 2 years later he calls me. I ignore. Finally I get a long winded text message apologizing and saying he values me as a friend and was sorry. He kept calling. I finally answered just because I felt sorry for him. I could tell he needed to make amends. We don't talk now. I just wanted to set his soul at ease, even though, he didn't really deserve it. So they do come back, just not to pursue a relationship in my experience.

This site is chock full of good advice as well:
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk
only reason a Cap would disappear like this is he saw you were inconsistent and/or you hurt him.
we don't just do it for no reason. if the other person seems wishy washy.. it's like, why waste our time

kind of weird to see a Virgo stress over a Cap though, considering I just had this same scenario pulled on me, but in reverse lol. I thought Virgos were the ones who pulled disappearing acts. anyway, bless your soul....I feel you sista. I'm in the same boat
^not true.
In my experience Caps cant handle anything other than praise. Any criticism of any kind or raising any rational issue in a relationship and they are gone.
I saw his behavior as psychotic. It was beyond what is reasonable.
But I may have just picked a rotten apple. Or two.
Posted by CapricornGuy12
only reason a Cap would disappear like this is he saw you were inconsistent and/or you hurt him.
we don't just do it for no reason. if the other person seems wishy washy.. it's like, why waste our time

kind of weird to see a Virgo stress over a Cap though, considering I just had this same scenario pulled on me, but in reverse lol. I thought Virgos were the ones who pulled disappearing acts. anyway, bless your soul....I feel you sista. I'm in the same boat

Plus 1 million we do not disappear for no reason
I do agree that it might be some kind of "inconsistent" behaviour that they interpret to be a big deal. Ie. You say you're only with him, but you won't give him a title (my situation). You say you care about him, but don't listen when he wants space. Caps tell you something briefly, and expect you to know which is fine but sometimes they are not great at transparency imo. Contrary to popular belief I think Caps do come back after a blow-out, but usually only if they are in love.
If you find out how please let me know...been 5 yrs and im still stuck on him not sure when to give up
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you find out how please let me know...been 5 yrs and im still stuck on him not sure when to give up

i'm bored so i'll tell you a story
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Yeah id like to hear a story now, and yes many men ask me out to dinner etc etc but I cant entertain them for some reason i not able to give anyone else a chance
Posted by faith $ golphin
If he think your a good person you will always have a chance.


Yeah once he's exhausted all his options.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you find out how please let me know...been 5 yrs and im still stuck on him not sure when to give up


Give up now.
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you find out how please let me know...been 5 yrs and im still stuck on him not sure when to give up

i remenber this boring science class when i was 17, we were seeing drugs effect, but at least drugs was finally a chapter were i could some fun, there was scientist doing an experience on one mouse. the purpose of this experience is about dependance.


so they were two cage, with two design different, the first week they give cocaine to the mouse and they put the mouse on the first cage.

the other week they put the mouse in an other cage but without giving her cocaine, the mouse just didnt give any fuck and didnt feel the need about cocaine.

the third week they put the mouse in the initially cage the one who she received cocaine, the mouse was stressed and running all over the cage, she was in need of cocaine, its because this place
remenbered cocaine.

and i feel the same depression when i pass in front of this library, its remenber my ex so bad, but when i'm far from it, then i'm feeling normal again.

so maybe your environemment remenber your ex,
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I love this....you may in fact be correct, then I should leave his country and move back to my home maybe. Love is a funny thing, ive always moved on easily from it this one has me in some sort of way
You're very grounded. I admire it. What's your sign ^
Ahh. The sweethearts of the zodiac. I kinda had a feeling!