Kryp
@Kryp
8 Years
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Posted by KrypI mean whenever I detach I don't love that person anymore or at least I don't necessarily cling onto them as I would have been. He likely moved on because he feels overwhelmed. No winning him back, at most you would be friends with benefits.
We broke up on October 1st and as a reaction, I tried to reason with him to come back for 4 days (not consecutively) of the same week. The week after, I tried to reason with him only 1/7 days. I gave up, since he told me,"leave me alone", "move on", "I'm not planning on coming back", "I don't love you anymore". Does he really feel this way after just 2-3 weeks of breaking up? The first week he was really cruel and cold to me. The second week, I heard he was pretty depressed so I talked to him to check up on him but told me to leave him alone again. And this week, he seemed to be content, I think.
Here's what led to our breakup:
Okay so we've dated for 8 months. The first 7 months, he was SUPER devoted and passionate towards me like, he loved me UNCONDITIONALLY and he was head to heels for me to make sure I was happy and safe and sound and stuff, he called me beautiful everyday. However, on the 8th month, external factors hit him and he told me to just be patient although I actually didn't (this is where i messed up) because he suddenly became distant which evoked feelings of insecurity and panic within myself. He was super distant and he didn't passionately love me which threw me off. So instead of being patient, I pushed him for more love without considering that he's already stressed out. With trying to please me and handle school at the same time, he dropped me because I overwhelmed him.
His chart:
Sun/ Cap
Moon/ Pisces
Mercury/ Cap
Venus/ Sagittarius
Rising/ Cancer

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Here's what led to our breakup:
Okay so we've dated for 8 months. The first 7 months, he was SUPER devoted and passionate towards me like, he loved me UNCONDITIONALLY and he was head to heels for me to make sure I was happy and safe and sound and stuff, he called me beautiful everyday. However, on the 8th month, external factors hit him and he told me to just be patient although I actually didn't (this is where i messed up) because he suddenly became distant which evoked feelings of insecurity and panic within myself. He was super distant and he didn't passionately love me which threw me off. So instead of being patient, I pushed him for more love without considering that he's already stressed out. With trying to please me and handle school at the same time, he dropped me because I overwhelmed him.
His chart:
Sun/ Cap
Moon/ Pisces
Mercury/ Cap
Venus/ Sagittarius
Rising/ Cancer