I, capricorn, ran away from a virgo

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by capris on Monday, February 28, 2011 and has 6 replies.
I am unsure of a virgo man's intentions so I cut off all communications with him e.g. social network online. We were put on a awkward position recently and one week passed and no communication. I was left so confused, but I wanted to make a decision looking at the big picture and not just from the superficial point of view. I've known this person for awhile, but only through social gatherings with friends and kept in touch for 3 yrs online. I listed the pros and cons in my head and there were more cons than pros, so I decided to not waste my time and stop myself before I fall for this guy. I did the same thing with a libra ex that broke up w/me that wouldn't let go. I wanted to move on from this libra and I finally did once he couldn't contact me anymore. This virgo doesn't even know how I am feeling or that I cut off all communication with him. I figured if this is meant to be, it will just happen. I am a little saddened by this, but I think it is for the best. Any cappies ever felt this way?
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I have a habit of cutting off all communication with people. I'm starting to think that maybe this isn't the best way to do things. For many Caps its the only way we know, but I personally think you should do it a bit differently this time and give him an explanation of why you are cutting him off. He may agree, he may disagree, or he may not care but don't leave him hanging. its not a good feeling when you are on the other end of the situation.
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2 yrs ago a similar situation happened btwn me and virgo and I confronted him. He basically pushed me away and I stopped talking to him. Two months later he apologized, kept in touch, then lead into a lot of flirting over time until recently. I have been thinking a lot whether I made the right decision. My head is telling me that I made the right decision, but my heart is disagreeing with my head.....
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Cappy, thanks for the input. I actually want to send him a short email about the whole thing, but my friends (aqua and cap) strongly think that I should leave it alone. I think that's why I feel so crappy cuz I'm not getting a closure.
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I am a virgo-libra cusp.
Are you sure this virgo doesn't know how you feel? He may have an idea for him to show an interest in you. And 1 week of no contact is really not a lot of time to judge how a relationship would go.
Anyway, I think you need to both 1. find out if he has actual feelings for you and 2. let him know to stop playing with your feelings - even if he's done so unwittingly.
What do I know? I've been trying to reconnect with a capricorn.
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I think he does know how I feel. We reconnected again not too long ago and it was like nothing happened. I did ask him about our situation, but it's really complicated. I just left it that way it is.....I know there's something there, prob just not the right time for both of us.
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