I have a crush on a CAPP! LOL.
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by pinklibra on Friday, December 13, 2013 and has 23 replies.
OMG, I know this pair is most likely never to happen. I??ve only come across I think like 3 caps in my whole life, and it ended up with us subconsciously agreeing to just stay friends through our actions. I mean we were attracted to each other no doubt, but just too darn different for any sparks to fly I guess. I??m very sociable when I like someone I like to be cute and flirt and try to charm the pants off of them. The cap men I??ve met are very quiet, somewhat distant but not too distant where I thought they didn??t like me. They are just my complete opposite. Very mellow, and just laid back. Some were very playful and funny, but not very romantic or lovey dovey or anything like that.
Anyway, I waited a looooong time for this guy to ask for my number. He finally broke down and asked like 2 days ago.lol. He??s so darn gorgeous. I wouldn??t have never guessed he was a capp, not saying caps are ugly, they??ve actually all been lookers, it??s just as I said I don??t normally attract caps for more than friendship. I know it might be too early to detect anything, which is why I say it??s just a little crush??_plus he??s younger than me. Yikes. I just want to know??_what should I expect from a Capricorn male when they like you? I??m curious.
Anyway, I waited a looooong time for this guy to ask for my number. He finally broke down and asked like 2 days ago.lol. He??s so darn gorgeous. I wouldn??t have never guessed he was a capp, not saying caps are ugly, they??ve actually all been lookers, it??s just as I said I don??t normally attract caps for more than friendship. I know it might be too early to detect anything, which is why I say it??s just a little crush??_plus he??s younger than me. Yikes. I just want to know??_what should I expect from a Capricorn male when they like you? I??m curious.
Aren't you with some crab?
^^ you mean he?
@Watercup: Nope. Ended that. Never again.
@Stillwater: I just turned 25 and he??s 21 turning 22 on Jan4th. LOL
@Stillwater: I just turned 25 and he??s 21 turning 22 on Jan4th. LOL
Hmm.. thanks. I??ll keep those things in mind. Patience, class, and manners. No problem. lol
I??d like to add, that there??s this one cap (friends now) that was very playful, he called me almost all day everyday mostly just to joke around and hang out(communication). He was very hard to read at the time though. We established a friendship because he had a girlfriend at the time. I was respectful so I didn??t call him he always called me, and we hung out in group settings, they were having problems and for some reason he took a liking to my advice and would often call to vent to me or ask what should he do to get back in good graces with her. He??s not like most Caps. That one was a helpless romantic. I??m talking fairytail type of love. Even down the line while we??ve stayed friends he??s like Valentino himself in all his relationships. Lol. Didn??t know caps were capable of such affection and theatrics. They just seem soooo..so, I don??t know grounded. Too grounded for that type of stuff. Perhaps he??s just the exception.
Then there was this other cap, that I later found out was in love with me after some years. Though when everyone was saying it I dismissed the idea completely because we argued all the time and were frequently at each other throat. Arguing over the remote at my aunts house in high school, and just the smallest stuff. Then one time I started believing everyone was when he pulled the plug out the wall and hung up on my boyfriend at the time when I was talking to him. I didn??t speak to the idiot for a month. Lol.
Then there was this other cap, that I later found out was in love with me after some years. Though when everyone was saying it I dismissed the idea completely because we argued all the time and were frequently at each other throat. Arguing over the remote at my aunts house in high school, and just the smallest stuff. Then one time I started believing everyone was when he pulled the plug out the wall and hung up on my boyfriend at the time when I was talking to him. I didn??t speak to the idiot for a month. Lol.
Posted by pinklibra
@Watercup: Nope. Ended that. Never again.
@Stillwater: I just turned 25 and he??s 21 turning 22 on Jan4th. LOL
Has Cancer tried to make contact since the breakup?
The Cappy I've been seeing for a few months is 7 years younger than me, but he has an older, mature spirit about him. Communication is a bit tricky. Just be very upfront, direct and honest. I find that mine gets tunnel vision when he's busy doing something. He won't answer the phone or text if he's preoccupied, but will get with me as soon as he's done. He's also very abrupt when he speaks, which rubbed me wrong at first. Libras use our charm and manners to get what we want. Caps are more direct without the pleasantries. Mine likes to please me. Whatever I want, within reason.
@Miss Libra: To your first question Cancer better keep his distance if he??s smart. I have zero intention on ever speaking to him again. The break-up was about 2 weeks ago and it happen just in time if you ask me, with one contact made by me 2 days afterwards cursing him out for lying, him swearing up and down he never did and it??s not what I think blah blah blah. No cares to get into it.I warned him that I don??t share, and I??ll be damned if I didn??t mean what the hell I said.
Now onto my Cap, I don??t know him very well. He??s already admitted and apologized telling me he??s not a very good texter. He always text back just not right away. I don??t care though, we aren??t that far along for me to care yet I guess. Something told me Caps are slow when interested. That??s not exactly a bad thing, as long as he shows me he still likes me. The other caps I liked had a way of letting me know they were still interested, while they were taking their sweet time I??d just do me I guess. Then out of nowhere I??d look up and we were spending a lot of time together. They are just so gosh darn hard to read sometimes. I can??t tell what they are doing and for damn sure not their thoughts lol.
Now onto my Cap, I don??t know him very well. He??s already admitted and apologized telling me he??s not a very good texter. He always text back just not right away. I don??t care though, we aren??t that far along for me to care yet I guess. Something told me Caps are slow when interested. That??s not exactly a bad thing, as long as he shows me he still likes me. The other caps I liked had a way of letting me know they were still interested, while they were taking their sweet time I??d just do me I guess. Then out of nowhere I??d look up and we were spending a lot of time together. They are just so gosh darn hard to read sometimes. I can??t tell what they are doing and for damn sure not their thoughts lol.
@Clueless: That??s unfortunate. Sorry to hear that. I delt with a mean cap, but I had a very smart mouth and I hurt his feelings plenty of times with half the effort. My motto is don??t start none, wont be none. I can truly like a guy but if he thinks for one second he??s gonna talk to me however just because I like him he??s sadly mistaken.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by pinklibra
@Clueless: That??s unfortunate. Sorry to hear that. I delt with a mean cap, but I had a very smart mouth and I hurt his feelings plenty of times with half the effort. My motto is don??t start none, wont be none. I can truly like a guy but if he thinks for one second he??s gonna talk to me however just because I like him he??s sadly mistaken.
He posts on the Cap board. He bullies meclick to expand
LOL, are you being serious?
@clueless: if I catch him bullying I??m gonna slice him with words lol. But on the real, I hate to hear that girl.
And as far as my cap goes, so far it??s just an appearance attraction. I hear you loud and clear. I??ve already ruled out cancer??s except for one (no offense), but the one I haven??t ruled out I??ve known my whole life literally, but all the other Cancers in the world can count on me running for dear life no matter how fine they are. I haven??t really had a bad taste left in my mouth by a cap. Even the one I argued with is a really good friend now. All my cap interest turned out to be life-long friends and acquaintances. Strange how you mentioned needing more warmth from them though. I guess it never got serious enough with them for me to experience that hunger or need for attention from them.
And as far as my cap goes, so far it??s just an appearance attraction. I hear you loud and clear. I??ve already ruled out cancer??s except for one (no offense), but the one I haven??t ruled out I??ve known my whole life literally, but all the other Cancers in the world can count on me running for dear life no matter how fine they are. I haven??t really had a bad taste left in my mouth by a cap. Even the one I argued with is a really good friend now. All my cap interest turned out to be life-long friends and acquaintances. Strange how you mentioned needing more warmth from them though. I guess it never got serious enough with them for me to experience that hunger or need for attention from them.
OH WAIT A MIN
I know WATERCUP is not the culprit? are you?
I know WATERCUP is not the culprit? are you?
Good luck...
no, seriously.
no, seriously.
Posted by pinklibra
OH WAIT A MIN
I know WATERCUP is not the culprit? are you?
Culprit? I'm an AQUARIAN
& she is supposedly "hurt" by a Cap. LOL, why would you even think that?
@Pinklibra: Stop trying to read him. As a Cap I can be boiling with anger or swooning of delight, you will see a glimmer in his eyes with the latter but until I burst and start fucking things up a single verbal warning is all you get.
Just ask him the impertinent questions. So much faster.
Just ask him the impertinent questions. So much faster.
PinkLibra don't do it. Don't start anything with him. SPEAK AND KEEP IT MOVING. They have bad communication skills. I am dating one now and I find that I am constantly trying to salvage this relationship. Much is lacking. Sad face. I so wished it work I really do. Optomist are like that, but these men are iliterate in the art of experiecing sushine. Some of them like doom and gloom and trust you don't want that.
Posted by capincPosted by WaterCupPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by pinklibra
@Clueless: That??s unfortunate. Sorry to hear that. I delt with a mean cap, but I had a very smart mouth and I hurt his feelings plenty of times with half the effort. My motto is don??t start none, wont be none. I can truly like a guy but if he thinks for one second he??s gonna talk to me however just because I like him he??s sadly mistaken.
He posts on the Cap board. He bullies me
LOL, are you being serious?
Lucriu can be cold sometimes.click to expand
Oh, I thought it was you
It depends on who YOU are. If you aren't super sensitive then you will be fine. If you're somewhat independent, then you will be fine.
And I feel like those are two qualities Libra's tend to have. Pretty level headed and very much independent.
But true Caps can be...cold blooooooded, in the words of rick james lol.
My mom is a libra, my dad is a capricorn. They're divorced, not very encouraging but just thought I'd add that in
And I feel like those are two qualities Libra's tend to have. Pretty level headed and very much independent.
But true Caps can be...cold blooooooded, in the words of rick james lol.
My mom is a libra, my dad is a capricorn. They're divorced, not very encouraging but just thought I'd add that in
I've noticed a lot of people like Caps on here, or maybe they're so mysterious that people need help figuring them out? It's like an epidemic lol.
Posted by FireyKitty
It depends on who YOU are. If you aren't super sensitive then you will be fine. If you're somewhat independent, then you will be fine.
And I feel like those are two qualities Libra's tend to have. Pretty level headed and very much independent.
But true Caps can be...cold blooooooded, in the words of rick james lol.
My mom is a libra, my dad is a capricorn. They're divorced, not very encouraging but just thought I'd add that in
this. If you're super sensitive, don't be with a cap, or a "darker" sign. Or what astrology deems darker. Believe me, if you are just in it to get a tough skin, you won't ever have one, because it comes first from childhood. (which i'm guessing the planets are in your favour or not depending on where/day you're born and so forth) sun sign is just the surface.
Posted by capinc
Cap and Libra can work fine. Been there done that.click to expand
do people actually believe if the couple parted ways and aren't together, that it did work?
because usually if it did work, you'd still be together.
Posted by ElusiveSoulPosted by lisabethur8
do people actually believe if the couple parted ways and aren't together, that it did work?
because usually if it did work, you'd still be together.
Took the words out my mouth!click to expand
*high-five*
Hey everyone, thanks for the comments. I??ll keep it in mind if this thing goes further. So far I just think he??s really cute. We??ve exchanged numbers and he invited me to his birthday party on the 4th, however now I don??t know if I??m going to go. He indirectly let it slip via social network under his birthday cake photo that some girl had bought the cake for him and he wrote ???I love my shorty.?? Now for those of you who don??t know what ???shorty?? means, it??s a pet name for someone you like. I texted him a few hours after seeing the post casually cool like ???Hey, random question I forgot to ask, you have a girlfriend or something??? He never responded, but he??s done that before. He told me upfront he??s not a really good texter, but frankly if I don??t get a response I??m prepared to let what I saw be my answer, and get cute and go somewhere else on the 4th. I have zero intentions on paying $ 20 to go to a club for a birthday party to see a guy that potentially already has someone, no thanks. lol
And I appreciate all the direct answers. I wouldn??t exactly say I??m sensitive unless I??m deeply in love. When I??m in love or in ???strong like?? my partner??s words or actions can slice through me easily. If I just ???like?? them, or have interest and they are bold and inconsiderate with words, I will become distant and turned off. I will eventually just fade off and disappear but it won??t hurt me.
And @Watercup I don??t pay attention to every post you make, nor have I ever visited your page so I forgot you were an Aquarius. You were the only one that responded to what she said, that??s why I asked. .
And I appreciate all the direct answers. I wouldn??t exactly say I??m sensitive unless I??m deeply in love. When I??m in love or in ???strong like?? my partner??s words or actions can slice through me easily. If I just ???like?? them, or have interest and they are bold and inconsiderate with words, I will become distant and turned off. I will eventually just fade off and disappear but it won??t hurt me.
And @Watercup I don??t pay attention to every post you make, nor have I ever visited your page so I forgot you were an Aquarius. You were the only one that responded to what she said, that??s why I asked. .
Good for you. Get cute and go else where.
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