I NEED A BALLER

Posted by blessyou
damn..I wanna say something but idk

Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
anyway, i can't find a man who is about his business to save my life. the men i meet just want to cruise. no ambition. smh

Idk, in my opinion, women can get more money than men, it's really these dudes fault, it's just the way the world is, girls can easily get any job like if a woman is unemployed then there's something gotta be wrong because girls have so many options to get money while most dudes can't sell their dixk, some dudes aren't assholish enough to land certain jobs in fields that are ran by assholes..when you meet with "no ambition" what makes him have no ambition other than laziness? You're not getting it, it's how the guy sees the world which is the actual truth, so yea it sounds like u need a sugar daddy which is cool..I ain't hear nothing about love in your whole essay so obviously that's not what you're looking for otherwise money wouldn't mean nothing to you..Listen, sell that pussy..I'm telling you, you're gonna meet a baller one day...Go and strip and get to hustling, tqlkin bout ambition? Go land you that baller, don't give up..like Rob Schneider said, "You can do it!" I believe in you hoe, you might want to so some kegels and tighten your pussy up and make sure you're at least a 10 before you even land one... Make sure he's dumb so he doesn't know how bad of person on the inside you are as well. Happy hunting.

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Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

the men i meet like to mooch off women. hate to work. no drive, no ambition. you don't have to be rich, but you have to have the ambition,the hunger. i cant respect a broke dude chasing pussy, only thinking about the next party. it's pathetic. get your life first. my cap dad had a law degree at 25 and was in his way. i need a soldier. a serious man, not a baffoon. so hard to find. sigh..

I'll tell you this much, you want someone successful. You need to get on the same level not saying you are or you aren't. But a successful man will always look at a woman and see where she is headed as well. So if you wanna move away from the immaturity of those low character guys, start investing more into yourself and your passions if you haven't already. Soon enough you'll attract that bird of feather.

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Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge personally I've lost the hunger because at the end of the day once you get the money you still need to be happy with yourself or have someone to be happy with and I'm not with the fake meet a girl who's only for my money shit so most guys don't like girls who like them for their money..even the unambitious ones, but especially the rich ones, unless they don't care about life and will make you his sugar daddy but other than that, I think dudes want true love no matter how mean or arrogant they come across because I talk with these guys, they fuck with hoes but they don't fuck with hoes if you catch my drift...

Posted by blessyou
I gave up on the hopes of getting rich but my ambitions are mostly through art and esoteric and mind pursuits. The girl I'm with knows that I'm beyond ambitious, it's easy to be stable at least for me..I lost my virginity to a Capricorn and she wasn't fuckin with dudes who had no money, let's put it that way, but I'm just saying, don't be scared to give yourself to unconditional love. I must be a god then because I can eternally love somebody.. I just feel like you slackin in the compassionate department..

Posted by aNEWday
That's strange. I only meet men with ambition who put success first. The just are non-commits like bc the have women throwing themselves at them. Is that what you want?

Could be more where I live, but I hardly find broke guys. Only the ones above.

Posted by aNEWday
They are just*

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by aNEWday
They are just*

no, i don't want that. maybe they haven't met the right girl?

and maybe you haven't met the right guy.. you're only selling yourself short not giving your all.to a man.. you pretty much have to use common sense now that you know better, do better..don't get tricked

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Posted by aNEWday
I don't know, maybe that's true but nowadays I feel for these men you have to be a 10++++ and I'm not that perfect, lol. In all areas of life of course. Men like that have many options

I do feel there are good ones out there that have it all, but it's not as easy to find them.

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Posted by blessyou
I gave up on the hopes of getting rich but my ambitions are mostly through art and esoteric and mind pursuits. The girl I'm with knows that I'm beyond ambitious, it's easy to be stable at least for me..I lost my virginity to a Capricorn and she wasn't fuckin with dudes who had no money, let's put it that way, but I'm just saying, don't be scared to give yourself to unconditional love. I must be a god then because I can eternally love somebody.. I just feel like you slackin in the compassionate department..

What's your placements?

Compassion? You don't know her as do I but I can tell you something. We caps harden up for a reason. As a matter of fact we give too much compassion to the ingrate inconsiderate assholes. Hoping that if we give enough 'compassion' and love then one day it will be reciprocated. Fuck you for trying to make this girl feel bad for finally getting some fucking standards instead of letting stupid useless ungrateful fucks leech and become a parasite off her.

Who the fuck are you to judge?

I thank God I'm finally becoming a shrewd bitch otherwise I might've gotten fucking crazy for giving 'unconditional' love to worthless shits who ain't Shit. And am already halfway there.

Fuck off you lil cunt and hopefully you find someone who's still stupid and clueless that believes in the myth of giving unconditional love to losers who can't offer shit not even a platter of emotional support.

Hi Kitten! How you doing? You go girl! Focus on you for a bit and start spoiling yourself for a change. Become a lil more selfish. Love you hun. You're in every right to start wanting better for yourself. Damn right and if it well ain't time.

All the best.

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Posted by blessyou
I have friends who are not wealthy they aren't leeches.. Just saying. I demonize hoes and gold diggers only. I have no remorse for those types. I not broke. You should see my house. I was broke. Learned that these bitches only like dudes with money. Hard on hoes. Suck it up bitzh. Literally

Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge

I'm Aquarius..

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Posted by blessyou
Hold up did op say she blocked 2 friends because they were broke lol Hahahahha...yoooo..cold world, no blanket..

ain't that something...

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Posted by Vixen2
Really....I think it should be about balance.
We only have this one life to live (that we can remember anyways). Some people just don't want to spend it doing monotonous shit that they don't enjoy...that they are just doing stuff to feed the commercialism in this country. Now...I'm not saying people with ambition, drive and money orientated are bad...whatever floats your boat.

But when I think back on my life, if I'm lucky enough to live old enough to reminisce...I'm not going to care if I drove a Bentley or how many flats screen tvs I had or if I wore Jimmy Choos...I'm going to think of all the love I've known...I don't want to think about all the things I wish I did instead of working 50+ hours a week.

I want to live life now...to the best of my ability. I still have to work, pay my bills, be responsible...but it's only a priority because it has to be...whatever spare time I have, it's not going to he spent working more, scheming to make more money, figuring out how I can stab people on the back to climb up the corporate ladder...nope.

It's just best to focus meeting men that have the same goals. Perhaps...you can become another online dating mogul by making a dating site just for Caps to meet other Caps.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge personally I've lost the hunger because at the end of the day once you get the money you still need to be happy with yourself or have someone to be happy with and I'm not with the fake meet a girl who's only for my money shit so most guys don't like girls who like them for their money..even the unambitious ones, but especially the rich ones, unless they don't care about life and will make you his sugar daddy but other than that, I think dudes want true love no matter how mean or arrogant they come across because I talk with these guys, they fuck with hoes but they don't fuck with hoes if you catch my drift...

no i don't catch your drift. at the end of the day, the only eternal love is Gods love. you don't "need" anyone. i feel you on "I think dudes want true love no matter how mean or arrogant they come across because I talk with these guys, they fuck with hoes but they don't fuck with hoes if you catch my drift". i see exactly what you are saying. however, get your life together first as a man, trust in God. the woman and the love will come. you say you have given up well i'm sorry but that's an excuse not to even try. I can't give a man true love who i cant respect. he doesnt have to be rich but he has to try and i'll meet him half way even if i have to work 2 jobs. i need a partner who shares my same attitude.

now that's what i don't agree with. personally i don't feel it's a woman's duty to hold down 2 jobs to meet their man halfway. bullshit. where i come from and how i was brought up, it's the man's duty to get his a** out there and work. i would never had let my woman slave for anybody. i was the provider in the household when i was married. but hey to each their own. do you. if you want to spoil your man or the dream man of your life, fine.

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Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge

oh ok I understand why u blocked them now. I had a block a couple friends recently too so my apologies. All them niggas wanna do is smoke all day and not make no money but you need money to smoke, I just fell back so I understand..

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Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

the men i meet like to mooch off women. hate to work. no drive, no ambition. you don't have to be rich, but you have to have the ambition,the hunger. i cant respect a broke dude chasing pussy, only thinking about the next party. it's pathetic. get your life first. my cap dad had a law degree at 25 and was in his way. i need a soldier. a serious man, not a baffoon. so hard to find. sigh..

maybe you should look into yourself on why you attract these kind of people, if you present yourself like a groupie, or easy smash, you're going to attract guys who are like that

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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Have passion in life and youll met an ambitious men

Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge

money is freedom but you're better off finding a guy who is loyal and not tryna cheat on you so you don't get your feelings hurt and it's better for business.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge

money is freedom but you're better off finding a guy who is loyal and not tryna cheat on you so you don't get your feelings hurt and it's better for business.

honey, i cant find find one. these % *^(*&* ain't loyal ! haha

Try finding a dude who's confident in himself without being too macho. Is it that hard to find a loyal guy out here..am I trippin?

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Posted by blessyou
@KittenLaRouge

Aha.. Now we getting somewhere. women been tryna be the man for so long and they fucked around and start making more money and became the bread winner and now the whine that they ain't no real men. That's why women's egos are so fuckin big, I be tryna humble these girls our here..But yo..it's good to be equal but women can stay at home and not get looked at as wrong, if a dude does that. He's unambitious.. Twisted society we live in man.

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Posted by blessyou
I have friends who are not wealthy they aren't leeches.. Just saying. I demonize hoes and gold diggers only. I have no remorse for those types. I not broke. You should see my house. I was broke. Learned that these bitches only like dudes with money. Hard on hoes. Suck it up bitzh. Literally

i have my money. show me you want to succeed. ill help you. that's all i ask.

You're too sweet. You remind me of myself alot.

I had the same mindset. I would help pay for men to go to interviews, buy presents, buy gas for their car, buy groceries. Girl No.

Don't help them.They got to want to help themselves.

They'll see you as a softie and take full advantage.
I often heard men say this amongst themselves. If you got yourself an Ass. Ride it.

Do not fall for that idealistic mess. It's a trap.

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Posted by blessyou
@babygurl

I bought my girl a lotta jewlery on Valentine's Day and she paid for dinner when we went out. It's not a trap. All men ain't tryna trap you. Don't be insecure now because you can't find what you looking for. Try harder but hey. .

Posted by blessyou
So you're meeting guys who don't want to get this money for a better life? Most likely they feel hopeless and this is the problem with people, because even though you're not his mommy or his family, as a human being, if you see someone struggling, show em the way, don't just say, "Aww I can't meet no good guys because they're all assholes and broke" in that old lady voice. chill..take a chill pill..breathe. relax. get to work on being a good person.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
i had to block 2 friends with bennys because they were bringing me down. i need a man who is about his money, a man with ambition who puts success before pussy. where is he?
God, money then men...in that order. Any cap girls find it hard to meet this type of gent?

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Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

the men i meet like to mooch off women. hate to work. no drive, no ambition. you don't have to be rich, but you have to have the ambition,the hunger. i cant respect a broke dude chasing pussy, only thinking about the next party. it's pathetic. get your life first. my cap dad had a law degree at 25 and was in his way. i need a soldier. a serious man, not a baffoon. so hard to find. sigh..

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Posted by SureShotCap
Sounds like your looking for me, so heres my mindset.

Problem: COMFORT

Example: You become comfortable or you let someone become comfortable

New belief: When you become comfortable you loose ambition to do anything new or anything at all, period! You will start to procrastinate, become ungrateful and unmotivated.

Action: I cannot let anyone arround me become comfortable in any area in their life. I motivate at least an upgrade to a part of someones life for the better. You should also expect the same motivation from your social circles, and lovers. It's a two way street.

My advice, to you my love is to stop letting anyone become comfortable around you. Control your life and get what you want with action not BELIEFS of false hope...

ANYONE GETTING TOO CLOSE AND/OR COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU IS A RED FLAG ALL DAY!

That makes no sense. I want the important people in my life to be comfortable around me and vice versa.

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Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

the men i meet like to mooch off women. hate to work. no drive, no ambition. you don't have to be rich, but you have to have the ambition,the hunger. i cant respect a broke dude chasing pussy, only thinking about the next party. it's pathetic. get your life first. my cap dad had a law degree at 25 and was in his way. i need a soldier. a serious man, not a baffoon. so hard to find. sigh..

You attract what you put out into this world.. You are the one who finds and puts up with these guys, maybe you need to reassess yourself and then you will start to attract what you want. If you are not a hard working, ambitious person yourself, how can you expect that of someone else? If you are then I don't see how you'd end up with these type of guys over and over again..

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Posted by Taureye
You sound like a female kanye Pre-Yeezus years

the men i meet like to mooch off women. hate to work. no drive, no ambition. you don't have to be rich, but you have to have the ambition,the hunger. i cant respect a broke dude chasing pussy, only thinking about the next party. it's pathetic. get your life first. my cap dad had a law degree at 25 and was in his way. i need a soldier. a serious man, not a baffoon. so hard to find. sigh..

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