IS CAPRICORN MAN IN LOVE OR LUST

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Khaleesi on Wednesday, August 6, 2014 and has 7 replies.

PLEASE SORRY FOR THE LENGTHY WRITE UP. NEED YOUR OPINIONS ON THIS. THANKS
I have known him for months now and we became very good friends. He has been nice to me and have always been interested in us dating. But we were both in a relationship so we became just good friends. He do tell me he wasn't happy in his relationship cause the girl won't let him touch her and they are in a long distance relationship. They have been dating for a year and some months. he said it is not really about sex but that feeling of her being attracted and attached to him is not there. He would say he wished m single. Over the months, I broke up with my bf and we started spending more time together. I started really liking him and m aware of rebound, so had to keep my distance as best as I can. He waited, and was always there. Then he was having a ceremony and his gf came around, he never told me, but was busy begging me to elevate him from a friend to a bf and also inviting me for the occasion. I went and dts wen I saw her. I Was angry and jealous. He apologised and told me he want to be with me and needed to see me..but felt I won't come if I knew she was around. That she has already told him before now, her family may not accept them getting married and she has not been caring and romantic. He doesn't feel the relationship. The next day, I was at his place to pick something up, he told me she was still around and he was with me for about 4 hrs in the house. She never came out of the room to be with him. I found that weird, since its a long distance relationship when they hardly see. we even had to go out and hang out for a couple more hours and he was free been away from her, evn though she was around. i went back home and he spent the night chatting me up.
after she went back to her state, we got really close and even made out. then i got insecure and ended what we had. the next day he chat me up that he couldnt handle me leaving and he has been admitted in the hospital (his genotype is SS,).. I had to meet him at the clinic, he begged me not to leave, and promised with time he will fix things. so we got back 2geda and tins were fine for a week..he was nice and sweet..alwys talk about how i make him feel like a man again, by cuddling him and making out. we even had sex once. then i decided to pick up his fone and saw her pictures and his chats wt her, still talking love with her..also found out he lied to me about something. i was hurt kept apologizing for days, sa
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said he likes her, but he love me. i tried to take us back to friends, but he wont have it..kept saying he want a relationship..but how can i have a relationship with him when hes still keeping her? we talked about it over and over again, he keeps saying he doesnt love her, cause if he did, he wont be with me. he said he hates been the one to end things in a relationship, thats why hes still with her..but he intends to meet her mum by august to know if her family will accept him or not? He just seem so sincere when he looks at me and talk about loving me, so i forgave him. we got all cozy again..
after a week, he was flirting with me about how he misses me including missing us making out, i sparked and asked if he will ever let her go or he just want to turn me to his sex buddy?. we quarreled, he apologised if he makes me feel like a sex tool but he doesnt see me as such. i used him some pretty harsh words on him though an he said i make him feel like an idiot and hes tired of feeling this way, so we should end whatever we have going and i agreed. the next day we saw and he apologised for asking us to end things, said it was a mistake, he cant handle it. he said he wished he can let me go, cause m so temperamental, but he has tried and he cant. i asked why he cant let her go, he said because they have gone too far, her family know him already and she has not really wronged him, so he cant just push her away..however her family dont know his health status, which is what he want to discuss with her mum in august, that he will be the happiest person if her mum rejects him cause of his health status.. said he wont be having all these discussions wt me if he doesnt love me.
i have tried letting him go too but its so hard. now we are back together again. but m still confused if he really luv me or hes just playing around. plus knowing he bought the other girl expensive things, before him and i got close and have pictures of both of them all over his phones, doesnt make it easier for me to believe he doesnt love her like he claimed.. PLEASE WHAT DO YOU THINK, DOES HE LOVE ME OR IS HE JUST PLAYING AROUND
N.B m Saggitarius, so m hot and impatient, plus i tend to over analyse everything.
Thanx
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Get out of this relationship if you are not just in it for the sex.
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He sounds selfish. Wants you both.
It's not his choice though, it's yours.
Do you want to be treated this way?
Walk.
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Oh no girl, get out while you still can! It's obvious he's telling you one thing and her another to keep you both. Don't waste anymore time.
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Sounds like a relationship of convenience...seems like you're always available at his every beckon call and she's not, so that could be the reason for his love of her..regardless of what he says too you. It's very possible that he respects her more because you are not giving him any ultimatums. He can be with you and her both at the same time and get away with it. Cap men..Well hell.....most men love a challenge and it seems like you're not presenting him with any. I think you are more of a play/sex thing for him. I think the further you get into him, the more you are setting yourself up to be hurt. Besides, if you really want to be just friends...stand on your word and do just that. If not, back away from him and move on with your life. If he wants you, he'll come and get you, but respect yourself a little more than that. When a Cap man is into you, trust me, you will know it. Also, wishing him well with his SS disease. I know that can take a toll on the body.
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thanks everyone for your advice this has really been helpful. i am working on, keeping my distance from him already.. guess if he really want a relationship, then he has to do more than just mere words
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