Posted by sagishereYou mean to tell me you're still wondering if you should ditch this dude TWO months later? God damn, get some self respect.
i met a really nice guy on the NOT dating website.he is cap sun,cap venus,aqua moon,libra mars. i am sag sun,cap venus scorpio moon,libra mars
we quickly found out that we turned out to be soulmates.we talked 24/7 for 2 weeks.once he said"i talk only to you and my gf.who are the same person!"he asked me alot about my views on marriage,family,kids..
i was nice to him.paid compliments back,showed that i am interested in him as a bf too..it seemed like we already were in the relationship(but we never met yet).and YET i seemed kinda independent and busy(i know cappies like such girls lol),i showed that I am affectionate but still independent..so I think I was not needy.
of course he did his famous disappearing acts for 2-5 days.i was patient and never bomrbarded him with messages.he always explained MIA by family/school problems
BUT once I asked him if he knows any more websites like that one(NOT dating,but this website is about our common hobby,where people can find friends).and he said that I should stop wasting my time on such stupid websites(hm.. he was online there too),they are full of retards and idiots, I should go read a book or workout instead of talking to idiots.I said "you spend your free time there too,i like this website because I met so many friends there and thanks for reminding, I will workout tonight"and then i added as a joke "or maybe you are just jealous hahahah"then he said"pls don`t get offended,it was a joke"i said that i don`t and sent some cool stuff to him(articles,pictures)like nothing happened.but it is been 11 days since he ignores me.he is not online on that website,does not accounts on facebook etc..and randomly appears on whatsapp(for a few minutes a day)
what happened?did i hurt him?was it jealosy?my last message to him was 10 day ago where I asked him if anything bad happened to him...
Posted by bittercupcakeI forgot to add that we live faraway from each other
Don’t excuse his disappearing act as being a ‘cap’ thing. This guy doesn’t sound really invested and I’m not surprised since you guys haven’t even met.