Posted by LadyTateSounds like he's not putting much effort into things with you, and that's what Caps are about.
How to tell if a cap man is not into u or if he's just being slow and steady? I been seeing this cap man, he 38, I'm 33, he work a lot and me too but I make time to talk to him everyday. If I don't text him he won't text me. But when I text him he always reply and if he don't reply right away he text me and tell me why he took long to reply. I been seeing him for a yr and he not tried to make us serious and we never met his family of friends. When j see him it's just always at his house we never go out. And when I stay with him it's just 1 night. But when we talk he say how he like me. He playing games or I think he seeing if I'm a good woman to date?
Posted by bkbella86Yes
A year and all you're getting are these crumbs? Do have time to waste or something? Sounds like bullshit to
Me.
If a person only talks to you when you reach out you have your answer. If you don't hit him up he will happily move on with his life as you stated. No dates either? Just Netflix and chilling? No no no no. And you've done yourself a disservice by accepting that.
He is not that into you.
You're are too old to just accept house dates, I'd give you a pass if you were a teen but they must learn too. A man that is into will take you out, will want you to have fun, want to show you off, want to experience things with you.
Are you sleeping with him?
Posted by SunMoonStarsPosted by LadyTateSounds like he's not putting much effort into things with you, and that's what Caps are about.
How to tell if a cap man is not into u or if he's just being slow and steady? I been seeing this cap man, he 38, I'm 33, he work a lot and me too but I make time to talk to him everyday. If I don't text him he won't text me. But when I text him he always reply and if he don't reply right away he text me and tell me why he took long to reply. I been seeing him for a yr and he not tried to make us serious and we never met his family of friends. When j see him it's just always at his house we never go out. And when I stay with him it's just 1 night. But when we talk he say how he like me. He playing games or I think he seeing if I'm a good woman to date?
Are you sure he's not dating other people?
I suggest that you have a talk with him and get a better understanding of what he's thinking when it comes to your relationship.click to expand
Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.click to expand
Posted by LadyTateWhere you friends prior to dating each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LadyTateWhere you friends prior to dating each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.click to expand
Posted by LadyTateIs he seeing if I am a good woman?
He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match.
Posted by LadyTateThat's not a friendship...that's dating.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LadyTateWhere you friends prior to dating each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.
Yea we talked on the phone a lot like everyday before we started having sexclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneHe say no sex is fine but ask that we both don't sleep with no one else until we figure out what we go do. He came just now and have me flowers and a ring he said is a promise ringPosted by LadyTateThat's not a friendship...that's dating.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LadyTateWhere you friends prior to dating each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.
Yea we talked on the phone a lot like everyday before we started having sex
The whole purpose of the communication between you two was to pursue a romantic relationship.
So you can't 'go back to being friends' if you never were to begin with. Him saying that is code for...lets continue to Netflix and chill/hookup.click to expand
Posted by LadyTatePosted by LadyNeptuneHe say no sex is fine but ask that we both don't sleep with no one else until we figure out what we go do. He came just now and have me flowers and a ring he said is a promise ringPosted by LadyTateThat's not a friendship...that's dating.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by LadyTateWhere you friends prior to dating each other?Posted by LadyNeptuneI am I text him this "I enjoy ur company but I want more than a friendship. It's been a yr and u stilll don't know if u want me or not so I think it's best we go our separate ways." His reply was "I never said I didn't want a relationship with I. I just said that at that moment I wasn't sure. I'm scared that I if we do get together and things done work out I will lose a beautiful friend. So with that I need u to make a promise to me that if things don't work with us that we will end the relationship amicably and stay friends." I never reply back to him.Posted by LadyTateIf a relationship was important to you, you should've made that known from the start.
I talk to my Cap today and I ask him where this going and if he want a relationship with me and he said he don't know yet. He likes me but he not definite if we go be a good match. I told him no more sex and he said he understand but still want to be friends and hang out. I said maybe and he ask that I just be patient and let him figure things out.
If he doesn't know if he wants to be with you after a year, more time isn't going to change that. Move on.
Yea we talked on the phone a lot like everyday before we started having sex
The whole purpose of the communication between you two was to pursue a romantic relationship.
So you can't 'go back to being friends' if you never were to begin with. Him saying that is code for...lets continue to Netflix and chill/hookup.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
Are you making these stories up? Last time you said you were both engaged to be married next year, and apparently fighting off his baby mother from attacking your car, where you happened to be online at the time to post the story live. Now you're friends and he's delivering you promise rings live, on the web, once more.