Is this capricorn stringing me along?

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Hello I'm a Virgo met a Capricorn 6 weeks ago, he is a lot older than I am, had 3 dates one week each. then he went away for work for 3 weeks.

He asked for my surname on first date. Kissed me on second, then on third date he talked about things we should do when he is back, I saw that as fake future and probably is trying to push for sex on third date... he tried to hold my hand in public but I didn't feel comfortable. He gave me chocolate and told him to let him know if I like it. He tried to come to my place at the end of third date I told him no.

The day after He texted me before he got on the plane. I never let him know if I like the chocolate, he followed me on instagram but I'm not following back. I can see most of the girls he follows are flat chest skinny fashion model. I'm a fitness model so I don't think I'm his type... Since then He would text me here and there but he isn't really that curious about my life. He texted me last week I responded and asked him questions. He replied but didn't ask me anything. So I stopped texting him as I can't see him really investing in our connection.

One week later he text me to talk about himself telling me he is back and asked about me, also telling me he is back but he didn't ask me out. I responded since he is asking me some real questions. I also asked him questions to keep the conversation going. He hasn't responded but he is posting stuff on instagram...
He followed you. You didn't follow him back ?
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.

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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...



Hmmm the fact that he just laughed when you asked "you only want me there cos you're bored " could mean that it is just about sex because if it wasn't I'd have thought he would have reassured you that's not the case.

I definitely wouldn't go on vacation with someone I've only known 3 weeks!!

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WonderWoman14 Gob_Shite pinkbird03 youngali Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...



Hmmm the fact that he just laughed when you asked "you only want me there cos you're bored " could mean that it is just about sex because if it wasn't I'd have thought he would have reassured you that's not the case.

I definitely wouldn't go on vacation with someone I've only known 3 weeks!!



See I saw it as her focusing on the negative part rather than the positive. I'm bored vs. I wish you were here with me.

To each their own...

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Haha that's my cynical mind. I'm getting her to edge on the side of caution that's all.

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WonderWoman14 Gob_Shite pinkbird03 youngali Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...



Hmmm the fact that he just laughed when you asked "you only want me there cos you're bored " could mean that it is just about sex because if it wasn't I'd have thought he would have reassured you that's not the case.

I definitely wouldn't go on vacation with someone I've only known 3 weeks!!



See I saw it as her focusing on the negative part rather than the positive. I'm bored vs. I wish you were here with me.

To each their own...



Haha that's my cynical mind. I'm getting her to edge on the side of caution that's all.

That's understandable.

It's just the way she said it makes her come off as insecure. Like she's waiting/ looking for him to validate or reassure her. I have to validate myself every day so I don't have the time or patience to do it for the both of us all the time.

A little bit of confidence goes a long way, especially when dating. If all he wanted was sex that does not require her to be there he could get sex while he's on vacation from anyone.

If you can't see that I'm here because I want to be here or that I want you here because I want you here then that's not my problem.
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Yes I get your point and you are right in what you're saying. I was just trying to give a different point of view on it.
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I don't expect him to spill his heart out right away. What I'm looking for is a balance between a emotional interest and physical interest. After all what good is there if someone is all over you without a real interest in who you are?

The other thing that made me take a step back was at the end of third date I said don't miss me too much when you are gone. He said I miss you already, I want to come upstairs with you. This came across he was only trying to get laid on third date. Also he I miss you already sounded really player like...

While he was away he said I'm bored I wish you were here to play with me. I said you only want me there when you are bored? He goes haha of course not. He also has a habit of texting when it suits him.

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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

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No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I don't expect him to spill his heart out right away. What I'm looking for is a balance between a emotional interest and physical interest. After all what good is there if someone is all over you without a real interest in who you are?

The other thing that made me take a step back was at the end of third date I said don't miss me too much when you are gone. He said I miss you already, I want to come upstairs with you. This came across he was only trying to get laid on third date. Also he I miss you already sounded really player like...

While he was away he said I'm bored I wish you were here to play with me. I said you only want me there when you are bored? He goes haha of course not. He also has a habit of texting when it suits him.

You really don't sound interested in him. Why stick around at all?

I'm not sure you understand him at all and I don't think he suits your needs.
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun @bkbella86

Not that I'm not interested, just letting you know what made me suspect he is stringing me along. I just think that if a guy is really interested they would try to get to know you. Not by keeping in touch... and if he was keen he would have asked me out after being away for 3 weeks.

some of you said I don't understand him. Do you understand him?
I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him

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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun @bkbella86

Not that I'm not interested, just letting you know what made me suspect he is stringing me along. I just think that if a guy is really interested they would try to get to know you. Not by keeping in touch... and if he was keen he would have asked me out after being away for 3 weeks.

some of you said I don't understand him. Do you understand him?
It you don't understand the person you are dating, it won't work out.Go find someone you understand. That will be a better match for you.

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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun @bkbella86

Not that I'm not interested, just letting you know what made me suspect he is stringing me along. I just think that if a guy is really interested they would try to get to know you. Not by keeping in touch... and if he was keen he would have asked me out after being away for 3 weeks.

some of you said I don't understand him. Do you understand him?
It you don't understand the person you are dating, it won't work out.Go find someone you understand. That will be a better match for you.

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Do you ?
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun @bkbella86

Not that I'm not interested, just letting you know what made me suspect he is stringing me along. I just think that if a guy is really interested they would try to get to know you. Not by keeping in touch... and if he was keen he would have asked me out after being away for 3 weeks.

some of you said I don't understand him. Do you understand him?
It you don't understand the person you are dating, it won't work out.Go find someone you understand. That will be a better match for you.

Do you ?
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Do I what? Understand him? As much as you've told me yes, but I personally don't know him so how could I possibly understand him in a completely non bias way right now?

Caps are a bit different than most on the outside. But they are just like everyone else on the inside.
I understand where the OP is coming from.

I know personally, even as a female, I don't like asking or answering a lot of questions. From some reason I don't think it's a real way to get to know someone. You are making me wonder if I don't seem interested in others, because I don't ask a lot of questions at all.

But even in saying that, I definitely understand your point. Asking questions IS a way to show interest in someone's life. It's very possible that he's not interested in the details of your life, which I'm guilty of this. If it's something that's important to you, then you may not be compatible in that way. It would feel odd to both of you if he's being forced to ask questions.
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I don't expect him to spill his heart out right away. What I'm looking for is a balance between a emotional interest and physical interest. After all what good is there if someone is all over you without a real interest in who you are?

The other thing that made me take a step back was at the end of third date I said don't miss me too much when you are gone. He said I miss you already, I want to come upstairs with you. This came across he was only trying to get laid on third date. Also he I miss you already sounded really player like...

While he was away he said I'm bored I wish you were here to play with me. I said you only want me there when you are bored? He goes haha of course not. He also has a habit of texting when it suits him.



Yeh I understand you. I'd feel the same way. "Here to play with me" ouch, sounds like an invitation to become his booty call.

You should clearly state your expectations. If you are looking for the right man to be in a relationship with, then say so. Doesnt matter if it's him or not. If you aren't interested in a fwb situation then say so asap.

You have to make clear what you are willing to invest your time, emotions and thoughts in. If he is on the same page with you then you can open up.

Btw a cap will highly respect you for putting your foot down. There are too many women playing a long, hoping for something devolope out of that "something" situation. There are only few women who put their feet down in the beginning and set boundaries.
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Btw a cap will highly respect you for putting your foot down. There are too many women playing a long, hoping for something devolope out of that "something" situation. There are only few women who put their feet down in the beginning and set boundaries.
The latest update is him texting me to "report" what he did the sat before but didn't ask anything about me. I tried to extend the convo he responded. I felt like he is not making effort / trying o get out of it so I stopped texting. 2 days ago he text me to ask questions. I responded the next day and he stopped responding.

I thought he hide all stories from me on Instagram. I had s friend looked and he cousins see stories ether. Anyway I finally followers back he is still not responding to text.

If he ever ask me out again I will tell him what I'm looking for
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I understand where the OP is coming from.

I know personally, even as a female, I don't like asking or answering a lot of questions. From some reason I don't think it's a real way to get to know someone. You are making me wonder if I don't seem interested in others, because I don't ask a lot of questions at all.

But even in saying that, I definitely understand your point. Asking questions IS a way to show interest in someone's life. It's very possible that he's not interested in the details of your life, which I'm guilty of this. If it's something that's important to you, then you may not be compatible in that way. It would feel odd to both of you if he's being forced to ask questions.
Fair enough. If you don't like to answer questions how would you like someone to show interest in your life via text / face to face?
I understand ops perspective too because I was involved in something very similar, which is why I'm more so encouraging her to move on. This is what I realized at the end.

Maybe if I was more patient with him and didn't become so frustrated and insecure by his lack of effort, we'd still be dating. He moves like a snail!

But hey, I have needs too and he's not compromising. Selfish a bit? Aren't we all?

He's judging everything I do and say- that doesn't make me comfortable because now I'm afraid to do and say anything. We both have walls up.

How the heck can we grow from this? Not going to happen. Move on now. Find someone who better fits your personality and needs.

Oh but he was really dreamy! ♥️

The end.

Don't know how much you can relate to this, but that's my story in a nutshell
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I understand ops perspective too because I was involved in something very similar, which is why I'm more so encouraging her to move on. This is what I realized at the end.

Maybe if I was more patient with him and didn't become so frustrated and insecure by his lack of effort, we'd still be dating. He moves like a snail!

But hey, I have needs too and he's not compromising. Selfish a bit? Aren't we all?

He's judging everything I do and say- that doesn't make me comfortable because now I'm afraid to do and say anything. We both have walls up.

How the heck can we grow from this? Not going to happen. Move on now. Find someone who better fits your personality and needs.

Oh but he was really dreamy! ♥️

The end.

Don't know how much you can relate to this, but that's my story in a nutshell
Thanks for sharing your stories. Well in person he is romantic but it's also important to see how he treats you when you are apart.

I feel like he might not be a keeper. I will see if he ask me out for vday. If he does I can tell he is serious about getting to know me better. If he doesn't I will move on and block him on all channels
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I understand ops perspective too because I was involved in something very similar, which is why I'm more so encouraging her to move on. This is what I realized at the end.

Maybe if I was more patient with him and didn't become so frustrated and insecure by his lack of effort, we'd still be dating. He moves like a snail!

But hey, I have needs too and he's not compromising. Selfish a bit? Aren't we all?

He's judging everything I do and say- that doesn't make me comfortable because now I'm afraid to do and say anything. We both have walls up.

How the heck can we grow from this? Not going to happen. Move on now. Find someone who better fits your personality and needs.

Oh but he was really dreamy! ♥️

The end.

Don't know how much you can relate to this, but that's my story in a nutshell
Thanks for sharing your stories. Well in person he is romantic but it's also important to see how he treats you when you are apart.

I feel like he might not be a keeper. I will see if he ask me out for vday. If he does I can tell he is serious about getting to know me better. If he doesn't I will move on and block him on all channels
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Yes they are sweet when you do get to actually hang out with them. Mine had a problem with texting too in the beginning. He mirrored my actions a little bit. When I texted him more, he texted me more. Kept the conversations interesting by talking about things he really enjoyed, such as controversial topics. That really got him rolling.
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I understand ops perspective too because I was involved in something very similar, which is why I'm more so encouraging her to move on. This is what I realized at the end.

Maybe if I was more patient with him and didn't become so frustrated and insecure by his lack of effort, we'd still be dating. He moves like a snail!

But hey, I have needs too and he's not compromising. Selfish a bit? Aren't we all?

He's judging everything I do and say- that doesn't make me comfortable because now I'm afraid to do and say anything. We both have walls up.

How the heck can we grow from this? Not going to happen. Move on now. Find someone who better fits your personality and needs.

Oh but he was really dreamy! ♥️

The end.

Don't know how much you can relate to this, but that's my story in a nutshell
Thanks for sharing your stories. Well in person he is romantic but it's also important to see how he treats you when you are apart.

I feel like he might not be a keeper. I will see if he ask me out for vday. If he does I can tell he is serious about getting to know me better. If he doesn't I will move on and block him on all channels
Yes they are sweet when you do get to actually hang out with them. Mine had a problem with texting too in the beginning. He mirrored my actions a little bit. When I texted him more, he texted me more. Kept the conversations interesting by talking about things he really enjoyed, such as controversial topics. That really got him rolling.
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Yep I did that but I stopped cos I think it has to be a 2 way street. Will see what happens as he knows I do like vday

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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him

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You would be surprised if I tell you I'm female if that's what you mean Big Grin

But his intentions are too obvious, can't be ignored.
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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him



You would be surprised if I tell you I'm female if that's what you mean Big Grin

But his intentions are too obvious, can't be ignored.
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Don't ask me why. My glance of your photo was 2 ppl hugging. Now I take a hard look it's a girls back ?

Yep that's how I feel when those ppl telling me I'm not interested or he is not for me will be the same ppl who say I give in too soon if I ever do anything with him.

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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him



You would be surprised if I tell you I'm female if that's what you mean Big Grin

But his intentions are too obvious, can't be ignored.
nobody wants to help my capricorn bro, to get this virgo

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I'm confused, why would they?? lol
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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him



You would be surprised if I tell you I'm female if that's what you mean Big Grin

But his intentions are too obvious, can't be ignored.
nobody wants to help my capricorn bro, to get this virgo



I'm confused, why would they?? lol
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Not being racist but French men have a reputation for being player and cheater. Sex is their national sport. The one I'm posting about is French
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.


What is your Sun and Moon anyways?

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Aries sun Pisces moon
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Posted by pinkbird03
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
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Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.
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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.


What is your Sun and Moon anyways?

Aries sun Pisces moon


We both have Pisces Moon. Awesome. So we should be able to understand each other's emotional depths. Also I am a Libra sun so technically, we could be a good match. Shrug.

But seriously. I think I've intuitively sensed Earth Signs to be not an acceptable match for me. Especially Caps and Virgos. Even tho my Virgo Venus and Virgo Juno works against me big time. I end up with people that are not good for me.

It really depends tho. My grandpa is a Cap and my Grandma a Pisces. I think the older generations of Earth signs were better because of the values that were upheld pretty strongly by everyone.
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My grandpa was a cap and the shit he did to my fam, my mom still to this day at 30 can't tell me. When I bring it up she gets silent and changes the subject but I already know it's just she can't bring herself to tell me.

But he did damage and I'm so happy he died before I was born. My gma is a Virgo, and while I do love and adore her, I resent her too. I wish I could be closer to her but knowing what she knew and didn't do anything about it makes me look at her funny. I don't hate her tho but I'm a bit salty with her.

Then my first bf was a cap and he scarred me for life. Cheating abusive dog. Super volitale and emotional.

I don't find earth signs emotional or sensitive enough for me. There's a huge barrier and I'm always the one who has to step out my comfort zone.

I never attract people who are good for me tho, I think it's my moon and the house my sun is in. I'm very skeptical of people at this point, but maybe that is the point. To pay close attention.


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I do understand him. He wants to stick his dick inside. Don't waste your time, he sounds like a trash
That's what I thought, glad this is coming from a man. I was curious what were the girls feeling when they were saying I don't understand him



You would be surprised if I tell you I'm female if that's what you mean Big Grin

But his intentions are too obvious, can't be ignored.
Don't ask me why. My glance of your photo was 2 ppl hugging. Now I take a hard look it's a girls back ?

Yep that's how I feel when those ppl telling me I'm not interested or he is not for me will be the same ppl who say I give in too soon if I ever do anything with him.

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My points have only been based on the fact that I think you are to busy trying to read him rather than just ask him. If you really don't feel like you know where you stand. You go at what pace suits you and if you think he's moving to fast and is only interested in sex then just ask him where you stand.

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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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Posted by Capri-sun
She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? Confused

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
oops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.
Good.
when a 18 yo shut the mouth of 30 yo ass,










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I talk when I want bitch.

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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.
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Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
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See kids, when some sensitive soul gets hurt twice due to abusive relationships and family, they immediately jump to the black & white, concluding that all Caps are bad.
You are tho. Just look at how your behaving. This is my experience and you can't change that. Beat it bitch.
@wonderwoman14 @capri-sun

Yup I'm very cautious and will just do it as likes for likes to intersect with his Instagram.

I will not contact him and if he does ask to meet him I might give him a chance to meet or I might just confront him if I can't bite my tongue lol
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.


What is your Sun and Moon anyways?

Aries sun Pisces moon


We both have Pisces Moon. Awesome. So we should be able to understand each other's emotional depths. Also I am a Libra sun so technically, we could be a good match. Shrug.

But seriously. I think I've intuitively sensed Earth Signs to be not an acceptable match for me. Especially Caps and Virgos. Even tho my Virgo Venus and Virgo Juno works against me big time. I end up with people that are not good for me.

It really depends tho. My grandpa is a Cap and my Grandma a Pisces. I think the older generations of Earth signs were better because of the values that were upheld pretty strongly by everyone.
My grandpa was a cap and the shit he did to my fam, my mom still to this day at 30 can't tell me. When I bring it up she gets silent and changes the subject but I already know it's just she can't bring herself to tell me.

But he did damage and I'm so happy he died before I was born. My gma is a Virgo, and while I do love and adore her, I resent her too. I wish I could be closer to her but knowing what she knew and didn't do anything about it makes me look at her funny. I don't hate her tho but I'm a bit salty with her.

Then my first bf was a cap and he scarred me for life. Cheating abusive dog. Super volitale and emotional.

I don't find earth signs emotional or sensitive enough for me. There's a huge barrier and I'm always the one who has to step out my comfort zone.

I never attract people who are good for me tho, I think it's my moon and the house my sun is in. I'm very skeptical of people at this point, but maybe that is the point. To pay close attention.



Well. My Grandpa is nothing like that. To me it sounds like this is a dated curse you are dealing with. One that is experienced in your family every time and every will until the cycle is broken.

My grandpa is your stereotypical good man type. Works hard, does the right thing.
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Both my grandpas were assholes. For diff reasons. Hate to say it. My other one was a libra who abandoned his family. The cap was a provider. But he fucked them up emotionally.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by StrawberryJam
@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding Winking

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid Tongue)
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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by pinkbird03
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@WonderWoman14 @Gob_Shite @pinkbird03 @youngali @Capri-sun

I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...

You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*

No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding Winking

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid Tongue)
Awesome
Still giving a fuck eh? Nice nice, and to say that you don't give a fuck is simply invalid and right now, my dear miss, you're being owned and roasted because you control your emotions worse than an 18 year old Cap.

And you were calling them weak earlier. Who's the tough guy now, tough guy?
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You are weak.

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