Just a thank you and a smile :)

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Hey Caps!
For those of you who remember or were involved I posted a long-@ $ $ message on your forum asking for advice about a cappie I was seeing, and the end result was us breaking up. I just wanted to say thanks for yall's advice and taking the time to try and help someone out ๐Ÿ™‚

This lady from Luxembourg has taught me so much about life. For reasons I finally understand completely, Its best to assume the timing wasnt right for us to be together. Maybe in the future, or in the next life we will meet again. I will always cherish the time we spent together as friends; we shared some wonderful moments. I still care about her a lot, but I've decided that its best we stay out of each others lives for a while until I can get myself not to be concerned if she is with someone else. I made the decision recently and removed her out of my social media. It wasnt anything personal, I just didnt want to see her around, because it would make me curious to what she's been up to, or if she's with anyone. I have no hard feelings, and I try to look back on our time together with a smile. I wish her (and by association all of you other cappies ๐Ÿ˜„)the best in what she does,for her to be happy, and that her wildest dreams will come true. Ive moved on but Ill always remember what she has taught me, and I hope that someday we can get back in touch.

Thanks again yall for the support and listening to my pouting 2 months ago lol. I just wanted to express my gratitude.๐Ÿ™‚
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Placidd
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sorry for getting back so late, I was running around/in and out of town the past few days.

Posted by xxoommmxxoo

Now tell us How you really feel hehe ๐Ÿ™‚



Oh gosh where do i start?... lolol

Mmmmm....I miss her sometimes, and since my fish head thinks about what would be different had I not done/ decided to do things, its tough sometimes still. buuuttt I try to stay with my head up and think of the reasons why I was unhappy.

all in all I learned that sometimes in the grand scheme of things my feelings can get in the way of making the right decision, but I know that everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. Sometimes feelings are important in making a decision and should not be overlooked, and sometimes they keep someone from doing the healthiest thing. When it comes to how I feel about her, we can say that ill always hold a special place in my heart for her ๐Ÿ˜›

Posted by Caplove
Awe.. I remember you! ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you for writing that, you're very sweet. I'm so glad that you've moved on to bigger and better things. Best of luck to you! ๐Ÿ™‚




Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚ Who knows? I might end up with another cappie girl ๐Ÿ˜›


Posted by truecap

I'm sorry it didn't work out. But keep that sweet disposition and positive attitude and you'll find the lady of your dreams!!



Thank you, I appreciate it. I cant wait till that day comes; I know that both of us will be lucky to have one another, and stick together through thick and thin ๐Ÿ™‚

Posted by aquapiscescusp

you can always pretend to be Lenny Kravitz



Hahahaha I can try that!! People always tell me I look a lot like him. Maybe I should try to get into the second "Hunger Games" movie if they are making one; Ill pose as Cinna's brother or something ๐Ÿ˜‰


Posted by lnana04

How mature and sweet! Its good when people can move on with no hard feelings.

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Thank you! One of my friends made a good point when giving me advice, and I realized that it was better to practice not having hard feelings and staying neutral:
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Placidd
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"Dont see her as someone bad, or pass judgement on the type of person she is, because there was a point in time at which you really wanted her..As long as both of you are good people at heart you should always look at it as two people who tried to have something together, but it didnt work out. Instead of being resentful that you were hurt by someone and that the relationship ended, you should be happy that it had happened."

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Posted by aquapiscescusp

you can always pretend to be Lenny Kravitz



Hahahaha I can try that!! People always tell me I look a lot like him. Maybe I should try to get into the second "Hunger Games" movie if they are making one; Ill pose as Cinna's brother or something ๐Ÿ˜‰


That's cool, can you sing like that? He's pretty damn sexy, you shouldn't have any problems with the ladies... are you gonna go my way
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Placidd
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Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by aquapiscescusp

you can always pretend to be Lenny Kravitz



Hahahaha I can try that!! People always tell me I look a lot like him. Maybe I should try to get into the second "Hunger Games" movie if they are making one; Ill pose as Cinna's brother or something ๐Ÿ˜‰


That's cool, can you sing like that? He's pretty damn sexy, you shouldn't have any problems with the ladies... are you gonna go my way
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Well actually......


I sorta do sound like him!! ๐Ÿ˜›

Now I just need the tattoos and Ill be set ๐Ÿ˜›