Just venting.....

My capricorn guy and me had a misunderstanding 3 weeks ago and suddenly he changed. He used to call me everyday on his way home and now he just call me before he goes to sleep. He used to text me like every 3-4 hours everyday just to check on me while both of us are at work but now, i have to do the iniative first. A lot have changed and I am so sad and wondering what went wrong. It was not my fault when we had that misunderstanding, i just don't understand how it happened and it ended up on me. Was my fault. I said sorry to him and i thought it's gonna be back to normal but its not. I don't know if he is drifting apart or what and i asked him if this is the end of the road for us and he said no.

Then 2 days ago, he asked me to join his company. He is just starting a small business and now, it makes me more confused.

Is he punishing me? Is he drifting away? And why does he wants me to join in his business if he is fading away?

Posted by Capmercury87
What's his venus

Sagitarrius

Constant texting is exhausting and time consuming. It's cute in the beginning but he has to resume his life.

Ask for time in person. That is what matters.

Posted by Capmercury87

Posted by Forreal68

Posted by Capmercury87
What's his venus

Sagitarrius

Run for the hills

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Can you elaborate more, please?

Posted by Forreal68

Posted by Capmercury87

Posted by Forreal68

Posted by Capmercury87
What's his venus

Sagitarrius

Run for the hills

Can you elaborate more, please?

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Google venus in Sag.

Read. Think.

Not that's it's going to help but apparently you don't want to ask him...so there is a problem! Poor communicating.

Don't have enough details, like how long you've been at it, but try giving a little more distance, seem too busy for him and see how he reacts. I'm cap and do not like people to feel clingy or contacting me often, unless I am in love, then I'm all about it. But when someone gives distance it makes me wonder what they are up to and how they are. Don't give too much distance though, just don't talk to him for a day or two, unless he initiates, don't feel obligated to be the one initiating everything.

Hes not mad hes just getting comfortable with you and its okay that he doesn't text you non stop. Hes right, hes not going anywhere even after you have a disagreement. Mine never goes anywhere after a disagreement, if anything he wants to get closer after that. Trust his words, hes loyal and he asked you to join his company which is a very good thing, he wants to include you in his future. Cap guys are naturally kind of reserved so you have to be the initiative warm person, they want reassurance and they want the relationship to be equal. They mostly do the work but sometimes make it a priority to reciprocate his efforts.