justSophs
@justSophs
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Just wanna F*%$!
Same birthday as mine...I hate when people chase me, I typically don't answer or sides etep it altogether by asking a question like he did.
side step
@CappyLuv...I thought so too but I realize that me growing up with brothers, & in the army makes for one hell of a sense of humor and the lil things bother him to a point that I didnt realize.
I am sensitive but he is so sensitive that it makes me look like a damm souless blood sucking heartless bioootcch.
@Quiet there ia a back story.....yea I kind of figured that but the last time we did it he kept on saying he dont want old granny sex. (it was our first time too) I think he was trying to prove that he could have sex becuz I made a joke waayy back that he was too soft to have sex freaky (lol). \
What happened is that we got all pumped ready to get it on & he looked at me for a condom...KILLED THE MOMENT, yea it was at my house & yeah I could of had one but I guess i expected him to have condoms & shyt I been working like a meniacal robot, having condoms around for sexless life style like the 1 i have was jus not feasible i guess. So I rolled over and proceeded to sleep very disappointed....he passes out then 2 hours later decided to get condoms, he came back and had sex with me, while I slept. The moment was done for me. He tried all these different positions & tried to do it really rough and fast. I just layed there like tic toc.
My problem is, from that, he assumes that it is gonna be boring with us, but he is not in tuned to me, and trying to turn me on the way I need to be to return on his investment, so to speak, so him saying "can u manage" struck a sour note with me, cause it just reveals his true selfish nature. Plus I hate when guys try to dominate me in bed to prove a point & thats what he did. A scorpio did that once & got kicked to curb real quick. men revel themselves in the way they fuck!
I am sensitive but he is so sensitive that it makes me look like a damm souless blood sucking heartless bioootcch.
@Quiet there ia a back story.....yea I kind of figured that but the last time we did it he kept on saying he dont want old granny sex. (it was our first time too) I think he was trying to prove that he could have sex becuz I made a joke waayy back that he was too soft to have sex freaky (lol). \
What happened is that we got all pumped ready to get it on & he looked at me for a condom...KILLED THE MOMENT, yea it was at my house & yeah I could of had one but I guess i expected him to have condoms & shyt I been working like a meniacal robot, having condoms around for sexless life style like the 1 i have was jus not feasible i guess. So I rolled over and proceeded to sleep very disappointed....he passes out then 2 hours later decided to get condoms, he came back and had sex with me, while I slept. The moment was done for me. He tried all these different positions & tried to do it really rough and fast. I just layed there like tic toc.
My problem is, from that, he assumes that it is gonna be boring with us, but he is not in tuned to me, and trying to turn me on the way I need to be to return on his investment, so to speak, so him saying "can u manage" struck a sour note with me, cause it just reveals his true selfish nature. Plus I hate when guys try to dominate me in bed to prove a point & thats what he did. A scorpio did that once & got kicked to curb real quick. men revel themselves in the way they fuck!
@tiki side step? I mean he's a weirdo....the cuspers are so tricky. Quite the contrary...i think he likes to be chased a bit....if I dont call him...he will call and bitch how comes I didnt call him.
He's so weird.....and we've broken up countless times.....I dont even know why I entertain him anymore, I am just lonely, tired of just being a workaaholic.
We dont communicate the same way, we never spend time 2gether...so I should just leave all this BS for the birds.
He's so weird.....and we've broken up countless times.....I dont even know why I entertain him anymore, I am just lonely, tired of just being a workaaholic.
We dont communicate the same way, we never spend time 2gether...so I should just leave all this BS for the birds.
Posted by justSophs
@tiki side step? I mean he's a weirdo....the cuspers are so tricky. Quite the contrary...i think he likes to be chased a bit....if I dont call him...he will call and bitch how comes I didnt call him.
He's so weird.....and we've broken up countless times.....I dont even know why I entertain him anymore, I am just lonely, tired of just being a workaaholic.
We dont communicate the same way, we never spend time 2gether...so I should just leave all this BS for the birds.
Well the men are much different than the women, It all depends on his level of maturity. An insecure Aqua can be very weird indeed, communication will suck because he/she may not be comfortable in his own skin (age plays a part in all that) some can be very insecure, emotionally shy and need validation through women in forms of chasing etc. I feel your frustration, doesn't seem like a good fit for you given that your working hard and need a man to lead you into love (so to speak). I'm a girl cusper so I don't know how much help I can be in this situation. With Aqua's you just have to go on and say how you feel and leave him alone to mull over it, he will adjust his behavior if he's sincerely into you and care about keeping you in his life but if he feel he can't measure up he will walk away.
I was reading your back story about the sex issue and I'm wondering why you allowed him to have sex with you when you slept, a simple no not now would have made it clear for him to either go back to sleep or leave but to have sex while sleeping, I dunno doesn't make sense to me, I can only imagine he was attempting to not dominate you but get a rouse out of you so you would participate with him sexually, laying there like a cold fish can really mess with a man's ego, wouldn't it have been better just to communicate to him that you weren't ready and maybe another time instead of laying there like tic toc, his self esteem must have plummeted into the ground, I would be hesitant go round 2 with you if I were him.
Posted by PurpleDiamondPosted by tiki33
I was reading your back story about the sex issue and I'm wondering why you allowed him to have sex with you when you slept, a simple no not now would have made it clear for him to either go back to sleep or leave but to have sex while sleeping, I dunno doesn't make sense to me, I can only imagine he was attempting to not dominate you but get a rouse out of you so you would participate with him sexually, laying there like a cold fish can really mess with a man's ego, wouldn't it have been better just to communicate to him that you weren't ready and maybe another time instead of laying there like tic toc, his self esteem must have plummeted into the ground, I would be hesitant go round 2 with you if I were him.
I doubt he cared about her sleeping. He had sex with her even without her "participating" because he wasn't going to be there with her and not get what he wanted, so he took it. They are very selfish and do not take no for an answer.click to expand
LOL damn...Ironically I have never dated another Aqua, so I can't even call it LOL....I can only take your word that he can't take no for an answer and was being selfish.
I would give the clothes off of my back to strangers, empty my pockets just so I wouldn't see another human being suffering, I just can't imagine being selfish like that but I have heard some terrible stories about Aqua men, my mom (Leo) dated an Aqua and I hated his ass, I forget why but they broke up b/c he was seeing another woman and my mom being a leo wasn't having that, cut him off completely.
Posted by PurpleDiamond
lol yes they are quite the cheaters and manipulaters errr they work my nerves lol. They start off all nice and giving in the beginning to pull you in but once they get the sex, they begin to show their true colors then. They really hype themselves up and believe they are way more than what they really are. Then when you start mirroring their selfish behavior, they start with the guilt trips trying to make you feel sorry for them because they know they really are insecure and can't handle what they dish out. My ex actually started crying lol, I looked over at him and wanted to slap his silly face lol because he was not crying over me, he was crying over the control he knew he did not have but thought he did. Girl Aquas are a mess lol. They're cool as friends as I get along great with the Aqua I was telling you about that share your birthday but I would not go beyond friendship with those men.
LOL@slap his silly face...SMH he sound like a big mess
I know the dark side of an Aqua all too well from the insecurities to the selfishness, it's tricky trying to balance selfish with giving, I ended up giving too much, forgot how to say no out of fear of being seen as selfish but eventually I found that balance as I matured and became more secure and confident...Weird that I haven't got on with any Aqua men, mostly gemini, fire signs and earth. My fiance is earth.
Any sign that hasn't evolved into his/her strengths is hard to deal with IMO.
@Tiki I participated but the moment was lost, & I was half asleep, so it wasnt the best but it wasn't my worst, plus he didnt warm the engine up. Actually we talk about it all the time and how WE can improve (his candidness is something i can appreciate sometimes)....funny enough he just left and almost saw this forum....that was close, he thought I was texting some guy *roll eyes*.
I made the first move, I asked for his number when we got 2gether (but then he admitted before we even met that he used to stalk my facebook, we had mutual friends before we met lol). It was like a month before my bday, I invited him to my party, he came, brought me some earrings & a card. That was 6 months ago & we had sex for the 1st time in January, like 2 weeks ago.
He is just such a weirdo becuz some days he is a Cap them others he is an Aqua a total anomaly, we bicker like a old couple but when we are 2gether the chemistry is crazzzzy. He still came over and we had no sex, we flirted, played with my dog. It was nice, maybe I am just high off of our visit just now, but it was really nice.
Its just so weird with us. We actually had a really good talk.....I guess all the bickering actually lead to some sort of understanding between us now. So weird...
I made the first move, I asked for his number when we got 2gether (but then he admitted before we even met that he used to stalk my facebook, we had mutual friends before we met lol). It was like a month before my bday, I invited him to my party, he came, brought me some earrings & a card. That was 6 months ago & we had sex for the 1st time in January, like 2 weeks ago.
He is just such a weirdo becuz some days he is a Cap them others he is an Aqua a total anomaly, we bicker like a old couple but when we are 2gether the chemistry is crazzzzy. He still came over and we had no sex, we flirted, played with my dog. It was nice, maybe I am just high off of our visit just now, but it was really nice.
Its just so weird with us. We actually had a really good talk.....I guess all the bickering actually lead to some sort of understanding between us now. So weird...
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Wat up Purple Diamond?
Oh no hijack away! Please this was created for all of us.
Last time I talk to Tiki she said she was deleting her account, glad to see she stuck around even though we disagree some of the time.
Last time I talk to Tiki she said she was deleting her account, glad to see she stuck around even though we disagree some of the time.
Posted by PurpleDiamond
Yup you're right.
You probably don't attract Aqua men because they can sense you'd be on to them. They are very good at picking their prey lol. I approached my ex Aqua because I wasn't looking for anything serious and just wanted a "fun" relationship so we hit it off great in the beginning and it was understood from the both of us that we didn't want anything serious. But I think he was use to girls saying they were ok with that arrangement but eventionally would push him for a serious relationship but I never did. I stayed detached and never wanted anything more from him but "fun" after all the sweet gestures and the sex, he couldn't understand why I was still "detached" and once he realized he hadn't "conquered" me like he'd done all the others, it went down hill from there. I had "fun" long enough and was ready to move on.
What sign is your fiance?
A detached woman will bring an Aquarius to his knee's, Aqua's (some) don't care for indifference and apathy or being ignored.
Posted by justSophs
@Tiki I participated but the moment was lost, & I was half asleep, so it wasnt the best but it wasn't my worst, plus he didnt warm the engine up. Actually we talk about it all the time and how WE can improve (his candidness is something i can appreciate sometimes)....funny enough he just left and almost saw this forum....that was close, he thought I was texting some guy *roll eyes*.
I made the first move, I asked for his number when we got 2gether (but then he admitted before we even met that he used to stalk my facebook, we had mutual friends before we met lol). It was like a month before my bday, I invited him to my party, he came, brought me some earrings & a card. That was 6 months ago & we had sex for the 1st time in January, like 2 weeks ago.
He is just such a weirdo becuz some days he is a Cap them others he is an Aqua a total anomaly, we bicker like a old couple but when we are 2gether the chemistry is crazzzzy. He still came over and we had no sex, we flirted, played with my dog. It was nice, maybe I am just high off of our visit just now, but it was really nice.
Its just so weird with us. We actually had a really good talk.....I guess all the bickering actually lead to some sort of understanding between us now. So weird...
LOL@He is just such a weirdo becuz some days he is a Cap them others he is an Aqua a total anomaly
That statement strikes a cord, it's so true
I like the chemistry is crazy part, I dunno, it seems you both really digging on one another, give it a chance, their will be hurdles to overcome but as long as the communication is open some things can be sorted out.
@ Happy cappy...Hey there! its been a long time! Hows the seaman work eh-em I mean navy treating ya? The army is pretty good, looking to get out pretty soon, hopefully.
You might like the Army might be better, who knows?
He came over but we didnt ending up doing it, we just talked and hung out a bit....which was cool because thats what we are lacking is the dates, and just spending time with each other. And a girl needs that sometimes to fully let her self go in the bedroom.
He is just so weird its so hard to explain but I find that alot with the cuspers, because I was dating some1 for like 3 months & that was a Aqua & Pisces cusp that was riddled with emotional baggage that took me for a loop, and was a very unforgiven person, as a cancer that shit was way too much, I was like deuces. I had t let that go.
But I hate to admit that I am slowly falling for this guy in a special way because we were friends for awhile and never romantic till recently.
@Tiki...I think my detachment from him is what he piqued his interest because he says that he wouldnt of taken me so seriously or put up with the bickering if we had hooked up earlier. I never called him or anything like that, I pursued then got cold on him.
now he want to impregnate me and get married *roll eyes*...baby, marriage HA! not I
You might like the Army might be better, who knows?
He came over but we didnt ending up doing it, we just talked and hung out a bit....which was cool because thats what we are lacking is the dates, and just spending time with each other. And a girl needs that sometimes to fully let her self go in the bedroom.
He is just so weird its so hard to explain but I find that alot with the cuspers, because I was dating some1 for like 3 months & that was a Aqua & Pisces cusp that was riddled with emotional baggage that took me for a loop, and was a very unforgiven person, as a cancer that shit was way too much, I was like deuces. I had t let that go.
But I hate to admit that I am slowly falling for this guy in a special way because we were friends for awhile and never romantic till recently.
@Tiki...I think my detachment from him is what he piqued his interest because he says that he wouldnt of taken me so seriously or put up with the bickering if we had hooked up earlier. I never called him or anything like that, I pursued then got cold on him.
now he want to impregnate me and get married *roll eyes*...baby, marriage HA! not I
dame here amethyst. but i have my standards...stupid as they may be. i need a committed relationship before i get wild...if only :/
same*
dame here amethyst. but i have my standards...stupid as they may be. i need a committed relationship before i get wild...if only :/
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