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lying with indirect responses
She probably thinks she answered the question. She may have thought you meant what did you do tonight and she responded she went to sleep.
In general, I'm pretty honest. However, if I feel you're driving at something then I'll avoid, avoid, avoid and talk around the question. Then, if you keep driving, I'll turn it around on you and make you the bad guy. But that's only if I have something to hide or something I don't want you to know about OR just because I'm pissed off because you're being suspicious and doubting me.
In this case, though, I think she felt like she answered the question you were really asking. Did you stay in? I went to sleep. To her, the response was obviously I stayed home, I went to sleep.
In general, I'm pretty honest. However, if I feel you're driving at something then I'll avoid, avoid, avoid and talk around the question. Then, if you keep driving, I'll turn it around on you and make you the bad guy. But that's only if I have something to hide or something I don't want you to know about OR just because I'm pissed off because you're being suspicious and doubting me.
In this case, though, I think she felt like she answered the question you were really asking. Did you stay in? I went to sleep. To her, the response was obviously I stayed home, I went to sleep.
If you have a ton of negative thoughts, and you feel she may be lying then take a step back. It seems you are getting irritated and frustrated ontop of negative, which creates pressure for her and probably makes her avoid answering since she sense it will be analyzed to death and there is a wrong/right answer or even way to answer each question..
It doesnt sound like you trust her, which is a problem.
It doesnt sound like you trust her, which is a problem.
Yeah I'm kinda negative too at times
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Posted by Lucciferi
Lol, in my opinion, you are indeed over thinking it. However, you are right, she didn't answer your question and I agree it can get annoying.
If it was at night and she fell asleep, chances are she's staying in that night.
Maybe that's too far of a stretch to make? I don't think so. Hm.
Anyways, don't make it a bigger issue than it is.
She texted me just now and said "sorry I fell asleep last night"
understandable. I'm just over thinking as usual -_____-
Posted by truecap
She probably thinks she answered the question. She may have thought you meant what did you do tonight and she responded she went to sleep.
In general, I'm pretty honest. However, if I feel you're driving at something then I'll avoid, avoid, avoid and talk around the question. Then, if you keep driving, I'll turn it around on you and make you the bad guy. But that's only if I have something to hide or something I don't want you to know about OR just because I'm pissed off because you're being suspicious and doubting me.
In this case, though, I think she felt like she answered the question you were really asking. Did you stay in? I went to sleep. To her, the response was obviously I stayed home, I went to sleep.
fair enough truecap and thank you. I'm still learning more and more about this one.
Might be something I need to just get use to..
Posted by lnana04
If you have a ton of negative thoughts, and you feel she may be lying then take a step back. It seems you are getting irritated and frustrated ontop of negative, which creates pressure for her and probably makes her avoid answering since she sense it will be analyzed to death and there is a wrong/right answer or even way to answer each question..
It doesnt sound like you trust her, which is a problem.
I trust her to some extent, of course she does not have my full trust yet...nor will I ever know if and when she ever will.
She hasn't given me a reason to NOT trust her though.. but I just don't trust easy in general.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I'm kinda negative too at times
:/
you gotta be to protect yourself
Posted by ryu8Posted by Lucciferi
Lol, in my opinion, you are indeed over thinking it. However, you are right, she didn't answer your question and I agree it can get annoying.
If it was at night and she fell asleep, chances are she's staying in that night.
Maybe that's too far of a stretch to make? I don't think so. Hm.
Anyways, don't make it a bigger issue than it is.
She texted me just now and said "sorry I fell asleep last night"
understandable. I'm just over thinking as usual -_____-click to expand
Yes, I think you are over thinking (I'm guilty of it too, scorp venus and all). 🙂
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