mixed signal, mind games? confused...what the hell
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by PerfectlyVirgo on Monday, May 13, 2013 and has 10 replies.
Ok so after my Cap cried out to me begging me to stay in his life...as a friend or whatever and after crying out he flirted heavily with me. One week later I said I told him I missed him as he was busy this weekend..so today I was like how are you, I miss u, hope u have a good day at work. He goes "thanks, you too" then I told him to call me...and he says,"iigh" ummmmmmmmmm he makes me feel like bothering him...but he wanted me to stay...n flirted with me...and now it's like whatever to him? I don't get it...idk if he even cares im so frustrated and if I walk out again he'll blame ME and tell me im playing the victim and im playing games ....it's ridiculous.
Should I answer if he calls...cuz I really don't want to talk to him because I'm annoyed by his inconsistency
Thanks! Appreciate all the advice, absolutely right.
Posted by xxoommmxxoo
hmmm, i'm dealing with the same behaviour from a virgo man right now. WTH indeed.
Not gonna lie we virgos are very similar to caps, sometimes we just don't like being bothered. We just like to be alone by ourselves. We're weird people also lol
Posted by kalin
They are good at making people feel guilty. Whenever I ignored the Cap I know, he'd leave me LONG messages, telling me how much he misses me, how much he's been worried about me, and just wanted to make sure I'm ok....blah blah
I finally got rid of the Cap after 4 years, after I changed my number. (He tried to email me after that, but I just ignored him.) They are very good at mind-fucking, just my own experience though. Hope yours was just busy.
Wow... :/
The fact that he begged you to be his friend and stay in his life is just showing that he isn't ready to let you go. Are you the only one he's close to? It's comforting to him to know that you are there when he needs you and when he feels like talking to you. I think you should stop texting him and not communicate with him for awhile. Just give each other space. It doesn't sound like he actually wants to be with you in the long run. It just seem like he just doesn't want to be alone but it's just my opinion and he sounds just like a Cappie.
Posted by noonie1801
The fact that he begged you to be his friend and stay in his life is just showing that he isn't ready to let you go. Are you the only one he's close to? It's comforting to him to know that you are there when he needs you and when he feels like talking to you. I think you should stop texting him and not communicate with him for awhile. Just give each other space. It doesn't sound like he actually wants to be with you in the long run. It just seem like he just doesn't want to be alone but it's just my opinion and he sounds just like a Cappie.
Yeah he has told me things he hasn't told anyone before. He's most closest with me. He's very vulnerable and open with me and I think he hates that. Yh I don't think he wants to be with me
he didnt call so I texted to make sure he got hom safe..he responded within seconds n,said thanks...i asked if he was mad at me is that why he didnt call...and he said he doesn't feel like talking :/ which is weird. I think im starting to get a hint that he doesn't really care.....
Posted by PerfectlyVirgo
he didnt call so I texted to make sure he got hom safe..he responded within seconds n,said thanks...i asked if he was mad at me is that why he didnt call...and he said he doesn't feel like talking :/ which is weird. I think im starting to get a hint that he doesn't really care.....
Sounds like you're chasing him and begging for his attention. STOP!!!! Let HIM approach YOU!
Be cool.
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