Moving too fast...

Well me and my ex Scorp recently decided to hook back up Thursday. And me being the idiot I am decided to say yes. And already I feel I'm making a mistake. We did some things that I felt sealed the deal. But I feel I'm making a mistake again. She came back after a few months in Virginia dealing with her issues. And something in me said hopefully she cleared the plate and come back like she had sense. But already I'm feeling like something is very iffy and I sense it. I don't know why my emotions gave in at that moment as it felt like spur of the moment for both of us. She came out of the blue and said she made mistakes and wanted to do things over on a clean slate. It just feels weird, it felt like it moved too fast. I've had issues where some things moved fast, but not quicker than this. Is there some kind of ulterior motive behind what happened? My mind is telling me not to trust my heart or anything else. If there's anybody who has dealt with situations like this. Can you give me some insight? Because I'm a bit off on what to do when I suspect ulterior motives and something's a foot.

Posted by Impulsv
There doesn't have to be an ulterior motive but it feels like u need to tell her ur issues of what went wrong. Not accusing and staying u do want to start a clean slate but let her know your concerns. She needs to hear ur side n from what I'm hearing u never discussed it. I think that's were ur nagging feeling is about. Depending how she responds ur have a better indication how to proceed .
I would cut it without u having that convo

Well yeah. I guess that sounds reasonable. If I get the time tomorrow I shall talk to her about it. But even her sister is telling me to not trust her one bit. I feel she holds something against her harshly.

Posted by StillWater
you don't have to write the whole thing off but investigate.

Still. What keeps happening to your profile pic. I've noticed this more than once.

Posted by StillWater
I see you've updated yours though and it will take a bit of time to actually see it on the boards though. I like the new one.

Thanks. I needed to change anyway. It gets a bit boring looking at the same pic everyday. But I should make it a every 3 month change or so.

Well. Fuck. She cheated on me again. My mind saw this shit going to happen again. But I guess it's to be predicted from her. Well I'm done with that shit. I told her how I felt and told her to personally go fuck herself and I sincerely hoped that no man ever believed her bullshit excuses. Well, I'm outtie on that. I'll find someone better.

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Posted by StillWater
Sorry to hear, hun. Scorpios pride themselves on good intuition but we Caps have it too. It's just that we have a hard time validating those feelings without actual facts. This was a good lesson to learn to listen to your intuition more.

You gave it a chance and she's still a dirt bag so good to move on.

This is a lesson I've had to learn the hard way. Those bad feelings are there for a reason.

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We've all had to one way or another. I learned my lesson when I was 14. It made me feel empty for a day or two, but it made me trust my instinct much more afterwards. It was one of those things that ran its course for a while when I was younger and we unexpectedly called it off and I felt bad. But lesson learned, expect the expected.

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Well. Fuck. She cheated on me again. My mind saw this shit going to happen again. But I guess it's to be predicted from her. Well I'm done with that shit. I told her how I felt and told her to personally go fuck herself and I sincerely hoped that no man ever believed her bullshit excuses. Well, I'm outtie on that. I'll find someone better.

I'm sorry you feel hurt.

What did she do and what were these excuses?

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Cheated on me again was the first. Her sister and I are pretty good friends, enough that she'd keep a eye on her sister for me. Didn't ask her to but she did so anyway. She's a bit of a spy and looked through her phone and checked that she was sending messages to some other dude and nude photos and lot of other stuff I didn't want to see. Needless of detail, I knew the guy and he fessed up what was going on. She tried to straight up tell me lies till the end even when the evidence was in her face. She cried about it, but I didn't care I just told her to leave and told her that I hope that no other man has to deal with her bullshit and her lies and her irresponsibility. She lives with her mom for fuck's sake. She ain't making a effort to get a job or any forms of education. I feel bad for her mom now too because she has to deal with a daughter being nothing more than a parasite to her past 18. I seriously hopes she learns to grow the fuck up because I can't think of any man who'd deal with her trifling ass. Sorry for the language, that's just how I feel about her now, me and her sister the same.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
gotcha.

that's really too bad.

I'm sorry to hear that.

It's cool. I'm not really sad since I feel like I expected it from the beginning.

Nah her sister isn't sabotaging things for me. Me and her have been good friends for a long while, she also a Scorp strangely. After the first breakup and she saw how she done me she was very concerned with helping me get through it. And besides that she pretty much hates her sister because of the wway she treated me and other men and how weak willed she is and the fact she quit school all for one of her ex's. And when she came back she acted holier than thou and was starting fight with her from the sideline and tried to justify all the shit she did. Eventually she admitted it was stupid and not worth it. I just think she was sorry that she had to face her family again. I really don't think there's an agenda. Even my best friend doubted her seriously and thought she was going behind my back too. I just needed confirmation. I really don't think a friendship is salvageable for someone who'd lie to me like that. And Luc, Lol. More like kick the rocks and break a toe.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
*eek*

two young scorpios fighting over a cap. bound to be ugly.

okay, fair enough 🙂

No I assure her sister is not fighting over me. I tried to hook up with her once she wasn't interested. She just doesn't date anyone in general and my friend is trying to hook up with her and I wanna support and not break him.

But it would be awesome if they were.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
A good Scorpio would never in a million years pull the shit this sister is pulling on her family member. I am here to tell you that sissy poo is pulling some water fucked up magic on you.

We pull rank with family always. I wouldn't trust a Scorpio who puts some ex boyfriend over family as far as I could throw them

Just saying. You have been warned.

Think man. This sister is pulling your mind apart. This is all grey lizard shit.

Carry on.

Woah I'm not her ex. She hates her sister so I see some justification in what she did. But I know what my ex did was wrong and tried to lie till the very end. I know the dude she was talking to and he eventually admitted they were doing stuff behind my back. But even he didn't know that she was dating me and the blame is really on her for thinking with her vag and not her head. She may seem dark, but I highly doubt Grey lizard. She wouldn't do shit to intentionally sabotage me. If anything. A demon with a angel's heart. My ex, a Angel with a demon's heart.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I think they are both really emotionally unhealthy young ladies.

So I've been told. I knew this. I always thought her sister was the most emotionally unhealthy. But with the bullshit she did and the things she's lived to regret and not regret and puts justification in what she did. I think the other way around for the most.