Need advice on Cap response.....What does he mean?

My cap and I were intimate for the first time on 3/23. Afterwards, he did the disappearing thing so I sent him a communication asking him what was up; 4 days later he responds...Below is his response. What do you think he means when he says that he look higher and deeper for more out and within me?

Hello Baby-Girl!
Something has taking place that shouldn't have for as my Business is concorned, and this Investor, so I have been talking with the Attorney's trying to figure what is the BEST route to go. So, that is why I haven't been able to communicate with you.
One key thing, I want or need to share with you. For as to what happened this past Sunday, there was NO respect taking away from you at ALL. Moreso, it was MUCH respect given because of your REALINESS with me. I Like you, I think that you are a BEAUTIFUL young Lady... I would Love to have more with you. In fact, I thank God for allowing us to cross each other past. I believe in God and I can see that you TRUST in Him (God). That means something to me. I believe in you, I trust you, and I look higher and deeper for more out and within you.

I hope that you are able to understand what I am saying. May the Good Lord continue to be upon and within you and your family.

Whatever you want it to mean.

Why is it that we have selective comprehension?

This message clearly states, and yet, you choose to not understand what it means .... why?

Why do people feed insecurity?

P-angel,

No offense but if I was clear on what it meant; I would not have posted it for other to provide insight. Thank you for your opinion but I would like to hear from others who can provide useful opinions and not insults.

Any other useful opinions out there?

"I believe in you, I trust you, and I look higher and deeper for more out and within you."

When a cap says he/she trusts you, they mean it! They kinda want to hear the same from you. They want to feel that they are being trusted/believed in too (prolly as much as they trust/believe you). Until they do, they feel insecure. IF you do trust him equally, let him know....I bet he wants to hear it before he can "look higher and deeper for more out and within you."

That's just my 2 cents!

That wasn't an insult .. it only appeared to be one to you because you didn't understand what it implied.


A person is very aware of what it means when another talks to them about the depth of a person. If you were talking to your friend or mother .. you would comprehend emotional depth.

In this scenerio, the same thing is being said .. yet, because you have feelings for him, you elect not to comprehend because you want more emotional nurturing to validate what your intellect already knows.

And this is indeed, breeding an insecurity = the infamous emotional baggage that females carry.

You have a fear of him not wanting you the way you want him to, gauged off of other injuries from past experiences ... this influences you to want his words to mean something more than what they do, or what your intelligence tells you that they mean because of allowing insecure emotions to supercede reason.

He wants to get to know you on a deeper level .. and you say it's confusing ...

.. actually "think" about that ....

Thanks P-Angel for clearing this up. I see your point and you are right....I still am not clear on what he means when he says a deeper level....my instincts say more than sex...more substance....

Can I asked you a question? why wait four days.. we are all busy!! A simple text or phone call would have been nice. I say just stop worrying about what it means or why he said it its just going to consume you! Let him contact you on the phone.. I mean crap you shared and intiment moment and he didnt even call the next day!! Thats not cool...

Aries and this is ONLY my 2 cents and opinion, it seems he's blowing you off, there is no reason for him NOT to speak with you especially after you gave him a special part of you, he seems good with words like most Caps, I know a few and they have the ability to draw me in mentally which is a great thing but back to the issue at hand. I'm suspect when a man sends emails/text that render no understanding and it sucks to have to deal with those kind of messages via text or email. I would step back, take time to make sure your health is good and leave him alone to himself. You can't really have expectations with a man that you may not have established a foundation with. If you like him or even love him you really can make the mistake allowing your feelings to lead when he's not really allowing anything in. He's not sure what he wants with you and thats what I gathered from that email, it was a nice way of blowing you off until he's ready to have another sexual encounter.

I jus read GEG's post and I agree totally, there is no reason not to call to touch basis with you, when a guy has sex and doesn't follow up a day or so later i'm suspecting he got what he wanted and has moved on.

Tiki~ why are you posting this now to her? You read her other thread of "Sensitive..." - she's still seeing the guy. I would want to know though what's going on here besides sex though. Is he taking you out and getting together without the sex sometimes?

Capgirl why do you care? But if you must know, I'm bored and I felt like it.

Thanks tiki33. I have decided to leave him alone all together. You are dead on. I believe he is blowing me off and use my body when he wants sex again. We don't do anything outside of sex.

Are you serious—...what more do you need to hear...I would kill to hear my Cappy say those words to me.!!!