need help figuring out this capricorn guy...

Hey guys!Excuse my bad english but I really need some help understanding this capricorn man, I feel so desperate 😄 . We met about two months ago in a disco (we have mutual friends) and he hit on me right away. There were other men trying to danse with me and my capricorn guy was kind of chasing them away. After that he started talking to me and in a few hours he was already trying to make out with me which I refused even though he was really insistent. We exchanged facebooks and he was the first one to contact me. We went on a few dates and they were fantastic (he was always treating me like a real lady and was so romantic and was smiling all the time... made me feel so good.) One night he got really insistent for having sex with me (literally tried to drag me to his place 😄 )but I refused because I like to take it slow. And after that he changed over night 😄 We both were going to travel abroad for about 10 days (he is originally from another country and is just studying here) but he was heading off before me so I wanted to see him before that and he acted really cold, but still tried to make me feel like it wasn't my fault but I couldn't help but feel it was about me refusing to sleep with him, because I was the one to ask him out and he didn't seem interested in seeing me. Anyway when we were apart he didn't contact me at all but he asked me out imediately after I came back. He had told me (without me asking) that he would bring me a gift which he didn't do but didn't hesitate to ask for his gift from me which I found insolent 😄 But at the same time all of this happened at his place. I went there after having told him we weren't going to have sex and we actually didn't which surprised me. So I thought he actually was ok with taking things slow. So the following week I was busy with university and didn't have a lot of time for him (but he didn't seem very willing to see me either). I guessed it was my turn to ask him out and did so but he refused and said he had work to do. While chatting with me he decided to m–?ntion that the next day he was going to leave the country again and this time for 20. I was really pissed off but I don't think he realized it on the chat. A few days after that I contacted him and he acted like everything was ok. When I asked why he left so suddenly without telling me he apologised and tried to make an excuse and ended the conversation shortly after that.

So I was the one to start the conversation again and even though he was replying me he didn't feel like talking with me. I told him to call me when he comes back and feels like seeing me. His behaviour gets me so confused! He aproached me as a playboy, treated me like a gentelman, he was passionate and cold and now he seems indifferent. Weren't capricorns supposed to show emotions slowly, because with him it's exactly the opposite. Or maybe I just seemed easy to him and he expected me to jump into his bed right away? And if so why isn't he giving up? Is he giving me the time I need or is he just indifferent? I'm even starting to think he has other girls in his country but he shows no obvious evidences. If I start thinking rationaly I'll get to the conclusion that he's just playing around with me, but when we are together he's the most tender and caring creature on Earth. This man gets me rally confused so I'll appreciate all of your advices. And sorry for making it so long 😄😄

Hi,M thanks for taking the time to read and respond. Don't get me wrong I'm not fascinated at all with the situation and I'm actually kinda scared. I'm pretty suspicious and I don't open up to people easily, but this man got me head over heels for him in no time and now it feels like he is becoming colder and colder and I can't do nothing about it because he doesn't communicate with me at all. It seems like he's ok not seeing me or even talking to me for 3 weeks but I miss him like sh8t. That's why I'm starting to think he was just playing with me from the start.

Yea I guess I'll be pulling back. I've got my own pride to keep too. But it's too bad, I really hoped for this relationship to work out. Thanks for the advice. 🙂)

He sounds like a jerk. Now he's pouting because he didn't get his way. Perhaps he's found someone who will give in to him.

I applaud you for staying true to yourself!

I understand exactly what you're feeling. My cappy is actually doing the same exact thing! He used to be the one chasing me for 5 months and we finally kissed, and later on we hooked up, but then he got slightly cold, but warmed up to me again after we talked about what happened. Later on I got mad at him and he gave me space but checked up one me, but things weren't the same afterwards. I told him I like him and he didn't respond, but he talked to me the next day and blah blah. He's just a load of confusion. But somehow he has me hooked.
I honestly think you should just go with your heart. If you feel like you might regret giving up on him, then don't. Some guys come off as jerks because they don't know how to communicate properly and be verbal. That's only if you can tolerate his flaws, but don't ever stop thinking of yourself and your feelings first.

You may be on to something. Sometimes when we feel exposed, we withdraw and pull back from people and wait and see what your reaction is. Then if you react okay, we will warm back up.

you may be on to something.... as in?