Need help with career !

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I am a cap sun and Aquarius moon. I am 12/31/1978 born and I don't know much about astrology but I find it very interesting. Thing is I never liked studying. I love to sing though so I went to school to study drawing and painting, classical vocal music and English literature. But that was in 2004. I hold a bachelors degree in arts. After that I had a horrible marriage of 5 years and then a terribly slow relationship with a Taurus guy which is still going. While I am trying to figure out where my relationship goes, I have joined an online make up artistry and fashion styling course. It's not like accredited or anything that would promise me a job but for the moment I just wanted to do something. Now I want to go back to school after 10 years at the age of 36 and I don't know what would be the best suited education for me. Any ideas? I will post my birth chart placements if it helps. Just needing opinions ...

Thanks!
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Posted by Iya
I am a cap sun and Aquarius moon. I am 12/31/1978 born and I don't know much about astrology but I find it very interesting. Thing is I never liked studying. I love to sing though so I went to school to study drawing and painting, classical vocal music and English literature. But that was in 2004. I hold a bachelors degree in arts. After that I had a horrible marriage of 5 years and then a terribly slow relationship with a Taurus guy which is still going. While I am trying to figure out where my relationship goes, I have joined an online make up artistry and fashion styling course. It's not like accredited or anything that would promise me a job but for the moment I just wanted to do something. Now I want to go back to school after 10 years at the age of 36 and I don't know what would be the best suited education for me. Any ideas? I will post my birth chart placements if it helps. Just needing opinions ...

Thanks!



I would say some sort of business degree would be the most valuable. Do you want to join a Corporation or run your own business?
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Moonbutter - Hi! That's my biggest problem. I dont know what I want to do abut I want to enjoy doing what ever it is and be appreciated for it and raise my self to new levels and achievements in my profession. My Taurus boyfriend is a super ambitious guy and he gets turned on just by me talking about studying and doing more with my life. He suggested Business Management. He thinks its a pretty versatile degree to have with many options of jobs and good pay. But I dont know yet. All I know is I want to do something that relates and adds to my already existing degrees of education and gets me a decent job. Of course no one dislikes a job with a lot of money but a decent pay check is cool too as long as I wake up everyday loving my job.

Inana04 - Thank you dear! I will save that chart for myself. Any idea what my chart says about me? I read about it on certain websites but I understand better when normal ppl talk than the way I am defined on some websites according to my chart.

Caplove - that sounds interesting. Any recommended links you might have? I could use it.

HappyCapper - I love to sing Indian Bollywood songs. Music is my first love if only I could get paid to sing... Other than that I am a survivor of domestic violence and I love to inspire other ladies with my experience in Domestic Violence Support groups. I love to create as a hobby but I hate time lines. I love shopping and makeup and I love to cook for my boy friend, clean and keep my house, inspire ppl to eat healthy and exercise...I am very spiritual and once again music brings peace to my soul and I would love to live on the stage performing and making ppl sing along. I feel I am silly.

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Well, having studied a lot, I'm gonna say: If you don't like to study, you are going to have to be very very passionate about what you are studying - especially since you hate time lines - and tbh, it seems to me the only one who seems passionate about your studying business management is your boyfriend.

How about studying to become a therapist? You love to be an inspiration and to help other ladies with your experiance. Why not get paid for doing something you love to do and that so greatly is of help to others? You could perhaps specialise in domestic abuse and/or music therapy?

Just a suggestion.
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Thank you guys, each one of you!! I feel really like a mess right now. My story is too long but in short just about every little thing in life for me has been a struggle. I'm 36 with no real education, my child is going through parent alienation due to my ex and doesn't care for me. My boyfriend is starting off new with me after being in my life under one roof for 5 yrs leading me to believe I was in a relationship with him. His family hates me and I have been stuck in USA for 10 yrs now because my ex wrote to USCIS that I am a terrorist. Finally my case is cleared and I can travel but I can't with my child because my ex won't allow me to and I wanted to start a new life with my boyfriend but he is just now taking things seriously... Sometimes it feels there is no end to my misery. Can anyone here read charts and tell me something about myself? When does this roller coaster ride end. Lately I have been too desperate to find answers..
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If you're going to have to pay to go back to school, make sure it is something that you'll get a return on your investment. There is absolutely no sense whatsoever in paying $ 80,000 for a degree that will land you only making $ 18,000 a year. Utter ridiculousness. So, research well and find something that will make the expense of education worthwhile.

That said, since you're more on the artistic side, have you considered cosmetology school? If you become a hairdresser, you can utilize your artistic eye as well as be able to be social with customers and you can probably set your own hours. Really good hairdressers can rake in some cash.
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Posted by Iya
Thank you guys, each one of you!! I feel really like a mess right now. My story is too long but in short just about every little thing in life for me has been a struggle. I'm 36 with no real education, my child is going through parent alienation due to my ex and doesn't care for me. My boyfriend is starting off new with me after being in my life under one roof for 5 yrs leading me to believe I was in a relationship with him. His family hates me and I have been stuck in USA for 10 yrs now because my ex wrote to USCIS that I am a terrorist. Finally my case is cleared and I can travel but I can't with my child because my ex won't allow me to and I wanted to start a new life with my boyfriend but he is just now taking things seriously... Sometimes it feels there is no end to my misery. Can anyone here read charts and tell me something about myself? When does this roller coaster ride end. Lately I have been too desperate to find answers..



Just some advice from someone who has had their entire world turned upside down in a five minute time frame. Stop focusing on the negatives. Stop right now! There are positive things. Learn to notice the positive things and build on that. Let the positive things guide you. No matter what life throws at us, happiness is a choice. You can choose to focus on negative and be miserable or you can choose to focus on positive and be happy. It's all in your outlook.