Need Opinions Quickly

Hey guys and gurls, I gotta quick question about Mr. Cappy. "E" are you reading this carefully cause I need ya. Mr. Cappy keeps bringing up the fact that I was once supposed to take him lunch at his job and I did not. It was a mis-communication b/t the two of us but of course he blames me. As I said he continues to bring this up by phone, e-mail, when we were together. Would you say that he really does want me to bring him lunch at work or is he just messing around w/me? I'm asking b/c I sent an e-mail today telling him I was going to surprise him next week w/dinner at is job and he would not even know when. I've been playing it really cool, i.e. I haven't called him once I let him do all the calling, I've e-mailed on twice (including the one today) that was personal and I haven't really let on what I thought of his looks. Any opinions on this would be great. I'm just trying to make sure that I'm reading him correctly, i.e. he does want me to bring him dinner at work. Thanks guys and gurls.......Besos

lunch or dinner? Im confused...I would say hell take both!! LOL and I haev not herd from "E" all day today! I think we scared him off!! come back

he is working evenings now so its dinner. Before he was working the day shift so it was lunch. Sorry I'm so swamped at work and was typing fast b/c I want so badly to play the "I'm really not that interested but could be presuaded role" yet I want to be subtle about being really interested in him. I know he curious as to whether or not I thought he was good looking but I won't directly answer him just as he will not tell me what he thought so there two can play that - lol! But the whole lunch/dinner thing I feel okay with b/c I really promised this sometime ago and if you remember my very first loooooong post about us I brought this up. My take on it is that its an issue that I didn't/have'nt taken him the lunch/dinner and he is testing me to see if I will make up for it as I promised to do. Having said that now that we've meet I DO NOT want this man thinking I'm doing it just b/c I'm trying to woo him. Does that make sense? Heeeelllllpppp meeeeeeeee..........I'm doing so good playing not interested but I don't want to blow it. Help me out GEG and where are the others I need them.

Oh and Atlantic Myst I feel left out for not being a gemini.......I have a good sense of humor and laugh at all of your jokes and honestly right now I could use some of that f# $ k him mentalilty your so good at.........lol!

AM~~

I need you right you....you can't be confused....take a deep breath....should I take this man food (we will now refer to lunch/dinner as simply food). I don't want him to think I'm crazy about him (even though I am) and I don't want him to think he has me wrapped around his finger (even though I would be wrapped around all 10 fingers and his toes if he'd let me be). he and I talked via phone and e-mail for ten months before we finally meet last month. Since then things are still moving along smoothly but he has not asked me out. He merely continues to hint (at least every other day) about a lunch a/k/a food that I offered to bring him some eight months ago but b/c of a miscommunication b/t the two of us that did not happen. Neither one of us has admitted what we thought of one another after we finally meet. I'm trying to play the I'm not that into you role and so is he although our phone calls/e-mails are still the same b/t us. Come on AM help me out here.....GEG help....Gemgem where are you girl....Peachcow...."E"....somebody....my cancer emotions are kicking in....I just don't want him to think that I am just now after all this time going out of my way to take him "food" at work since I've meet him. Basically I want him to believe I'm doing it out of the goodness of my heart (which I am) not because I'm really crazy about him (which I am but he does't need to know that).

besos~

first of all us gemini's are not prejudice we love everyone until we are crossed as far as im concerned we are all gemini's "including you" lol now with that being said NEXT

o.k. calm down girl... Im going to give you the best advice I read this book why men love B!tches! I say take him dinner/food..lol! But dont you dare lift a finger cooking it! Pick it up drop it off!! I mean it.... it said something on wasting your time and energy on this meal when he's not even yours. If he likes you enough he will stick around for the gourmet dinner you will cook for him when hes yours!!

So there ya go.. drop it off your interested but your not giving your "all" to him until he gives you a little more!! Wear the Shoes honey!! Im sure he will get a kick out of it as well!! good luck

GEG~~

Why Men Love B!tches is my bible! I've read it and re-read it - I love it. Girl, he!! no I'm not cooking. I even put that in my e-mail. He's getting chinese take out (okay, I'll be all soft for a minute here b/c I know that's his favorite) but the cooking will only come after he puts forth some effort. ALTHOUGH having said that, I make this really awesome (no I'm not bragging just being honest) homemade Italian Cream Cheese case and thought about whipping one up and taking him a very, very small piece just so he can see what I'm capable of with his chinese food. I hope this goes well. I got the tan working finally. I told him in my e-mail that I look like a "texican" now and no that was not a typo - lol! Remember he was just stunned that a white girl could be so white - lol!

Thanks for the input [deep breath] I'm calm now................! Have a good evening and talk to ya tomorrow. Also, I guess since ya'll Geminis aren't prejudice I can go to CA also to visit AM - lol! I was playing around BUT hey I wasn't feeling really luved when I read that...............😉 Where is she anyways......take care! Besos

dont cook nothin for him!!


lol not even a "NIBBLE"!!! lol


come visit it would be fun gemgem only is about 2 hours from me, where are you @ again

p.s. i say take Italian food!! dotn give him his fav. o.k. i think my b!tch side is coming out!! lol

I'm here, I'm here! I've been reading throughout the day, but didn't see where I could fit in. Until now! (Yeeehaw!)

By the time you read this, it could be too late, but I'll offer it none-the-less. I would say make this first meal as yummy and as memorable as possible, but don't do anything else for a while. Don't bring him a second plate tomorrow or the next day. Let him see what you have to offer, but stay allusive (at least for a while). When I used to date a lot, girls used to bring me stuff left and right. The first couple of times it was ok, but then I got used to it. Once, in my opinion, is sufficient for now.

Secondly, PLEASE tell him that you think he's good looking. Trust me, you won't lose any brownie points by telling him. Remember, under this cool exterior is a needy, fragile, boy looking for support and love. Don't openly salivate over him, but don't hold back your thoughts either. If you think he smells good, tell him. If you like his hair, tell him. Anything good that you have to say, simply tell him. It helps to build his confidence and can clearly see how you feel about him. We sometimes need obvious context clues.

Oh, and you tanned? Good job. At least this way, he can concentrate on you, not your skin tone, geez, what a picky guy (playfully rolling my eyes and smiling).

Let me know how it goes.

LOL...enigma you said exactly what I was going to say. These boys eeeaaat up the compliments. They just grin from ear to ear and even blush. It's adorable, HOWEVER, yes don't do it too much. Do your thang and then flit off. Do things that make him crave you...like a little taste here and a little taste there. I remember not too long ago I wouldn't have known how mine felt had he not said this, but we were partying and we got into the spa and he pulled me close when everyone was gone and says, "I've been waiting to hug you for the longest time because you have this smell that stays with me. It's this sweet smell that reminds me of home." I realized that I had not been hugging him good-bye every time and acting like we were friends when others were around. So...like I said geminis as well as cancers have the power to do these things...it's in their nature. The power to seduce and the power to nurture and these two things can go hand and hand. Hope that helps. 🙂