Never dated a capricorn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by QuirkyOne on Saturday, April 12, 2008 and has 8 replies.
I have a few questions about Capricorns simply because I've never dated one.
I am always hesitant about meeting someone in person that I met online however...
I've been talking to this guy, he's a Capricorn. He seems great and I am interested but being an Aquarius I like to take my time, need my space. Not only that but I dont know this guy so I want to feel "safe" before I agree to meet him. We've been talking on the phone only about a week... so with that said, are they pushy? Only because I am having some health issue's and I've stated to him I need to feel better before I start going out and doing things. I've also explained to him that I want to know him better but he calls me every day to ask if I can meet up with him. He told me today that he really wants to meet me because I seem like I'd be his "dream woman." LOL Do they say that to everyone? I'm the type to get to know someone first and then take it to the next step. He seems the type that wants it NOW or is it just that he wants it his way, his time? Are Capricorns the type that try and try to get you and once they get you they pull away?
I'm just curious. I like him but my red flags are up right now so any help would be great. Thanks a bunch.
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QuirkyOne,
What's his big rush? Caps have loads of patience and expect everyone else to have it too, especially where they are concerned.
Take all the time you need. Seriously. They respect "time"...even though they hate it when someone else is smart enough to exercise their right to use it just as much as they do.
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Again I'm just curious. I'm not rushing into anything. HE'S the one that calls me every day asking to meet even though I tell him I cant. Thats what is making me think he's a little pushy. I dated a Scorpio JUST like this and I walked away... no I RAN. Just wondering of Caps are like that if so I'm outa here ha ha.
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"They respect "time"...even though they hate it when someone else is smart enough to exercise their right to use it just as much as they do."
hahaha! so true!
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My situation is not yours Q-1 but my Cappy ex and I hooked up after 6yrs a couple of weeks ago. We hadn't seen each other in a long while and for me so much had changed. He was very eager to see me that same night and I was dismissing his advances. Finally he came out and accused me saying "If you just don't want to see me that's fine." Now, where that came from I don't know. It was late and I was thinking, nothing was wrong with planning this for the next evening. But, I felt bad that he felt rejected and put his feelings before my own needs of not being prepared to see an old friend for the first time. Well, he came over, we reunited sexually, haven't heard from him since. He won't return emails and texts or calls and voice mails.
But, don't let me scare you. Your Cappy is new to you so there's no baggage which makes you more interesting to explore. I just wanted to give you the downside and hopefully someone else can bring you the upside. And my Cappy has always done the eager to see you again and afterwards goes MIA. I've known him for 10yrs and not much has changed sadly.
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Wow I'm sorry for that. What a horrible thing to do especially after making you feel bad in the first place.
I'm going to give this guy more time to get to know him. However so far I think he's a little boring. I dont want to make such a quick assumption so soon though. Its funny one of my friends is a Cappy and I think Capricorn men and women are different because I get a long with her so well. We always have a blast together and never argue. I have no clue what sign is best for me but I do have a thing for Sag's but wow, so toxic for me.
Thanks for the responses.
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Update on the new Cappy.... I decided to give him a chance but I've been busy so I havent talked to him in a few days. I'm on 2 different dating sites (the one I met him on and another one). He found me on the other one that he didnt know about and made a light comment "I thought I was the one, how could you put an ad on another site." HE WAS JOKING first of all... we play this wise guy game back and forth all the time. We made fun of it and moved on. Then a little while into the conversation he told me he really liked me and he thought we made a connection then he said he saw me on that site and it bummed him out. I agreed to finally meet him but I'm a little scared to after what I hear on here lol. Is this what Cappys do? Do they sound and act all interested and then just vanish? I know everyone is different but as far as Cappy's are concerned is this typical?
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I dunno, I have read many stories about online dating and signs that a man may be married and most stated that married men tend to pace it quickly and push to see the woman fairly quickly or ventures into the other extreme by never wanting to meet but continue the online relationship he has created with the woman/flirtation, so be careful....you have already made it clear your not ready to meet yet he calls every day to meet which sounds like he's pressuring you and pushing you out of your comfort. I think after a week its too soon to meet up but good luck on your date, tell us how it goes down d:
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