please give me insight on this capricorn man - ove

I started dating a Capricorn man about 2 months ago and I thought things were going great. We would hang out a couple of times a week (he lives an hour away and would come to see me). I met all his friends and was starting to think it could go somewhere! Then, it was my bday and I invited him to a small gathering I was having. He said he would come, but didn't show. He did apologize after I texted him 2 days later, but then kind of disappeared on me when I told him I was disappointed, etc. A week later, he invited me out again but then that night told me things got too serious, too fast with us. And that he is starting a new business that will consume his life for the next year, and he feels I'm expecting more than he can give me. But that he wants to remain friends, esp since I get along with his friends. Sure enough, he did text me something a few days later about coming out to join them in something.

So my question is...do you think the concentrating on work was just an excuse for wanting to break it off with me? I told him I felt it was, bc if a man really wanted a woman, he would not risk losing her. And the other question is, the only reason I would remain friends with him and hanging out, is in the hopes he would change his mind. Do capricorns generally stick with something once they make up their mind? Any advice is appreciated.

You'll be waiting a long time. I was married to a cap and they are stubborn buggers.

I think that if he is saying this to you so early on then you should take it at face value and move on. Stay friends, but don't put your life on hold for him when he has already told you it's not what he wants.

What sun sign are you?

I agree with leogirl, and honestly I wouldn't waste my time on a guy who barely initiates contact anyway.

I am a scorpio

I believe he's being extremely honest in saying that you are wanting more than he can give. The darn scorpio/capricorn dilemma!!! I think he just wanted to have fun and hang out with you, but that darn scorpio intensity probably scared him off and now he's confused about what he's feeling and possibly insecure about whether or not he can give you what you need in a relationship. This just keeps poppin up it seems.

I say move on. I think your right in saying that if he wants you then he won't lose you, but I think he's trying to analyze what/how he feels. Its not fair for you to wait, so keep him as a friend, if you can, but keep your eyes open.

Yeah I will try my best to not carry any false hopes and let it go. It sucks though! Feels like he was into me and then just flipped out of the blue 😢

Yeah I will try my best to not carry any false hopes and let it go. It sucks though! Feels like he was into me and then just flipped out of the blue 😢