Posititve Outlook

Most people will say that geminis and capricorns are complete opposites and won't work, however, I usually try to think of the optimistic side of things. This won't pertaine to my current situation with my Capricorn, but I thought it would be something happy to look at for all of us who are feeling a bit down about the string of events that have happened recently. 🙂


Gemini & Capricorn

Initially, this would appear to be a poor match: hard-working, ambitious Capricorn clashes with Gemini's jovial, carefree spirit. But Capricorn gives mercurial Gemini some needed security, especially financially, while Gemini is a wizard at conjuring away Capricorn's worries. If love is present, Gemini's adaptability will be an asset in holding on to the Capricorn. He or she knows this is one partner who will never abandon him or her, and that really counts!

Oh and I thought I'd do our two venus' together to see if they match. Aquarius I've heard is good for gems and can turn into marriage as long as we can understand their unconventional way of approaching life and relationships. I just wanted to shoot some sunshine up my own ass and anyone else's. hehe. 🙂 GEG ~ what's your venus and Brian's venus?



Gemini & Aquarius

The Aquarian ability to devote body and soul to the cause of justice attracts the respect and love of the Gemini, who will vie to conquer this rare love. Once the two Air signs are united, they will merge into a shared pleasure in action, excitement, and rebellion against stuffy conventions. Together, they believe life gives them the right to freedom and independence. Nothing stops or separates them. Friends as well as lovers, they will unite their souls in making their life into a masterpiece, a great and exciting adventure.

GEG
aries

brian
pisces

Gemgem this was in one of the reports that I did on Brian and I:


Brandy's Sun conjunct Brian's Moon orb 2? 13'

If the two of you are not married, there is a high probability that you will marry some day! You have a natural affinity for each other, feel very comfortable together, and can experience a very nourishing and intimate closeness. Even if your personalities are very different, you understand each other very well and you are truly friends as well as lovers. If you have children, you will work well together as parents and Brian, in particular, will prove (perhaps to a surprising degree) very devoted to the family. Brian also helps, supports, and accepts Brandy, who gains much confidence and energy when the two of you are together. There is a deep, mutual appreciation of each other.

Brandy's Sun opposition Brian's Uranus orb 1? 59'

This relationship changes course suddenly and unexpectedly. There is a great deal of unpredictability to the relationship. At best, your relationship is exciting and unconventional, and at worst it leaves Brandy frustrated by Brian's unwillingness to be more committed and devoted to the relationship. The unpredictable nature of the relationship and the lack of constancy and security may cause either, or both, of you to feel very uncomfortable.

Brandy's Ascendant conjunct Brian's Venus orb 0? 40'

You are very special to each other and you both probably recognize that you have found a person that embodies many of the qualities of your 'Ideal Mate'. Love, sweetness, tenderness, and appreciation permeate your relationship. A strong desire to please each other, and to cooperate, makes you a very harmonious couple.

Brandy's Pluto square Brian's Sun orb 2? 51'

Your relationship is intense, magnetic, and complex. You are fascinated by each other and you engage in deep, intense discussions and encounters that unveil your innermost thoughts, feelings, goals, hopes, fears, and ambitions. This is not a superficial relationship! You are very uninhibited with each other, and you open up to each other more readily than to others. Be wary of power struggles, however, as Brandy, in particular, may be tempted to use the magnetic attractive power over Brian to manipulate and control Brian. Also, either of you may feel threatened, embarrassed, or disempowered by revealing so much of yourself to the other, and consequently feel the need to be secretive and competitive with each other. You have a profound influence upon one another, for good or ill.



So here is my question? What the hell is the problem?
AS "E~" said maybe his age?

Timing too. Timing has a lot to do (some says everything to do) with many things in life, I have learned from my own experiences.

Dear gem gals, my boss is Gemini and her significant other is a Capricorn man. They are together blittle over 20 years. I have talked with her about my cap since she knows one for a long time (yes she is a cool boss🙂) She gave me some tips. She said when first time she saw him, she felt the electric feeling going though her body...she sounded like she was very patient with him letting him take his time at the beginning of their relationship...

Oh, my own parents are this combo too, but the other way around ? my mom is cap and dad is gem?I won?t say they are the best combination 😉 but they are still together after 35 years.

hehe...yeah I think it must be age. I'm thinking that's what's going on with my situation. What site did you go to for that? Every time I know that I could move on...I get right back to remembering all of the good things that have happened before now. We really were doing well before he moved out with my brother. I don't get it. Oh well. Space and patience is all that I can see will work here. I think when I'm not around he'll wonder where I am and he won't be thinking of all the girls who are all up in his space. My best friend (the cap) said that she's been in that situation where she tried later to get up on someone and they were like..."sorry" and acting distant; not letting her touch them because she had messed with their minds so bad. Then it pissed her off really bad and she couldn't get that person off of her mind. So....looking at what she said...I think I'll just seriously act like his friend and make very light conversation like, "hi. how's it goin?" That kind of stuff. Before I know it...I'll be dating and he can just sit and drool. Sometimes I have to play these little games to get what I want. I don't think he's a cheat or a lier regardless of what people think or what his charts say. He told me he has been totally and completely honest with me, which he has. He told me what he wanted and he did what he said he was going to do. It hurt, but then again...we were both on the same page as far as he was concerned and it may be because I don't have any other prospects right now. So...anyways...that was long winded, but it all makes perfect sense to me. I'm not just going to drop him...I'll just keep him in mind. He's my brother's roommate...I'm not getting rid of him so easily. You know what I mean. Well darling...here is your venus' together. 🙂

Aries & Pisces

Pisces has a fleeting and almost solitary spirit which may provoke the Aries authoritarian tendencies, and the two signs do not soothe each other. Pisces readily submits to domination, since he or she is awash in an inner world where reality has little effect. The vitality of Aries provides needed security. The couple will function if the Ram surrounds the Pisces with constant affection. If not, the Fish will spawn elsewhere, without even turning around for a final farewell.

hmmmm...not sure what to take of that. It's not bad though.

Thanks Peach! 🙂 I love it. Yeah...that's what I keep telling myself because I can't expect anything right now, but in the meantime...that doesn't mean I can't seduce him in my own little distant way. hehe. I'd rather keep him with a little mystery than to be there in his face all of the time. And if in fact he is wondering where I am when I'm not around then I'm doing a really good job. 🙂 Bottom line is that we're not together and never have been so there's no commitment at all. I'd rather he got all of this pain and freedom out of his system than get together with me and resent it.

You are welcome, gemgem.

A little story about my parents...my mom (cap) was double-dating when they met. My dad (gem) had to deal with that for a while (she was in fact a gorgeous lady when she was younger). But he won her heart over a wealthy dentist because of his sincerity and good nature. Keep the hope up, gals😉

hehe...you just made me feel all warm and fuzzy. thanks peach. hugs.

yes me too !! lol

Am~ I went back and read that chart you did on Brian and I in the begining and im so confused.... most of it makes us seem soooo compatible? What gives?