Pressure

Maybe I should've been born a cancer 😢 😢 😢 Or a pisces ... even a scorpio. Goodness, I really don't deserve to be an earth sign right now LOL!!!!!!

LOl why??Cant you tolerate pressure or is it some thing else?

Yeah, I can tolerate some forms of pressure, but goodness ...

So how goes it with the delightful leo/virguy? Are you still communicating by proxy through the Libra friend?

Cappywench! 🙂 Things have changed since I was on.

Umm, the Libra seems to still honor the ?Male Code of Conduct? ? which means that he tells me very little. However, I don't need the Libra anymore ?

I no longer have to remind him to say goodbye before leaving, he comes to my area. It took forever, but the whole communication seems to be solved, as of now.

He's more intense then I thought ? for some odd reason, he thinks that I'm a ?Wolf in Sheep's Clothing'. LOL, it's so funny. His intensity frightens me to the core but ?I? scare him LOL!!!

Surprising, his Leo friend spoke to me concerning him today ? he's a nice older gentle man, he's in his late 50s. The way he phrased his questions were odd, he seemed to try to see how I felt about the L/V ? he's never spoken to me about the L/V before so I was puzzled. He kept saying, ?I'm a man of my word, but I will say that there's something special between you two. He can speak for himself when he's ready, but thinks about you often.? After saying that bit, he states that he will keep his month shut LOL IT'S TOO LATE FOR THAT!!!

I didn't know what to say, so I made up some excuse so I could leave the situation. I felt red all over. I don't know what to do.

Last Friday, I saw him with a mohawk -- he looked soooo hot with that! LOL, and I usually don't say things like that LOL!!!

It surprised me because he doesn't seem like the type to be that extreme. He looked like the toughest guy, but I know that he's a teddy bear 😛 He'a always had a red dragon tattooed on his arm, but the mohawk is killer LOL!!!!

Did he dye it green?

Nope, LOL, they would allow him into work with that color. I'm not sure how the actually haircut weent over, but he doesn't care, he will be himself reagardless LOL!!!!!

From the Leo friend, I understand why he being such a "snail". It's really because of his two children -- he was in a bad relationship and he doesn't want to make the same mistake. So he trying to see what I'm REALLY about before he takes things farther.

I would never like the Leo/Virgo know that I know this or else he may shutdown, and that would be terrible. Now, I understand things, and I'm aware of how he feels about me -- thanks to the Leo.

I had to let the Leo know that the little info that he said did not betray the L/V trust at all ... because he didn't tell me everything ... well, he sort of "let the cat out of the bad" but I didn't want him to know that 😉

This sucks for me because I know that I'm a decent person and I'm very honest, to the point where its a fault at times. Now, how do I get him to see that is beyond me.

He's going on vacation this week and he will be taking his two children with him. I'm glad he to me, but at the same time I'm thinking, "You Ass!!! You know I want to go!". He told me where they were going, and that he was going to be gone for a week *cries*

Why wont he ask you out?

I dont get the wolf in sheeps clothing vibe from you at all. He's a weirdo 😛

But I understand his stance being a father and all...but how will he ever get to know you if you two dont hang out for more than a couple of minutes?

The buddies divulging his 'feelings' is getting a bit old.
I think you should tell his friends that. Im sure they'll relay the message.
Explain to them you are NOT a wolf either.

what field does he work in?

He works for Chrysler, I think he's a project manager. He gets paid while on his vacation, that's awesome. He was given a month off, but it was his decision to take a week off.

His reasons were that he wanted to remain close and that he doesn't want to lose track of anything ... whatever that means LOL!!!! I have no freaking idea why he wants to be "close", if I had an opportinutiy to take a month off, I'd do it!!!

Why wont he ask you out?

LOL!!!!!! He has a pisces moon. Thats all, it's that damn pisces moon.

I dont get the wolf in sheeps clothing vibe from you at all. He's a weirdo

LOL, story of my life, that's what I attract 😛 He just doesn't think that I'm what I seem or whatever.

But I understand his stance being a father and all...but how will he ever get to know you if you two dont hang out for more than a couple of minutes?

Yes, he loves those two little girls with every once of fiber in his body -- seriously, he will not bring up the mother at all. This scares me, but I was told by a friend of my to let HIM bring up his personal life and for me not to ask about it.

Cause he's a chicken....*puck* *puck*

Yes SB, if you were to look at him, he seems to have so much courage but he's a big fuffy chicken LOL!!! I've been told that he's afraid of me because I give off the "Wolf In Sheep's Clothing."

There are many misconceptions about my motives until people get to know me.

The buddies divulging his 'feelings' is getting a bit old.

Tell me about it, but like I said, he has a pisces moon. At first, I thought he had a pisces/Aries moon but no, he has a pisces moon. He's just shy, but I'm getting alittle sick of the dancing around stuff.

I think you should tell his friends that. Im sure they'll relay the message. Explain to them you are NOT a wolf either.

I will, but in my own way 🙂 I swear, if he knew that I know how he feels, he would shutdown and he won't say anything to his friends. He's a very private person. Most of the time, when we talk about his life, we are off somewhere else, away from everyone ... he seems more confrontable when it's just the two of us. The office area seems to make him uneasy, haha, I get uneasy too because I never know when my "crazy" boss will walk in.

I should try bouncing on his privates when I see him. He's a virgo, he'd love that LOL!!!!

Pisces men are kinda slow in these decisions. Mine told me he wanted me to have his babies waaaay before he even asked me out.

Ridiculous.

Pisces men are kinda slow in these decisions. Mine told me he wanted me to have his babies waaaay before he even asked me out.

LOL!!!! You see what I mean. Also, he doesn't seem to like the fact that I talk to other men when he isn't around, and I don't know why 😢 He has made anything official yet.

What!

He doesnt own you. He cant even speak to you like a real man can. He's already the possessive and jealous type (red flag)—


You are too nice...if a wolfs in sheep clothing was he thought....thats exactly what I would've given him with my blunt/tactless mouth.

🙂

He must be more of a virgo, b/c I wouldnt expect his behavior from a leo.

He's a very sweet man, but I thought he was overly cautious and I was just about to give up on him ... until I spoke to the Leo buddy. He seems to confide in his older buddies more. He won't say anything to the ones that are right around his age -- he's 30 (will be 31) The Libra friend is 53 and the Leo is like 59ish.

He doesnt own you. He cant even speak to you like a real man can. He's already the possessive and jealous type (red flag)—

Well, last Friday I told him that he reminds me of my Virgo co-worker alittle -- the way they both say things to get me all up-in-arms.

Well, he made the comment that he was nothing like my Virgo co-worker and that there was only one of him. I also hugged one of my guy friends and he seem get annoyed -- I didn't even know he was around until I said something to me. He's not mean about it, but he just give me that, "What do you think you are doing" vibe.

He must be more of a virgo, b/c I wouldnt expect his behavior from a leo.

Sun: Leo/Virgo
Moon: pisce
Mervury: Leo
Mars: Scorpio
Venus: Virgo

uh, his caution is raining on this parade...not so much his caution, just his inability to communicate his desires directly to you.

I know he knows the guys tell you things.


I want you happy and less confused. 🙂

uh, his caution is raining on this parade...not so much his caution, just his inability to communicate his desires directly to you.

Yeah, he's very ballsy -- like a grizzle bear. But when I get close to him, he seems to get nervous. Hahaha, honestly, he's like a shy 4th grader who likes the girl who sets up front in the class but he would wet his pants before telling her.

hahaha, he's not the only one that uses "children" examples LOL



I know he knows the guys tell you things.

You think he knows ————

I want you happy and less confused.

Thank you ladyM 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

My other friend (whose an Aqua/Pisces) said that if the Leo/Virgo man finds out that I'm interested in other guys, it will hurt him and that he will probably stop talking to me. She said that I'm the one that messed up so now its up to me to make him feel more confrontable again.

No problem. Your a really nice person. You deserve it.


Yes, I do think he knows the guys tell you things...and im sure he tells them what he wants you to find out, catch my drift...


t will probably hurt him if he finds out you are keeping your options open. BUT if he's logical he'll know your doing it with good reason. He's not exactly showing you he's serious here and you two arent exclusive.

Yes, I do think he knows the guys tell you things...and im sure he tells them what he wants you to find out, catch my drift...

okay ... I get it. He's aware of the fact that they interact with me sometimes. Maybe I should try picking the Leo's brain alittle more if thats the case. I already know the Libra's going to be tough ... but it seems like the Leo is easier to get info out of 😉

it will probably hurt him if he finds out you are keeping your options open. BUT if he's logical he'll know your doing it with good reason. He's not exactly showing you he's serious here and you two arent exclusive.

That's how a feel ... what the hell have I gotten myself into ...

Yeah, he's very unique. One thing he said before his trip (we were talking about something). He said: "I usually get what I want." Hahaha, and I said, "So do I."

I couldn't let him get away with that! *wink*

""I usually get what I want.""

lol, ive been told that a few times myself...but everything happens on my terms and free will 😉

lol, ive been told that a few times myself...but everything happens on my terms and free will

Hahahahaha!!!! I should've added that I usually get what I want within reason LOL 😛

Actually that makes sense to me. It's better to break a month of vacation over the year than have it all at one time. I have seen my project managers do the same.

Okay, that does make sense. Oh my gosh! He is such an ass-hole LOL, I think I've finally met someone who is my 'exact' match and I don't like it.

If only those that were in relationships with virgos would help me .....

I will still stick to my guns ... I need a pisces guy!

lol! maybe...they come with their issues as well.

Oh no Lady_M 😢 I hope not ..., lets hope this guy is okay 🙂

I have a pisces buddy and seems to be the total opposite of the Leo/Virgo dude. He's very sweet 😄 We just started talking recently. This is perfect because the Leo/Virgo is out of town and I can start making my mind up on a few things, you know what I mean?

My friend is about my height too -- that's adorable 🙂

I understand. Have fun. Pisces guys are really nice, ftmp.

Pisces and cap is a pretty good match apparently.

Pisces and cap is a pretty good match apparently.

That's what I keep reading LOL!!! They don't waste too much time either, which is awesome 😄

I don't know why I'm in such a hurry to get into a relationship (——). I have no idea whats wrong with me ... usually I'm the one who delays everything. Well, I still do, but only with someone who I get bad energy from.

Anywho,

How are you Lady_M 🙂 🙂 🙂 —?

Im doing good, thanks for asking 🙂
Just packing and getting ready my summer vacation.

Where are you going —

I was going on vacation but my perspective/former roommates ruined that *blows top*

Anyway, where!?!

Pisces guys are not easy to meet because they tend to often be in committed long term relationships. It's probably the best match for cap ladies.

That's good to hear 🙂 Most pisces men I know are in relationships, except for this one in particular -- he seems really sweet, nice, I love his sense of humor ... and he called early the Mr. Leo/Virgo -- MAJOR points with this guy.

I don't know him while enough to know that I like him but from what I know now and see, he's not so bad. And for christ sake, he's doesn't think of some "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing". That's just stupid LOL

I see why most virgo men are miserable and unstable as they get older. When they meet nice (ME!!!!) women, they have no idea what to do with them. LOL!!! It's easy to pick up a whore or a good-digger or a bitch because they feel confrontable knowing what they are getting themselves into, but someone who is "decent" on no, never that 🙂

Haha, maybe I'm being to harsh -- maybe I wouldn't belittle so much if he would've offered to take me on vacation too LMAO!!!!!

Pisces guys are always in and out of relationships. They get in for all the wrong reasons usually. They enjoy being in love and all that mush...but when the going gets tough, the fish gets to swimming.





I'll be going to China for the rest of the summer Cappy.

They generally dont like being alone. I've gotten these exact words form a few pisces men.

Just be glad you don't have a baby putting pressure on your asshole 🙂

Pisces guys are always in and out of relationships. They get in for all the wrong reasons usually. They enjoy being in love and all that mush...but when the going gets tough, the fish gets to swimming.

Pisces women are like this too, my mom is a perfect example, goodness ...

I'll be going to China for the rest of the summer Cappy.

WHAT!!! That's awesome! You are so lucky. Are you leaving now?

Just be glad you don't have a baby putting pressure on your asshole

Uh ... yeah, I guess I'm glad that I don't have a baby putting pressure on my asshole —

*Cappy points >*

haha, I dont think I will be meeting up will bling...but I wouldnt rule it out.

lol


My flights July 3rd.

no you are not

Thank you 😄 It's amazing, these turn of events. We were acquaintances/ friends for three freaking years and now all of this happens ... I need to lock myself in my appartment for a month and never come out.

Like I promised (myself), I spoke to the Leo and he give me some information that hit me like a ton of bricks BUT I also give him some red flags to warn that Leo/Virgo about -- in his own way, so he has no idea that the Leo and I have been talking.

The Leo even warned me alittle going out with other men, he said that it may not go over will and that it could cause trouble because the L/V is choosing to move slower then what I want.

See, I'M GLAD I followed my own senses, something told me that if I were to do something without think, chaos would come, AND I HATE CHAOS. I'm glad I kept my heels cool. Thats what I meant by how easy things were this week because the virgo is on vacation.

I won't say what the Leo told me because I want to see for myself, then if its true, I hope I can handle it because this is what I want, but what if he's too intense for me ...

My flights July 3rd.

Alright, you must be excited 🙂

Okey dokey shaka.

I am excited, just wish I didnt have this moving crap to do. I got my visa and passport back on Thursday.

Hopefully leo could persuade him to be more determined his actions now.

I got my passport back in 2004, I'm glad because it waws far less expensive then. I don't gave a visa, but I've only been to Quebec in Canada