Scorpio

I finally got my very own scorpio. This is the most amazing thing ever. Yay!

Congratulations, Warholian! This is excellent news. I am very happy for you.

well go'head nigh

Posted by sagigoat
lol congrats war 🙂.

remember it's the hardest to keep a good thing going strong and stronger over time so work hard mmmk? 😛

Okie dokie.

I spoke too soon. The action is not measuring up to the talk.

Interesting. What was the expectation?

Too much fantasy, not enough reality. No surprise there.

Not interfering. I put my business up here for the benefit of other's amusement. I think I had said before that the excitement can be exhausting when it comes to scorpios. They like the intensity, the drama, the vigor, the passion. It almost seems like an act to me. Why can't we just be? Even if only for a little while.

I do romanticize scorpio women because they are generally romantic figures. They command attention (effortlessly), they have colorful personalities and infectious laughs. The minute they go serious you can't help but to stop dead in your tracks and make sure you don't do anything to rock the boat. You have to be constantly aware of their emotions and heed to their every wish. Not only because you want to, but because you might lose them if you didn't.

Are you going to "wait and see" if things work out, War, or is she already out of the picture in your opinion?

Posted by warholian
I think I had said before that the excitement can be exhausting when it comes to scorpios. They like the intensity, the drama, the vigor, the passion. It almost seems like an act to me. Why can't we just be? Even if only for a little while.

Warhol --

I am very happy for you that you finally are able to connect with a scorpio woman, because speaking from own experience, one of my best connection has been with a capricorn man.

I may have resentments for my past VIRGO man, but I have no resentments for CAP man even though he cheated on me. The closest who ever came this close to me was CAP man! I liked his emotions. Many say that CAPS don't have emotions, but after having long-term relations with V-man, believe me... the CAP was fiery emotional for me.

Now now... being a scorpio I shall make a point about myself that we DO NOT act! We truly feel all those emotions very strongly be it sadness, happiness or whatever. So it may appear overstated perhaps, but only to those we see close to us. The outside world does not get to see this side of us. So I guess you either live with it or not.

There is nothing wrong in being receptive to her emotions. The best part with my CAP guy was that we counter-balanced those emotions; there were never overlaps; it felt more like filling each other's gaps. We sure had fun in the end. There was an unspoken understanding that although we both were theatrical at times, we also were able to laugh it out.

You can be friends from long before, but going into a relationship brings different views. Be patient; every new relationship requires work. So I hope you can get through these days and get to know each other better, because I think it's worth it.

Good luck, honey. 🙂

I am a sloath in relationship department and scorp guys 'scare' me, not in the sense shaks said.. its like ''too good, too soon, too much''.. where is the catch.. (frantic).. what happened to slow and steady.. lol

I very much agree with archer on this statement, which not only applies to scorp men, but for me as a scorpio woman as well. What I learned from myself is that the moment I meet someone, the very first impression tells me all. Later I may get distracted by this and that, and my opinion may become more fuzzy. With me it doesn't take a week to know that someone is a candidate to be the "love of my life". I either love you romantically, friendly, or whatever category you fit in my heart, will be also a constant in the future. If I feel strongly for you and sense elements that may cause problems in the future, I may resist this relation to develop any further.


Unfortunately we can't help ourselves to show these emotions too soon and too much if You are the person of our true affections. If the feeling is in a standard acquaintance level, then we will be friendly with you, talk to you on rare occasions, but nothing more.

oh.. btw.. the moment ARCHER replied to me on dxp when I first came in here, I knew she would be very special to me, which she still continues to be 🙂

I haven't given up on scorps just yet and they certainly haven't given up on me. I'm surrounded by them.

hhmm.. war what is it about scorps that fascinates you so? i thot that was the problem between me n my cap.. my being scorp rising.. i am intrigued.

hhmm.. so sg it's not the general scorp personality but rather that specific attribute? (or however it is referred to)

lol, No it's all authentic, I live my life v passionately.
Capricorns: plod, plod, plod...
When it comes down to it I live w my heart. I am true to myself- true Scorpio... (is this the "superficiality" you were referring to?)

Anyhow, why can't we just be? Oh, no, no, no, no, no! Look over at a fellow Cap or Taurus, they know how to "just be"
There's no way w a Scorpio woman, or man imo...
I am insanely drawn to other Scorpios. When my bf and I met, he blew me away right out the gate w his authentic passion. I thought to myself, only a Scorpio has that kind of energy :p


But I hope it works out, and if not (bc it does NOT look good). It is a learning experience, you would have come closer to finding out who really is the one for you. If you know how to do that.

"The minute they go serious you can't help but to stop dead in your tracks and make sure you don't do anything to rock the boat. You have to be constantly aware of their emotions and heed to their every wish."

War,

It's good to know about her emotions and heed to her wishes but it's very important that you don't loose yourself in the process. Don't do it at the cost of your stand. If she's with you, it's because she respects who you are as a person at least to an extent. If you're in her life, it's because she needs "You", she needs the person that you are. So loosing your personality would be one of the best ways to loose her.

Archer,

I agree it's easier said than done. The major thing about fix signs is that you have to let them come to term on their own. It's not impossible for them to change, they surely can but it's done slowly. After they realized that it's needed. So just say your piece once or twice and then let it marinate.

War, I feel you here man. I use to always be gaga over Scorpio women. They are mysterious creatures with penetrating eyes. We cap man melt like butter over their magnetic charms and sexual aura. That is also why our disapointment can hurt tons when it does not work according to our plans.

Nothing about a scorp woman is half ass. If you are lucky to be her friend she will treat you with as much zeal and passion as a lover, until she finds a lover and then it's game over. lol.

In the end women need to feel safe with a man before they will open up. So my advise to you is not to give up yet, but keep your options open. A girl that's into you will let you know it. Also woman like to feel safe, so make sure you let this girl know that she is safe with you.

Happy women hunting. 😉

"one thing i have to remind myself often is to share my plans/ideas way early long before i plan to make it happen because i realize it takes time for him to come to term with changes or non-routines."

Yes and I think as he gets to trust you more and more. He'll handle these quick decisions from you better. My antennas are always up but if I trust your nature, I'll trust most of what is coming out of you.

RAYYYYY!!! It's just nice to see you😄

Posted by sarasa
RAYYYYY!!! It's just nice to see you😄

Hello Lady Sarasa 🙂 ... It's nice to see you too. Long time no see.

"yes JD that's an endearing quality of his (and yours obviously). he told me if i tell him "don't worry trust me" he would not worry. it makes me worry tho such a trust i'm only human i can do my best but i cannot guarantee tho coz i am not mistake-free sometimes i want to tell him hey don't trust anyone too much for your own sake shit happens protect yourself first and foremost!!! :/"

That's nice of you SG. So that would be the reason why he trust you then. Looking for his well being like that. A man can only respect that. He seems to trust you very much.

It could be hard to hear for a love one but it's honest. I think with honesty all is possible. If there is one thing the closest people to me has, is that they're honest. They're far from perfect but honest. I'll choose that over almost anything.

I also think it's a combination of both words and action that creates suspicions or trust. So if your actions are trustworthy, it will be easier for him to do with these statements.

i do pride myself as a trustworthy person atleast that's what i'd like to be. i don't do things that i think it's wrong or unethical.

Neither do I. I pretty much hold myself at the same standard I hold others. Well, until someone pisses me off that is lol.

Posted by sarasa
RAYYYYY!!! It's just nice to see you😄

SARASA 😄 😄 😄

SG,

That's good, working on self is more giving to humanity than people tend to make it seem like. I personally wish more people would do more internal work before rushing into peoples lives and impact it. I can only respect the heart behind that.

It's fine Archer and your typing is never wasted, always valuable ... glad I had the time to read your post. He seems obsessed with you. It's hard to tell but there must be something that he saw in you, that you may not see in yourself. It could be beyond your understanding. It's the same with me and Cappies, they often don't understand why I like em so much. In your case only time will reveal.