Should I??

I am in Long Distance relationship with a Capricorn guy, recently he stopped talking to me because we had some minor fight.I am assuming its one of those disappearing acts that I keep hearing about. Its been 2 weeks and 4 days and I still haven't heard from him. I am being Pateint about this, I tried to talk to him around New Year but no replies. So my question is Its his Birthday in two days, Should I wish him or not?..We have been together for last 6 months,He says he loves me and I am pretty sure that he will come back to me. I just don't want to sound desperate but its his Birthday!!..Please help me out..🙂

First off, he may not have considered the fight so minor - you did not indicate what it was about and you may have offended him to the point of just walking away. I've been known to do that... and I never looked back, that was that, I was done.

No harm in sending him a simple "Happy Birthday" but you may not want to hold your breath waiting for a response.

wooo..dont say that..😢.He can never walk on me..Like we made plans that we gonna marry and all..It was a really minor fight, like something about not not giving me his time, He lied to me about something and I confornted him..I wish that's not true..I have this gut feeling that his feelings are true..I hope so..so Capricorn can just run away from something like that?..That's just not right..oh my God..I wont take that..now I am scared to lose him..😢..actually If hes plannign to walk on me..I'll just lose all the respect I had for him..hmm...lets see...but Thanks for your suggestion...🙂

hmmm...If That's the case..m not wishing him...It hurts though..that someone who made so many promises will just walk away..just like that...🙂...I think people should be given taste of their own medicine...If he comes back..after a month or two..my feelings will be gone by than..but m gonna give him taste of his own medicine..:p

That's it girl, close that door! Don't forget to turn the key...

lol...I left an offline..I couldn't help it..It's his Birthday..no matter what he is upto..He is still a nice person at heart..and yeah If he doesn't reply back..I can atleast move on instead of waiting..:p..shut the door permanently..:p..and then everyone likes hearing from someone on Birthday..I don't know let's see...🙂...ahh Capricorn guys.. m so fascinated by your ignorance..its irritating but still its magnetic lol...but I will definitely some day give him taste of his own medicine...lol...

somedayyy...🙂

yeah "Pretending"...Yeah rite..I am Aquarius ...he knows I hate it when someone ignores me...maybe hes just teaching me a lesson...lol...btw..Happy Birthday...🙂

Caps are far to rational and become frustrated with others ignorance (why is it so difficult for people to see reality? It's right there in black in white!). We are always weighing the pros and cons of continuing the same route or moving on. It is a decision making process, not ignorance of any part of the whole - we are always aware. Furthermore, there is always a game plan, we just wait until the right moment to play our cards and we will out maneuver you.

Pia, this is why your Cap just walked away, he spent 6 months weighing the pros and cons, was not ignorant to any part of the whole (of who you are as a person, the direction of the relationship, and what he wants in life) and it sounds to me that whatever that spat was about tipped the scales against you - it wasn't anything he wasn't already aware of he just came to the conclusion that he has bigger and better things to do with his life than to play silly games with you. He waited until he was sure of the hand he was dealt and played his cards accordingly.

To sum it up, he was not going to waste his time with you - now that, would be ignorant!

Posted by pia.1989
wooo..dont say that..😢.He can never walk on me..Like we made plans that we gonna marry and all..It was a really minor fight, like something about not not giving me his time, He lied to me about something and I confornted him..I wish that's not true..I have this gut feeling that his feelings are true..I hope so..so Capricorn can just run away from something like that?..That's just not right..oh my God..I wont take that..now I am scared to lose him..😢..actually If hes plannign to walk on me..I'll just lose all the respect I had for him..hmm...lets see...but Thanks for your suggestion...🙂

Hmm, it probably wouldn't be good to lose respect for him just because he chooses to walk away from you. Sometimes, people need to come apart to realize a few things. To continue a relationship when bits of chaos can make things worse than what they are.

Also, people are different. A minor argument may not make some people walk away but with others a minor argument is just whats needed to help them make a decision they were thinking about all along but just needed that extra push.

Posted by pia.1989
lol...I left an offline..I couldn't help it..It's his Birthday..no matter what he is upto..He is still a nice person at heart..and yeah If he doesn't reply back..I can atleast move on instead of waiting..:p..shut the door permanently..:p..and then everyone likes hearing from someone on Birthday..I don't know let's see...🙂...ahh Capricorn guys.. m so fascinated by your ignorance..its irritating but still its magnetic lol...but I will definitely some day give him taste of his own medicine...lol...

lol ... an ex-bf of mine called to wish me a happy birthday. That was sweet ^_^. But thats all it was, just sweet, it didn't mine that I was going to start thinking on those terms again. We soooo broke up for a reason, I intend to keep it that way.

That was nice that you wished him a happy birthday and although you too are not communicating, you still think well of him BUT I'm not sure why you call capricorns ignorant just because that one man (for whatever reason) walked a way from you.

You gotta be careful with capricorns ... thats all of gonna say xD

of = I'm

Posted by pia.1989
yeah "Pretending"...Yeah rite..I am Aquarius ...he knows I hate it when someone ignores me...maybe hes just teaching me a lesson...lol...btw..Happy Birthday...🙂

Is it true what they say - that (for some) ignorance is bliss??

Posted by lildol

Posted by pia.1989
yeah "Pretending"...Yeah rite..I am Aquarius ...he knows I hate it when someone ignores me...maybe hes just teaching me a lesson...lol...btw..Happy Birthday...🙂

Is it true what they say - that (for some) ignorance is bliss??

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lol,

You know, I'm starting to think that being ignorant is just is bad as knowing too much. You know what I mean?

ah, but knowledge is power!

Posted by lildol
ah, but knowledge is power!

Now that is a very true statement above me. Along as the information you learn is from the right sources that is lol.

Posted by pia.1989
I am in Long Distance relationship with a Capricorn guy, recently he stopped talking to me because we had some minor fight.

While dating his Saggy GF, my Cappy friend and her had a disagreement about commitment... and she moved away... like eight hours away. He missed her badly enough that he started going down to visit her, and soon caved and proposed, lol.

In your situation tho... how much distance is there in this "long distance relationship"? What did you fight about? Subject is enough... you don't need to go into details.

Lastly, two weeks is a LONG time to go without talking to someone you've been dating for six months... but then... the distance thing... how many actual dates have you been on with this man?

Thanks guys for your suggestions and comments...He didnt reply to the Birthday Wish..I guess you were right that he moved on..I am really shocked..I feel like calling him up 20 times of something until he picks up and ask him why would he do such a thing..But yeah that's not a wise thing to do..but still just walking away from someone like this is really something new to me. I never expected this kinda harsh behavior from him..the distance is way too much I guess..He is British and m Canadian..🙂...anywhoo..Thanks..I guess I wont even look at another cappi from now on...One Mistake is good enough..🙂...but still feelings were quite strong..at the back of my mind I still think he'll come back..but it wont be the same from now on I guess..But I really badly wanna talk to him before I move on..donoo...this HURTS..😢

yeah this is one the chats conversation....🙂..now it brings tears to my eyes..I feel like sending this conversion and many others we had..:p




HIM: wont leave u

me: hmmmmmmm

HIM: when u will walk away from me.. mad.. i ll follow u 🙂

when u ll push me off i ll hug u 🙂

when u ignore me.. i give u attention 🙂

me: how come m always the bad one

😢

i can never ignore u

HIM: when u pull away.. i ll pull u back..

me: :p

HIM: when i see at ur worst.. i ll say ur beautiful..

me: 🙂

HIM: when i c u start crying.. i hold u close..

when ur scared.. i ll protect u


HIM: when u steal my fav. wallet.. i ll let u keep it 🙂

when u tease me.. i ll laugh with u 🙂

me: hehe

HIM: when u dont answer me.. i ll re assure u that everything is gona b okay..

when u look at me with a doubt.. i m gona brace myself :-|

when u say u like me.. i ll know that its much more than a liking 🙂

when u tell me a secret.. i ll keep it safe..

me: 🙂

HIM: when u ll look into my eyes.. i wont look away till u do..

when u miss me loads.. i know u r hurt..

n if u ever say its all over... i ll know u still want me to b only urs 🙂

i love u

conversation to him"

seems that way chance, seems like love and I know some caps totally disappear during conflicts especially after the expression of love and he's expressed it, I wouldn't wait on him pia but I wouldn't count him out, some male caps are slooooooooooooooooooow beyond slow, he will come back around when you least expect him too, Aqua females seem to lack the patience to be with a Cap male, we are initiators and like to lead and Cap males feel pushed and nagged by us (some not all).

Ease up on the fighting, find another way to deal with disagreements in the future, trust me it will do you both a ton of good and keep you close to one another.