Should I speak about my feelings to him?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by taurus_sunshine on Wednesday, November 1, 2017 and has 9 replies.
Greetings,

Mr. Cap is my old flame, we had liked each other a lot but him being suffering due to his heart break , I had to let him go. He got married to someone else than his ex, we became friends.

He showed his first sign of interest in me in March this year. I took it light, warned him if he is forgetting about his marriage. Nevertheless, he continued. And, I agree, I enjoyed every bit of it. We have a very powerful communication and something which makes us cannot ignore each other.

Well in October, he hinted how much he likes me and he wants to have it with me. I did not react, I warned him again about his marriage. By this time, I clearly knew I have regenerated powerful feelings for him and I do not feel to be a third person between husband and wife. So I did not tell him anything about how I feel.

He met his wife (they both live in different states) on her bday (she is Libra) and since then he decreased communication frequency between us, which makes sense. He must have felt that his wife is his priority not me. And that's when it started hurting me immensely. I am accepting each day, its all gone and the fling has ended.

But I am perplexed, should I tell him that I have strong feelings for him? He still wants me to be friends at least. I feel I should leave his life permanently, but should I leave quietly or at least mention how much I love him and then say goodbye? Never in my life before, I have felt love feelings for a guy, twice, after letting him go in the first place.
He's married
No. Just no.
Infatuation... but not love.

You should leave silently or with a big bang telling his wife what kind of bastard he is.
Thank you. I actually did leave silently. I did not say anything. I don't know his wife so I can't talk to her. No matter how much it hurts me right now, it feels that my life will some day appreciate this decision and bless me with someone who could be mine only smile

He is moving with his wife and asked me to meet him for dinner for the last time, but I said no. Since then we haven't interacted once. I think he understood my silence. I am keeping it quiet.

Thank you!
Self respect. I like it.
Posted by hippiecrite
Self respect. I like it.
Thank you, it was necessary to take the right and timely decision. And that's the best I could do, trying to save three hearts.
You make the right decision so far! Keep moving! You know your worth, and I believe someone single out there will know your worth too and will love you and only you. Winking
Posted by scentedGhost
You make the right decision so far! Keep moving! You know your worth, and I believe someone single out there will know your worth too and will love you and only you. Winking
Awesome, thank you for the hopes smile I am keeping very strong each day, to not talk to him or entertain him what so ever.