So frustrated

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Feistypisces777 on Tuesday, September 23, 2014 and has 4 replies.
Hello. Several things have happened in the few weeks I've been away from dxpnet. I really need some advice. Several weeks ago, I started talking to a Capricorn guy. I absolutely love his personality. It's everything I've been looking for and more. I've known him since high school and we just never knew that we liked each other, until weeks ago when he confessed it to me. We've gone on a lot of dates and all of them went amazing. We laughed and had a really great time... But on the last one he came out of the blue (TOTALLY OUT OF THE BLUE.) and told me that I wasn't his "type" or that I wasn't what he expected. I felt totally crushed and just said okay. As a pisces I took a while to process this and just want to see the best in him, but it's getting really hard to because I want to talk to him really bad and I miss him a lot... I don't know what I did. I tried asking him if I did something wrong and he never texted me back. I'm so crushed and I need some advice... Please help. Thanks in advance guys...
Something turned him off.
What that is.....only he knows.
It's probably nothing you did. So yall had some dates, you had fun. You're not "the one" for him. Doesn't mean you're not a good person. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Don't take it personally. You're just not his perfect fit. If you look deep down, you'll probably see that he wasn't your perfect fit either. Don't look at it as rejection. It's not. He likes you, and respects you, you're just not his "one". Yes he does respect you! Otherwise he would have just ghosted out. Be grateful he took the time to be honest with you and tell you. No no wasted time. No hard feelings. K?
Better to call it off early when you discover it, than let it drag on and someone develops deep feelings and really gets hurt.
Now, get out there and go find your "one" who sees you as his "one".
He already told you, you're not his type, i.e., he doesn't see a long term relationship with you
If you try and force or fix the issue, even if you somehow change his mind, you'll always be changing his mind.
Find someone who thinks you're his type