So what do I do now?
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Jkats on Saturday, June 25, 2016 and has 7 replies.
First couple of conversations were very friendly, the Cap guy i'm interested in shared with me "personal" stuff, but since the last time, where I acted a little standoffish, things have been awkward. In the second convo we had, I threw it out there that maybe we could hang out one of these days, he never really gave me an answer, so I took it as if he wasn't interested in me, hence the reason why I backed off.
Today I saw him again, approached him, but he seemed very aloof. We only talked for like 2 minutes, and then I went on my way. Is this his way of showing disinterest, or maybe he thinks i'm not interested in him like that? What do I do now? I don't wanna look like a fool and keep on approaching him if he doesn't wanna get to know me.
Today I saw him again, approached him, but he seemed very aloof. We only talked for like 2 minutes, and then I went on my way. Is this his way of showing disinterest, or maybe he thinks i'm not interested in him like that? What do I do now? I don't wanna look like a fool and keep on approaching him if he doesn't wanna get to know me.
Posted by K_1018That's what I thought, but I had read that Cap guys tend to be shy around girls they are attracted to. And I catch him looking at me from time to time, so i'm confused lol!
It seems like he's trying to hint that he's not interested.
Posted by ForeverlovemeGot it! God, now I created such an awkward situation lol!!!! I wish I hadn't gone up to him. :/Posted by JkatsTo avoid this let him come to you. That's the only way you'll really know. If he initiates then he's interested or still deciding. If he doesn't then he lost interest.
First couple of conversations were very friendly, the Cap guy i'm interested in shared with me "personal" stuff, but since the last time, where I acted a little standoffish, things have been awkward. In the second convo we had, I threw it out there that maybe we could hang out one of these days, he never really gave me an answer, so I took it as if he wasn't interested in me, hence the reason why I backed off.
Today I saw him again, approached him, but he seemed very aloof. We only talked for like 2 minutes, and then I went on my way. Is this his way of showing disinterest, or maybe he thinks i'm not interested in him like that? What do I do now? I don't wanna look like a fool and keep on approaching him if he doesn't wanna get to know me.click to expand
Posted by K_1018Ok, I will take his actions at face value. I guess it's common sense lol! Going to back off for good now, i've got the message loud and clear.Posted by JkatsI think you're over thinking it. In my experience, Cap men are persistent if they are interested. They may still be shy around you but will make a move and take the lead. When they are not, they tend to be standoffish and aloof. But only he knows if he is or not, I suppose.Posted by K_1018That's what I thought, but I had read that Cap guys tend to be shy around girls they are attracted to. And I catch him looking at me from time to time, so i'm confused lol!
It seems like he's trying to hint that he's not interested.click to expand
I think the Cap men may have thought "he said too much personal stuff to you last time and feels awkward about the whole thing. I wouldn't rush to the idea that he's not interested. But it's best not to approach him unless he approaches you - balls in his court. Then for sure you have your answer.
Posted by ForeverlovemeI'm always myself, but it's awkward now because I get the vibe from him that he's not interested in me, so now I feel as if I have to avoid him. It could be that I am way older than him, or that I have kids, maybe because I jumped the gun and asked if he wanted to hang out sometime, or he's just not interested in a relationship right now. Who really knows, but i'm going to just chill and let him come to me if he decides to do so.Posted by JkatsIt will be fine. Don't worry about it. It will only be awkward if you make it that way & think like that. Just stay positive no matter the outcome & be yourselfPosted by ForeverlovemeGot it! God, now I created such an awkward situation lol!!!! I wish I hadn't gone up to him. :/Posted by JkatsTo avoid this let him come to you. That's the only way you'll really know. If he initiates then he's interested or still deciding. If he doesn't then he lost interest.
First couple of conversations were very friendly, the Cap guy i'm interested in shared with me "personal" stuff, but since the last time, where I acted a little standoffish, things have been awkward. In the second convo we had, I threw it out there that maybe we could hang out one of these days, he never really gave me an answer, so I took it as if he wasn't interested in me, hence the reason why I backed off.
Today I saw him again, approached him, but he seemed very aloof. We only talked for like 2 minutes, and then I went on my way. Is this his way of showing disinterest, or maybe he thinks i'm not interested in him like that? What do I do now? I don't wanna look like a fool and keep on approaching him if he doesn't wanna get to know me.click to expand
Posted by takemeawayWell it wasn't super personal stuff, like ex talk, or his hopes and dreams lol, but things that I thought was interesting to be telling someone you just met. Like how his mom had her kids young, her age, his daily schedule, how his dad works like 60 hours a week, etc.
I think the Cap men may have thought "he said too much personal stuff to you last time and feels awkward about the whole thing. I wouldn't rush to the idea that he's not interested. But it's best not to approach him unless he approaches you - balls in his court. Then for sure you have your answer.
But I won't approach him again, I need to save face haha! If he wants me, then he's gonna have to come get me.
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