Some news...

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by MyCap on Saturday, March 11, 2006 and has 19 replies.
I got a call from the cap yesterday afternoon. He explained that he's been so busy and that he hasn't had time for anything. So he asked me if i wanted to go out for dinner last nite. I was shocked. WE went and ate, had a great time, I stayed at his place and left this afternoon. It was such a great time. We haven't done that in a while. Mostly, as I've said before, we only have booty calls. He's off work again today and he told me he'd call me later to see what I was up to. He's being weird. Well weird in a good way. I guess me having patience and control over my emotions really pays off. I"m not getting hopes up quite yet. U know how these cappies are.
WoooohHooooh! MyCap! This is very very good news. This makes me very happy!! Keep on doing what you're doing girl!
Mycap, how long did it take for him to re-appear again? Don't mean to burst your bubble, but are you happy with just being a booty call? If so, then great, but if you want something more, are you prepared to wait this long again for him to disappear and re-appear, what about a bit of stability? He's working on his terms..when do your needs and wants come into play?
Oh, Missmorals, let her have her happiness for a weekend. I think MyCap's aware of all of these issues and concerns.
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Mycap~ I cut my Cop-Cap loose today. Told him I didn't think he was really interested in getting to know me, and that our emails are fun but I don't see this going anymore. He responds with, "ok......." Unbelievable, one of these monsters can become so frustrating over just one week of emailing!
Ur right CapGirl, I am aware of all those issues. And missmorals, he never really disappeared. He was really busy this week and I hadn't seen him since Sun nite. If u knew the whole story I think you'd look at it differently. CapGirls been following my story reguarly, and thanks by the way!
I'm sorry to hear about ur cap CapGirl. That sucks. But I guess it's best to let it go now than later. It's crazy that he said ok..., but that is a typical cap. I used to tell mine such things and he acted like it didnt bother him and he'd just say ok, whatever u want to do. That would p!ss me off so bad!
Your right Capgirl..I am sowwy Mycap..you go do your thang..knock him out!..lol
I forgive u missmorals. I understand why u said it tho! I'm trying to do my thang. It was so funny b/c he was at home last nite and I had talked to him, and was wondering if he was going to ask me to come over. Well I had already made plans w/the aquarius guy on Thurs nite to go out on Sat nite. Well I would much rather have done something w/the cap of course than the aqua. So the cap told me he'd call me back a little later, so I was kind of mad because I wanted to do something w/him. WEll the aqua called, wanted to pick me up at 8. So the cap hadn't called back. So I called him and said u never called back so Im getting ready to leave and go eat and he said ok. I was like just ok? I asked him if he was going out, he said he didn't know. I was like ok. But then he said I could call him after I got done eating. WEll the aqua had plans for us after eating so I didn't get in early enough to give the cap a call. I was mad. It's tough having two men.
PF~~ I'm still seeing the aqua guy, but I don't know. He seems to be very controlling of what I do. He always wants to know what I'm doing, etc. It's kind of overwhelming. He's the sweetest guy and would do anything in the world for me. But it all comes down to the fact that I only want the cap and it's hard.
girl- i would not have called the cap at all tho' on sat. to try to get an invite out of him. you really need to buy that 'why men love b*tches " book. u are too available openly so, and he knows it.
I agree with Capgirl..Don't be available..I know its hard but it CAN be done..
I've got the book. Well I know I should be more unavailable, but that kind of works the opposite w/him tho. I've tried it before. Just like yesterday, he called me and asked me if I wanted to come over and hang out. So I went there about 4 or so and didn't leave til this a.m. I had a wonderful time. I just don't understand y all of a sudden now he's being more attentive to me and wanting to spend more time w/me.
Good question, PF. (When you gonna be able to access y-email??)
Mine knowing that I'm on match seems to have ran him off further. But I'm glad he at least knows now that I'm not pining for him.
Thanks, PF, I guess so... Sad I'll email you for later...
Don't be sad, CG, find yourself a great scorpio man. They know how to treat a WOMAN.
Or find a lovable Piscean Man. They know what to do too!
Well, I do have that Pisces I'm talking to... Don't want to take over MyCap's thread here... Waiting to hear from her. "You've got mail"(2) ~ PF, for dinnertime reading. ; )
CG ~ lol then stop putting info for "my eyes only" on other people's threads! Tongue
PF~~
Yes he does know that I'm seein the other guy. The cap actually started reading my texts from him last nite. I have nothing to keep from him, so I let him read them. Ur right, the cap can't be mad since he isn't giving me a commitment. I had drama tho last nite w/the aqua guy. He texted me and called while I was w/the cap. Well I replied to some texts but didnt call him back. Then he texted later last nite while I was in bed. He asked if I was ignoring him and I told him I was in bed. He said oh really...and left it at that. U want to know what the aqua did, he drove by my house, knew I wasn't home. So then he decides to drive by later and noticed I still wasn't home. He figured I was at the caps house. See he knows about the cap (not that Im still kind of seein him tho) because they work together. Not directly but do the same thing. So he knew about me and the cap before me and the aqua hooked up. But see at the time of me and the aqua, me and the cap had broken up. So confusing.
Anyhow, I went to the aquas house on lunch and he's heartbroken. I mean, he's devastated. I explained to him where I was, etc. I wasn't goin to lie to him. So I don't know whats going on w/the aqua now. I guess he cared more about me than I had ever thought.
Holy drama, Batman! You hadn't slept w/ the Aqua yet, had you? No judgment calls, just confirming. That's kind of psycho- drive-bys. He told you about them?
CG,
No I haven't slept w/him. We have just been seeing each other for probably a month or little less. He flipped out on me! That is psycho, his driving by and seeing if I was at home or not. Get this...the first couple wks we had been talking I had told him where I lived. No biggie, but one day he told me he drove to my house to see if he could find it or where it was. Granted it's like a 25 min drive from his house. That was kind of crazy itself. But yeah he drove by 2 times last nite, he told me that when I went to his house today. Crazy, huh!

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