Something To Consider (?)

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by cappysweetie on Wednesday, July 11, 2007 and has 8 replies.
Do you think there are reasons why capricorn women do not succeed in love relationships. Based on the qualities we have verses some other signs, you would think it woul be easy for us to find true intimacy with a guy of any sign.
What is it about ourselves that holds us back? Should we make improvements?
:: To me, life is about never ending learning and self-discovery so yes I'd say we should recognize our shortcomings and make improvements constantly to them so we can make ourselves and others happier. ::
Yes, I'm with you on that one. I've been trying to make a few changes that I feel are necessary -- with appearance, personality ... just in general. Haha, I'm not done yet but I'm going to see if this has an effect on anything.
kinda like JD said and like sb (where'd she go?) pointed out as well... i think we greatly understate ourselves... we don't give ourselves enough credit for what we are and what we have to offer, and yea... we're a bit excessive with that control streak. it's not that we dont put in enough work... we put in too much work. it's the most freeing thing when you realize the only thing you actually have control over is just yourself. there's no controlling other people, and there is no controlling a relationship... give it air and breathing room. you just put in what you want out of it... and when you've asked yourself if it matters that much, and the answer is 'yes!', then you become a master of love, commitment and patience.
"Love comes to those who believe in it, I feel most female Capricorns don't believe they're loveable ... when truly they are and even if you were to let them know in so many ways, they're more inclined to not believe you and that attitude cam make a mate loose faith in her after a while (Just my opinion)"
HI! JD smile
OMG, thats so true. I do feel like I'm unlovable. As a matter of fact ... (to an degree) I feel like that now. However, it's hard to believe what a guy tells you if you been lied to so many times.
I'm doing okay JD smile
I feel like I've been everywhere Big Grin Well, I moved out of my parents and into an apartment with my friend/ roommate whose a scorpio. I have a post about her on the Scorpio board -- it's about her messiness and how it gets on my nerves.
I'm taking classes in the summer again because I'm trying to get my B.S. in Biology a little faster. Hahaha, as you can tell I'm still single and currently (but not really) looking for someone. As a capricorn, I suck when it comes to intimate relationships but I'm trying to get better.
Haha, yes I'm definitely growing -- but that's a good thing, no matter how many war scars I come away with Winking Actaully, it's kinda funny -- all of my stuff is portable. Like my drawers and other compartments are basically storage containers made on the style of household items. I even have an airbed because my orginal bed would have taken up too much space in the bedroom -- since a one-bedroom was cheaper, we decided to just share our sleeping space.
Haha, he doesn't like the fact that most of my stuff is portable -- especially my bed. Haha, maybe she thinks I'm going to leave if her messiness really starts to get to me Big Grin
Anyway, I suck at intimate relationships because .... hahaha, I have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to the males, to put it all bluntly. Honestly, I think I'd make a decent girlfriend, but maybe that's the problem, I think WAY to high of myself Tongue Oh well, my ego has been shot down and now I'm slowly putting it back together.
Awww, Blink,
I think we all can be insensitive at times along with being selfish.
They should succeed considering that they work so hard for their love partners. They're always on time where they need to be and they're very good at taking care of their interests. With the right people, Capricorns are sure to show their love. They can look as dreamy and romantic as ever, and it's not mask. When Capricorns love, their love is true. You can count on them for security and protection, and best of all, they last. Capricorns deserve much more, but they're willing to wait.
That makes them all the more better.

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