SoS: Need more O's

Question:

Are most cap men overly sexual/sensual freaks behind closed doors? My cap guy and I have only 'come' together a couple times and he told me from the very beginning he has to get to know someone first and see that, that person is a friend in order to consider dating. Well I think now were at the threshold of making things exclusive and Im just wondering if I will scare him off if I break out my s & m outfit or get super sexual on him. Another thing, when we have 'been together' he tries to change positions like every ten seconds which is sort of ruining my buzz if you know what I mean. Can you sexify a cap up? Are they willing students?

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Last things first we are very willing sexual students. I always have been since I was 12. I know that sounds premature, but hey...it happened so whatever.

For me "coming" together is not anything to me. I want the girl to "come" as many times as possible until she wants to quit. This position is usually with her riding. I can always get mine at the end at any time. After you, along with you, whatever. Once a Cap male knows he's pleasing, that switch should be hard to turn off.

I never get really excited over lace and cute lingerie or anything like that. My mind isnt really into "you" until I can see the little creases where your B*** meets with the thigh. I love to see khakis. I love to see casual wear like cute jogging pants and those little t-shirts. Barefooted with short nightshorts on. MAAAAAAAANNN.
Strip bars and such do nothing for me because Im not pleasing any of them and thats what its all about for me. Seeing boobies and such on TV is just juvenile to me. Im just giving you ONE capmale perspective.

Most of the time I will not "come" with a female, or come at all the first time. I cant really explain that. After I get to know them better I will get a little selfish, but its mainly for her esteem. Dont get me wrong though, its ALL good.

You wont scare him away with any of your outfits...Im just wondering if he'll appreciate it like you do. See Im about the bare essentials because all women are naturally beautiful to me and interesting once you get to know them. Extras detract my focus from what really turns me on and thats "YOU" so-to-speak. Personally I need to know and feel Im satisfying you. If his mind is in the right place, I would say he should be able to give you O's till your head pops off. At least thats the way its always been for me, so I dont really know anything else opposite to that.

Focus on: DOGGY and YOU ON TOP. Coming together is overrated. Save that movie stuff for when you guys go on your honeymoon and it actually produces a baby. Then it will have all been worthwhile to do it because it will look perfect in your mind.

oohhh...and as far as position switching every ten seconds hmmm?

I know why he's switching so much.

I dont care if you like it or not, act like youre loving every bit of him and rotate your angles a little more. You cant have sex with him you have to BANG the you know what out of him in any position. Make sure you angle yourself so that it stretches his "warrior" so that he feels like hes really gettin in there.

Also, MAKE him do some things to you that might be taboo. Now as far as making "love" goes...you'll just have to catch me later on that one.

Sorry to be so detailed on this forum, but this subject is my shizzzz here.

Im oddly warm ALL OVER.. tha aries is all hot and bothered now thanks super cap 😉

"Sorry to be so detailed on this forum, but this subject is my shizzzz here."

Haha. That was the best line.

As a Gem, I talk about sex with my Cap a lot and he has basically said the same things SuperCap said. All the other extraness (sexy clothes, etc.) is really unnecessary. He told me how his mind wanders to some X-rated things when we're having the simplest of conversations. So if he's sexually attracted to you, you won't need much to get him excited, and nothing should turn that switch off either. In my Cap's words, "When I'm horny, nothing really turns me off except bad hygiene, bad hair, or dirty shoes." 😛

I think they're definitely willing to learn, because whenever my Cap does something that I enjoy and I tell him, he's always like, "Really?" And he'll do it some more lol.

Its gettin hot in here so take off all your clothes.. wait sorry that song has been in my head all morning. I want to have my way with mr Cap. I want to submit him. Will he get mad if I take control. Thats secretly what I want to do. Make him do really really really naughty things to me.

I've noticed that caps seem to lose their virginity very young...or maybe it doesn't apply only to caps.

But I've noticed that...

Hmm... Control?

My Cap is very dominant. He likes to tell me what to do and only when I don't do it does he soften his approach and add a 'please' on it lol. We haven't had sex, however in our talks about it I asked him if he liked to be in control and he said, 'I always have to start in control.' So let him start in control and then slowly take over. Don't just bust out in your S&M and tell him to get on all fours lmao. He might not adjust quickly.

I'd assume being on top could help you gauge how he feels about you being in control. If he quickly changes the position that puts him back in control, you have your answer lol.