STAY AWAY FROM MY FRIENDS & ME!!!

This cappi roomate I have is FINALLY moving. he's leaving on the 1st, which is one day later then he should, but oh, now he's keeping the key till tommorow. uggggggggh!

Anyways, my BIG peeve with this guy: he's playing 2 of my girlfriends. I hate it! They are mesmerized by him & he is just the biggest asshole! He's fucking other girls AND guys. He is a cheap prick that only uses women to get things or to feed his ego.

One is a hairdresser & cuts his hair, one gave him a BBQ, another buys him lunch all the time (all going on every other day, kinda thing) & now my friends are getting in on it...

My issue, I'm embarrased for my friends being suckers, & actually HATTTTTTTTTTE that they are hooking up (or trying to)with him.

To be honest, I wouldn't put it past him to secretly cut himself a spare key. He's screwed.

Oh, now he just TOLD me he's keeping the key till the 3rd! Must I change the locks?!!!!!!!!!!!

I think your jealous

hes hoseing both your friends and you are left out. shame on you little green eyed goddess.

Oh God no! I don't find him attractive at all! I was actually expecting a "u must be jealous" answer. If I am jealous at all it's that my friends might secretly be wanting to talk to him when they come around. BUT, fact still remains, he is pi $ $ ing me off with his arrogant, "all about me" attitude. Holding my house keys for FOUR days past due, when I HATE living with him shows that. He's messy, steals my food, friends & invades my privacy past due.

😢 -grumpy goddess

"get less stupid friends"

Yes, I will be not calling one of them anymore. One friend even has a boyfriend! Totally disrepectful to do that in front of me.

Thanks for the info Waterbear.I just feel like this guys walked all over me in disrespecting my stuff & now I take a solid stand & he's like, f off I do as I please! The friend thing is just annoying then too, when he's being like that to me.

honey change the locks, why would you want a man having the ability to show up at your home anytime of the day or night, he doesn't sound emotionally stable, better safe than sorry.

If your friends are being stupid as you say it over this guy, you might try distancing yourself from them until the infactuation passes or find new friends.

Totally good idea, cuz the one with a bf is just annoying me, talking about him the whole time when we hang out. Like, what about your own man? And why would I wanna hear good things about an a-hole player? A little distance won't hurt, for a little while.

Changing the locks - I thought about it. Not sure if it's worth it for a couple of days. I don't think I even know how to do that, and I'm don't spending a bunch of $ on it. If I think he's been there after he's "given up" the key, I'll tell the landlord to do it. Oh well, almost over, sigh.

How did you end up with a roommate? I thought you and your Scorpio man lived together.3s a crowd.

Always change the locks after someone moves out. That's plain common sense because anyone can make copies of a key. I always make 3-4 copies of my keys and I don't tell or give all of them in when I leave an apartment. I usually just throw them away since I don't have any reason to go to an ex-apartment. For safety reasons, its best to change locks.

I'd say Taurusgoddess....don't sweat the small stuff...he'll be gone for good in a few days.....you're certainly letting him "press your buttons":-)......why not organize a "goodbye fcuk party"!:-) and invite all your girl pals and his girlfriends to it and then announce at the top of your voice - "Three cheers for the guy who's fcuked every single person in this room at one time or another and even on the same day"!!!😉 - I'd say it just might be a "kodak" moment and give you closure with a smile on your face:-)

Alana x

change the locks if you are going to remain in the apartment, its for your own safety, if this guy is as sleazy as you say, its best to have peace of mind knowing that you won't have to deal with him ever again, he might think its okay to bring girls over and play around in your bed while your gone (just a thought) or the worse case scenerio he could be a thief, find out how much it cost to change the locks or see if the landlord will change the locks and add it to the rent.

Alana... LOL!!!!!!!!

TG, definitely change the locks. He's thoroughly proven himself an a- hole and that he thinks he can walk all over you, dont even give him a chance to prove it yet again. And tell your friends that are bothering with him ex-ZACT-ly what you think and not to bring it around you. slap 'em with some truth. they're your friends, but g'damn... eeeeediots.

and yes i know 'exactly' isnt spelled with a 'z'...