Straight to his heart...!!!

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LC~ How did you "cool your heels"? Did you sit outside his door, and did he know you were waiting there on him?

Just curious... As the 2nd time I did this, uninvited, he didn't answer his door... I just left, and then sent him a text that I'd dropped by. He had a bit of notice though that I would be stopping by that evening. That time was a bust, and failed. The first time I tried that- totally unannounced/no warning- worked better and he answered the door to me. I think the next time, he had too much time to think and wonder why I was coming over there and was I mad... Even when he did let me in, he was still wondering why I was there and what the "boundaries" were (i.e. friend vs. romantic).

CapGuy is so right... these guys want to know "where they stand", even though at the same time they are unwilling to tell you directly where you stand with them!! And in my experience... if you're sending mixed messages and not "showing your hand", they will do the strangest, craziest things to try to beat your feelings out of you! (i.e. "button-pushing")
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So, did you get to stay long, LC? When I pulled it off that time, I asked for a "drink of water" after being there 15 minutes or so and I was denied a glass of water!!! LOL I was literally "parched" and was working up to "spill the beans", little did he know. He acted like he needed to "go out" (get something out of his car) and used that to usher me out and down out of the bldg. So, I then resorted to my back-up plan... and left a little bomb with him (the love letter), which when he saw that I had a card for him, he immediately looked relieved and happy, more at ease. It was really comical bc. it was obvious that he could not figure out the purpose of my surprise visit, was pleasantly surprised but uncomfortably nervous. 😛