DXP users would need to know what the insulted question is in order to help you respond.
Suspicious Cappy
Posted by tiki33
DXP users would need to know what the insulted question is in order to help you respond.
+1
He is most likely already prepared for your response before he asked you the question. To spark attraction with a Capricorn Male you must come up with a witty way of answering the question on the spot. Also, a well planned response also does the trick as long as it's creative and make the wheels turn in our heads...
Posted by WoundedLeo
Personally, it doesn't even matter to me what he said to you. In my opinion, what comes around goes around. If you did this to others in the past, you had it coming to you. Time to grin and bear it. No offense.
No offense taken. I get that; I totally do.
Not sure about "grinning and bearing it," though.
How long ago was this? If it's been days then don't answer. 3 weeks he can get an answer.
If he's badgering you for an answer tell him you don't have an answer yet (if you don't have an answer). To be honest I'm confused or just really slow today. What question did he ask you that was so offensive? Was the proof about your surgery? Was it the issue with him having an question about your behavior?
"It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figger out what he wants to ask me. And YES, as a Cap woman I am insulted!"
Your assumption that he'll ask you about whatever it is you think he's going to ask is the problem but maybe I'm not quite comprehending your assumption that whatever he's going to ask you is something you should be insulted about.
Don't jump ahead of him. If he's asking you to prove certain things about yourself and you're not comfortable with that, why not say "I'm not comfortable with that question" and change the subject.
Is he sharing his dark flaws with you? It goes both ways and I don't recommend revealing your flaws to a Cap without him reciprocating the same. A less evolved male will inevitably exploit and mentally emotionally manipulate things in a way that he's winning and you're the loser which creates a level of mental disorientation where you end up needing his approval to feel better about yourself which elevates his status ABOVE you.
Actually I see him lowering your relationship worth y friend zoning you, he said something along the lines of being friends and this is code for rejection in a sense that he's not going further than friendship. If you feel he's the lesser breed of Capricorn then why waste your time.
Either way, don't make assumptions and relax, you'll be fine. I'm not proclaiming to be 100% accurate but look out for yourself to ensure you're seeing things properly.
If he's badgering you for an answer tell him you don't have an answer yet (if you don't have an answer). To be honest I'm confused or just really slow today. What question did he ask you that was so offensive? Was the proof about your surgery? Was it the issue with him having an question about your behavior?
"It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figger out what he wants to ask me. And YES, as a Cap woman I am insulted!"
Your assumption that he'll ask you about whatever it is you think he's going to ask is the problem but maybe I'm not quite comprehending your assumption that whatever he's going to ask you is something you should be insulted about.
Don't jump ahead of him. If he's asking you to prove certain things about yourself and you're not comfortable with that, why not say "I'm not comfortable with that question" and change the subject.
Is he sharing his dark flaws with you? It goes both ways and I don't recommend revealing your flaws to a Cap without him reciprocating the same. A less evolved male will inevitably exploit and mentally emotionally manipulate things in a way that he's winning and you're the loser which creates a level of mental disorientation where you end up needing his approval to feel better about yourself which elevates his status ABOVE you.
Actually I see him lowering your relationship worth y friend zoning you, he said something along the lines of being friends and this is code for rejection in a sense that he's not going further than friendship. If you feel he's the lesser breed of Capricorn then why waste your time.
Either way, don't make assumptions and relax, you'll be fine. I'm not proclaiming to be 100% accurate but look out for yourself to ensure you're seeing things properly.
Posted by LoversInLove3
But if he's asking you disrespectful questions, I see that as...well...he doesn't respect you.
Guys that want to use you will say whatever THEY want.
If he wants to use me, he is going about it in an odd fashion.
I think this is classic Cappy suspicion; as I said, I recognize it because I have done it myself.
Posted by LoversInLove3
But if he's asking you disrespectful questions, I see that as...well...he doesn't respect you.
Guys that want to use you will say whatever THEY want.
You aren't a Cappy -- right?
CapsRule has been offensive in numerous threads. Suddenly coming up with personal insults out of nowhere. Most of the time when the answer wasn't even directed at her.
Either she has other issues that make her respond like that or she still has a lot to learn about talking on a forum online. It's just bad manners and rude.
Either she has other issues that make her respond like that or she still has a lot to learn about talking on a forum online. It's just bad manners and rude.
Posted by WoundedLeo
Personally, it doesn't even matter to me what he said to you. In my opinion, what comes around goes around. If you did this to others in the past, you had it coming to you. Time to grin and bear it. No offense.
Hello WL, big hugs to you 🙂
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