THE EX FACTOR.....RANT

Rant.....

I don't give a shit your his ex wife. Your remarried so focus on that instead of me and him!! Don't call him names when he calls you out on your shitty behavior, you don't get to abuse him anymore. The fastest way for me to have a huge problem with YOU is to hurt him!! Don't tell him that your son dislikes me when he tells you to get over it we've been together for 9 months and I'm going to be around y'all's kids...then when he asks his son if he said that, son says he NEVER said that....your a twisted little heifer and I'm done with your manipulations because you can't accept the fact he has moved on...remember it was YOU that didn't want him, YOU that cheated and YOU are gonna see a side of me you don't wanna see very soon if you keep it up....

Rant over, carry on....

^^thank you! Good advice and I KNOW it's gonna get worse. I think it's sick to involve the kids in that mess!!

She's jealous. Cowpuncher gives good advice. I wish my ex would spend the energy supporting our son instead of harrasing me. He was the one who wanted out. He was the one who wanted a girlfiriend. But he continues to harrass me. He's jealous because my kids like my boyfriend and won't have anything to do with his girlfriend. You're no alone in this. Those kidsvwill always remember and yall need to come across as the stable ones. Keep that in mind.

True that, you gals are smart!!

Not to go too off topic, but whats up with this? The exes wanting out then harassing and keeping tabs once that happens?

Im trying to figure out why I would do something like that, and it would be if I wanted something from my guy that he wasnt giving so I moved on more because I had to than because I wanted to.

If thats in any way true, all of these exes probably still have feelings.

^^I agree with them still having feelings....Also they figure if there man/woman gets serious with new person they won't have an illusion of a safety net to fall back on when current relationship blows up. Just my .02

I think Cowpuncher is a man.

Or at least he is now....after the operation.

It's pretty narcissistic.

Posted by lnana04
Not to go too off topic, but whats up with this? The exes wanting out then harassing and keeping tabs once that happens?

Im trying to figure out why I would do something like that, and it would be if I wanted something from my guy that he wasnt giving so I moved on more because I had to than because I wanted to.

If thats in any way true, all of these exes probably still have feelings.

lnana i was trying to figure out the same thing. what would drive me to do something like this?

i'm thinking something similarly. i think i'd be feeling the same thing as with my ex scorp... hoping he'd figure himself out and would come back later.

BUT i'm hoping also though that if he were to move on... i'd probably leave it alone. i dont see myself being a manipulative saboteur like this one. Moving on like this is a clear sign to me that it wasnt meant to be.

GemJenn.. seems like she isnt letting go.

😢 eesh. Its a good thing your cap is being firm

Yeah and she can't stand that.....so used to being the controlling one in their relationship and she hates he refuses to let her do that anymore! Thanks for all the advice, you guys are awesome!

Thats the other thing. I find that once Caps relax in relationships, the partner becomes controlling. I think thats more of what it is. These exes are use to controlling the Cap, and thats what they cant let go of. To control or be controlled....only two options it seems smh.