To all ladies!!

I see a lot of women still coming on caps board with dating and relationship issues. Just wanted to throw my two coins in here. I went almost crazy over the cap guy I was seeing as fwb. Really. I was picking up on the mixed signals and thinking he can get away with this behavior. I analyzed everything he'd say to me and google signs if cap man is into you and blah blah all that pathetic crap. I ended up being really hurt when I found out that I was being patient for nothing! I was just wasting my time meanwhile he was fucking other chicks and enjoying his freedom. I lost a lot. And it was my time, my energy, my life, and I became upset and depressed over some dude. Really ladies, a guy who truly likes you no matter his sign will be clear about it. He'll take you out, treat you with respect, will want to always spend time with you and will not make any excuses for you. He'll be honest and will act upon so. I understand we all get blinded when in love, but you have to step up and realize what's really going on.
Now I've met a new guy who approached me and wanted to get to know me. After a few dates he told me he really likes me. I'm falling for him as well and the cap has almost faded away out of my life. I dont care about him. I just once logged into his account and that was silly I know. But that helped me to find out the truth about him and move on. Funny, this girl was sending him messages that she loves him and cant live without him and he'd just ignore her, that's the same psycho girl I was talking about on the other thread. Cap guys are very good at tricking women. He'll make you think he's serious, faithful and devoted without even giving you signs of devotion or telling it. He can actually fuck someone in front of your face and make you think it's alright honey, you're still the one. But the problem is that women trip in it. They love him anyways. That's a sign of weakness and of losing your standards. I'm really feeling so much stronger after all and I'm starting a positive life again. I just want to say step up, get your head clear and positive, be confident and move on. Life is just not meant to be wasted. And don't date someone else to forget him, you'll end up being in the same situation if you haven't healed yourself inside. First, get yourself together and then start looking out for the fish in the sea. It really helped me and the new guy seems to take my breath away.... 🙂

WOW! The talk about Capricorn MEN are ALL over this FORUM and not in a good way which kinda saddens me because as a Female capricorn I can say we are NOT anything like Capricorn men. But one guy called Mr Nice just said something in the Astrology thread that made a whole lot of sense-Very few people will truly understand Capricorns and aren't willing to take the time to get to know us on that level. People generally give up on the surface level which implies they are flaky to a capricorn. Nevertheless, I AM SORRY Crazy Diamond and others had to go through these love bouts with the Male counterpart of the Capricorn sign. What I will say is to forgive and move on to someone who DESERVES you.

Even if its only an initial experience I think its alright to be intimate on first dates > if this is what this topic is about, let it be mutual so that you have some and he has some 50/50 balances out nice. ^This guy on top could be a player so if he is you don't have to hate on him jump in enjoy the ride and let him go and later (you have a f'in liftime to live) find another fish than has a more monogamous like inclination.

"lifetime"

I think it's a male behavior in general. I think the difference is that Cappies torture themselves and will deny themselves. It's not healthy to be like that. It's cruel on their part, and their intention come across as cruel. It might not be their intentions to begin off with, but they really don't have the optimism to see the brighter side. Or they want to keep a one up all the time. I think in the long run, they end up loosing in the long end. When they finally come around, it's usually too late, but that's what happens when you play things safe. Taking worthy risks are what will allow you to take a stance.

The cappy that I have my eye on wants one day to have a wife and a family. He's 26 now, and says that when he is 30 is when he will start getting his life organized. The way I see it, you start building a secure foundation now. Have your fun, by all means, but stick to your principles, and never lose sight of your goals. It goes hand-in-hand. Why deny, deny, deny—?

" A guy who truly likes you no matter his sign will be clear about it.
He'll take you out, treat you with respect, will want to always spend time with you and will not
make any excuses for you. He'll be honest and will act upon so."

If not, NEXT... ;}hahahahaaaa

Diamond --

I fully agree with your post. You have very valid points there in terms how also My CAP acted. The person who cares for you, will show it. I have that example in front of me as well. I mentioned of some Leo man I know for over a year now. He has never changed his disposition towards me and keeps on repeating the same, which is his interest in me.

Unfortunately, I don't see him in a romantic light. I never had attraction for him, so am keeping my contact along the friendship lines by assuring... "Leo, it will never happen between the two of us. Don't get your hopes up. If you do and it becomes bothersome, then we have to discontinue our friendship."

He calls me at least 3 times a day. At times I do get annoyed by his attention. So if someone loves you, that's the behaviour pattern; you will be sure.

Anyway.. my point is even if CAP comes back -- as there is quite some mention that CAP guy can realize when it's too late and has returns -- to me that is a no chancer. No returns for me...

Thank you for your post on the latest, Diamond. I hope this can also give some insight to male CAPs that he re-considers his behaviour if he thinks there is even a remote interest to a girl for longterm before he runs off to someone else.

I really didn't try to insult any cap guys on here. I was just saying they're tricky men when it comes to dating. Just watch out because they're good at mentality games. And they always have lots of women around them. . .they always hunt even when they SEEM to already have.. they're not bad guys, I adore so many things about capricorn people, they're great, but what concerns dating, one is not enough, unless you're miss perfect who has it all on the plate. You dont wanna be looked down from above, because sooner or later he'll dump you. So its better to shoot for the end of the game first instead of waiting to be shot and getting hurt. I didnt experience all this, he didn't dump me, I dumped him. But I had made some thoughts in my head that he might, so I just moved on. Im not upset anymore as I used to. I look forward to have a good time with a new guy and maybe something more, who knows...

Starfish225,
They are simple outside but complex inside...