Want Capricorn ex boyfriend back,any chances?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by want2beloved on Wednesday, December 26, 2007 and has 8 replies.
I would leave him be for awhile. If he said that's what he needs, then I wouldn't doubt he's telling you the truth. A cappie was my first love and he came back to me several times, but in the end he decided I wasn't the right one for him. It took my years to realize he was absolutely right. We also had a long distance relationship for awhile, but were talking marriage, kids, the whole thing. We just weren't the right fit in the end.
What's your sign, want2? Why have you broken up with him before? Was it the distance?
I am a virgo female. We broke up early on in the relationship one month into it because he said something I didn't like and I ended up leaving to decompress and he thought I broke up with him and then stayed broken up with me for 2 weeks and I don't think I ever got over it...then the distance for so long added to the pressures to. He was wonderful to me but also I felt a bit distant at times. Did everything a man should do but getting him to open up was kind of hard he I think he used pot and alcohol to not have to deal with those things?
Uh-oh...sounds like he's got escapism issues if he's smoking and hitting the bottle. Caps who are angry can become very cold, and I think Virgos do this too when they're angry, don't they? Sounds like communication might have been an obstacle for you guys. And with someone who's away a lot, communication is even more important. You should take this time for you, work on some things personally, hang out with your friends. If he comes back around later, and you're still interested, maybe you can try again. Unfortunately, if he's asked for time apart, there's not much you can do right now. If you try to contact him, it will most likely just annoy him.
cappy men are so crap at closure.
LOL! I finally got closure with mine...five years after the fact.
I finally got my closure with my cap ex too. 3 and a half years of confusion.. Great times but more bad times.
use money
Woops didn't realize hiding my message was a bad thing . But yeah I got to thinking someone I know is probably going to put two and two together and I hid it. Now only you guys know my secrets. Thanks for answering. I really appreciate it . Have been doing much better thinking that he's 6 years older than me with Peter Pan syndrome and if I wait to have kids...by the time he's 50 my eldest kid will be 12 or something and well that's just kinda sad. Not to say that older parents are a bad thing but I want to have them while me and my hubby have the energy so I am trying to look at this as a positive but he spoiled me so much. I heard Cap men do not really like to spend a lot of money but he did with me extravagantly...Said all the jewlery he has ever gotten all the past girlfriend's in his life do not add up to all that he's gotten me and he was always spoiling me all the time even though he's known to be a total tightwad. Granted he was making the big bucks and probably feeling guilty . I did hear that's how Cap men show love.
A cap man will do anything to make you happy whether it makes him happy or not. Still doesnt meen your ment for each other. Other men will do the same but in their own way. Not just caps.

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