watching porn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by libramoon195 on Saturday, September 5, 2015 and has 78 replies.
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Dear Capricorn men Will you watch porn even if you are in a serious relationship?


If so, Don't you think its emotional cheating ?
Another Important question is that if you watch porn or nude girls pictures then will you imagine them while having sex with your wife/serious girl friend you love?
I'm not a Capricorn but I'd love to get in on this.

Firstly is there such a thing as emotional cheating? I thought the rules were clear, u sleep with another person then it's dumps ville for you.

When you're in a relationship your alone time is the only thing you can have to yourself and so are your thoughts.....what I do in my alone time is my business, yes I like to have a wank to some porn, it's like eating at an all you can eat Buffett and its a nice way to relax when I'm alone, yes sometimes I think about other ppl when I'm having sex but that's usually at a point where my dick can't feel anything and I need to get myself over the edge.

Where is this all co ing from libra moon is your capricorn "cheating" on you? Would you prefer he watched porn obsessively or catch the clap from your cap?

Posted by libramoon195
Dear Capricorn men Will you watch porn even if you are in a serious relationship?


If so, Don't you think its emotional cheating ?
Another Important question is that if you watch porn or nude girls pictures then will you imagine them while having sex with your wife/serious girl friend you love?

Porn is a non-issue with my Cap and I. We both watch it on our own time before and after we met. Never watched together though he has suggested it. He's very curious to know what I like to see. I decline because porn preferences seems very private to me and revealing.

Personally, I don't see a problem with it at all. We have a great sex life (he says it's "better than porn"). I think so too because the real thing is always better when it's really good.
I think it's important to lose sexual hang ups and explore sexuality together......think of what happened on rocky horror picture show...Janet and brad were sexually repressed before they met frank furter......

A man watching porn and jacking off to it is healthy.....repressing the need to is unhealthy and it's like plugging up a hole in a submarine and more holes pop up...

You have one person in the relationship watching porn and it's healthy......but what about the other person in the relationship that doesn't watch porn? Well that person should take responsibility and explore their sexual hang up and figure out why they feel insecure.....

Relationships constantly need work Constantly I can't say the c word enough......I think that's why I avoid relationships because of constant maintenance when it's a chore to keep myself miantained.

How is watching porn cheating?

Watching porn with your man is HOT!!
Hmm...good to know truecap! Winking
Posted by renutzu
Neither am I a Cap, but emotional cheating is when you dispense your emotional energy towards something other than your loved one.

You're flirting online and not harming anyone. You won't meet that person, but you waste your emotional 'energy' on that person. Therefore when you kiss your S/O or say "I love you", there is less of an effect and not as strong as an enthusiasm. This is what causes relationships to weaken. Same applies with pornography or going to strip clubs.

That's just my opinion though. Everyone has their own rules.

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Posted by truecap
How is watching porn cheating?

Watching porn with your man is HOT!!

You must be a snoozer in the bedroom if you need porn
Posted by libramoon195
Dear Capricorn men Will you watch porn even if you are in a serious relationship?


If so, Don't you think its emotional cheating ?
Another Important question is that if you watch porn or nude girls pictures then will you imagine them while having sex with your wife/serious girl friend you love?

Porn is highly damaging to relationships dont be fooled by the bullshit. It changes a mans brain chemistry scientific studies are all over the web 75 percent of those shiny porn stars have incurable stds like herpes and are fucked up on drugs so they can do double anal and gang bangs and wipe the feces and piss and bodily fluids off there faces. Of course thats not shown in the videos. Men start getting addited to it mre addictive than coke and would rather jack off than fuck. Sex shouldbe a private and intimate experience with a man a woman. Dont be fooled by the lie of.porn that its ok. Just look up online the dangers of porn.to nen, its very well documented
Posted by truecap
How is watching porn cheating?

Watching porn with your man is HOT!!

you need to watch a man with herpes, put his dick in a herpes pussy to spice up ypur situation? Lulz
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by truecap
How is watching porn cheating?

Watching porn with your man is HOT!!

You must be a snoozer in the bedroom if you need porn
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Who said we needed it?
And how many women have calendars of hot men, or lined up to go see movies such as Magic Mike or 50 Shades of Grey, etc.?

Just saying that while it's not the same thing, it doesn't harm their relationship.
Is having a crush on a hot celebrity the same as cheating?
Is watching a movie with a hot sex scene the same as cheating?

It's not much different than pirn, except porn is more detailed.

Posted by KsamCancer
Watching porn when youre in a relationship is a form of cheating. Youre watching this person behind a cold dark screen just to stimulate your mind and emotions for 5 seconds. I dont know why theyd do it but lets not get it twisted

Word!
Posted by truecap
Is having a crush on a hot celebrity the same as cheating?
Is watching a movie with a hot sex scene the same as cheating?

It's not much different than pirn, except porn is more detailed.



Stupid! You equate a male celebrity crush to shooting a load of cum on a girls face? Where is your brain woman?
Posted by truecap
Just saying that while it's not the same thing, it doesn't harm their relationship.

Again where is your brain? Porn destroys millions of relationships. Do some reseh dummy! Damn!
porn is inherently bad then so is reading erotic literature.

But I don't think it is. It is a whole different issue when he (or she) is addicted to porn and doesn't have the energy anymore when having sex with the SO.
The thing is that when women masturbate they get off easier with their men but the opposite is true with men. But always to a degree.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by libramoon195
Dear Capricorn men Will you watch porn even if you are in a serious relationship?


If so, Don't you think its emotional cheating ?
Another Important question is that if you watch porn or nude girls pictures then will you imagine them while having sex with your wife/serious girl friend you love?

Porn is highly damaging to relationships dont be fooled by the bullshit. It changes a mans brain chemistry scientific studies are all over the web 75 percent of those shiny porn stars have incurable stds like herpes and are fucked up on drugs so they can do double anal and gang bangs and wipe the feces and piss and bodily fluids off there faces. Of course thats not shown in the videos. Men start getting addited to it mre addictive than coke and would rather jack off than fuck. Sex shouldbe a private and intimate experience with a man a woman. Dont be fooled by the lie of.porn that its ok. Just look up online the dangers of porn.to nen, its very well documented
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... I had trouble reading this... bloody hell.

Porn can be about professional porn stars but if you think that is all there is then you are seriously missing out.
Especially places like Tumblr and Reddit have lots of amateurs in the most specific kinks and fetishes out there.
"Porn" as an erotic visual stimuli does not always mean emotionally scarred human beings.
Hell, some of the biggest turn ons can be just plain text and couples flirting...

Anything that starts to influence your relationship is usually a sign of an addiction. That's not just porn.
Women who have an E-spot implant fitted need to have a limit set as well, lest they just spend the day inside orgasming at the push of a button.
Anyway, if you think watching porn is cheating or if watching naked bodies is disgusting as soon as you enter a relationship, then you need to mind your own business.
Please go bitter all by yourself instead of bothering the rest of the us who are enjoying our sexuality.
Preferably with someone else but otherwise porn will hit the spot for now.
Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by truecap
Is having a crush on a hot celebrity the same as cheating?
Is watching a movie with a hot sex scene the same as cheating?

It's not much different than pirn, except porn is more detailed.



Watching a movie/a crush isn't the same thing as going out and searching for porn. You're looking for a emotional or physical 'high'. I dont recommend too much porn even outside a relationship, you kill your dopamine receptors and youre receiving stimulation from a screen lit mechanical box. It is unnatural for a person to receive stimulation from their own hand as well. When you're with someone, it can hurt your relationship without you realizing it.
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Thank you! Finally someone who is smart and has done their homework. Plenty of porn watchers have serious erectile disfunction
Cancer boy your hair is standing on end its about time u had a wank
Posted by TigerCap
Anyway, if you think watching porn is cheating or if watching naked bodies is disgusting as soon as you enter a relationship, then you need to mind your own business.
Please go bitter all by yourself instead of bothering the rest of the us who are enjoying our sexuality.
Preferably with someone else but otherwise porn will hit the spot for now.

You watching others doing what should be private. You should engage with your partner in private as well.erotic literature has nothing to do with porn
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Cancer boy your hair is standing on end its about time u had a wank

He speaks the truth and look your pink panties are in a bunch. We all know your story and pushing your homo agenda so you really should have a seat, in fact, have many seats.
My panties are bunched up in your daddy's mouth and he's trying to say he should have left you at the bus stop sooner.

Don't come for me Beyonce Youll wear yourself out.
The question was is porn cheating not whether someone who watched porn was scarred or dysfunctional.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by TigerCap
Anyway, if you think watching porn is cheating or if watching naked bodies is disgusting as soon as you enter a relationship, then you need to mind your own business.
Please go bitter all by yourself instead of bothering the rest of the us who are enjoying our sexuality.
Preferably with someone else but otherwise porn will hit the spot for now.

You watching others doing what should be private. You should engage with your partner in private as well.erotic literature has nothing to do with porn
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How is erotica literature not the same effect? Women read those books and fantasize about the male character and the act and get turned on by it.
And they can become disappointed that there partner isn't as romantic or passionate as the character in a book.
It may not be healthy for all the reasons listed, but I don't see it as actual cheating. Not the same as physical or verbal or written contact with another person.
Just my opinion.
Posted by renutzu
Those books are cheating too. For the exact reasons you described

Bullshit. Reading is not a visual of an extreme close up of a cock ramming a vagina and im not sure if you just fell off the turnip truck but most porn these days involves the abuse of women ramming fisting crying pissing choking rape gang bangs double anal. Teaching young men that women are objects and sperm receptacles instead of being worthy to love and cherish. All of this is done without a condom and is extremely unclean all porn stars get std's. Gonorreah, aids herpes syphilis.Monogamous couples do not get std s and hmm I wonder why. The shiny porn porn movies you see is not what is going on behind the scenes.open your damn eyes.
Posted by truecap
It may not be healthy for all the reasons listed, but I don't see it as actual cheating. Not the same as physical or verbal or written contact with another person.
Just my opinion.

In the viewers mind and reality they are actually doing it and bonding to the images. Yes, it is cheating.
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious
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Of couse God and religion make your skin crawl and make u a lil uncomfortable since you re a slave to your sinful nature.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious

Of couse God and religion make your skin crawl and make u a lil uncomfortable since you re a slave to your sinful nature.
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Did you always used to be such trolling cunt or are you jealous that your boyfriend is in love with me? I think it's both

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious

Of couse God and religion make your skin crawl and make u a lil uncomfortable since you re a slave to your sinful nature.

Did you always used to be such trolling cunt or are you jealous that your boyfriend is in love with me? I think it's both


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Ha! Is that all you got? Im sure you would love to turn the whole world gay and push your homo agenda and dirty dick on everyone. Turn to Jesus and he can free you of your disease.
Not a Capricorn, but I do have some Capricorn placements (particularly in my Venus and Mercury).

Watching porn while you're in a relationship isn't cheating. Pornography is merely a form of entertainment, and shouldn't have any detrimental effect on healthy relationships.
Posted by Caplove
I don't think watching porn is cheating, IMO. Although, it can become that when it completely replaces intimacy between partners (just like anything else can). There's a difference between a loving, committed couple watching it together for kicks and a guy who has a gf that's completely ignoring her just so he can watch porn.

Agree. You worded ithe better than I did.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious
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It's not "somewhat" religious. It's extremist religious.
Not sure what kind of secluded area she grew up in but if I can feel the spittle through the screen it might be time for her to step away from the keyboard and experience the real world. Thinking of homosexuality as a disease that any god can cure is downright retarded.
This is not the 40's anymore.

Anyway, moving back to the original question;

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/videos/a19961/guys-and-porn-real-talk/

Porn is just a visual stimuli for men in a similar way that a vibrator can be a physical stimuli for women:

You use it and then you put it away to forget about it until someone else stumbles across it.

And unless you are having sex on a regular (let's say anywhere between daily and monthly) a guy needs some sort of release. Even guys who enjoy a chastity fetish need to ejaculate on a regular basis for health reasons. And that is a big difference between men and women. As the fluid just keeps going even when it's not used.
Posted by Reincarnation
It's cheating.

Word
Posted by TigerCap
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious

It's not "somewhat" religious. It's extremist religious.
Not sure what kind of secluded area she grew up in but if I can feel the spittle through the screen it might be time for her to step away from the keyboard and experience the real world. Thinking of homosexuality as a disease that any god can cure is downright retarded.
This is not the 40's anymore.

Anyway, moving back to the original question;

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/videos/a19961/guys-and-porn-real-talk/

Porn is just a visual stimuli for men in a similar way that a vibrator can be a physical stimuli for women:

You use it and then you put it away to forget about it until someone else stumbles across it.

And unless you are having sex on a regular (let's say anywhere between daily and monthly) a guy needs some sort of release. Even guys who enjoy a chastity fetish need to ejaculate on a regular basis for health reasons. And that is a big difference between men and women. As the fluid just keeps going even when it's not used.
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Look dude, no ones trying to take your hand and your lotionbottle away so simmer down
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by TigerCap
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by KsamCancer
What you choose to do is between you and your hand, I was just giving my take on the issue. If I offended you, grow some tougher skin.

I just get concerned when people throw the Unnatural word around it sounds somewhat religious

It's not "somewhat" religious. It's extremist religious.
Not sure what kind of secluded area she grew up in but if I can feel the spittle through the screen it might be time for her to step away from the keyboard and experience the real world. Thinking of homosexuality as a disease that any god can cure is downright retarded.
This is not the 40's anymore.

Anyway, moving back to the original question;

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/videos/a19961/guys-and-porn-real-talk/

Porn is just a visual stimuli for men in a similar way that a vibrator can be a physical stimuli for women:

You use it and then you put it away to forget about it until someone else stumbles across it.

And unless you are having sex on a regular (let's say anywhere between daily and monthly) a guy needs some sort of release. Even guys who enjoy a chastity fetish need to ejaculate on a regular basis for health reasons. And that is a big difference between men and women. As the fluid just keeps going even when it's not used.

Look dude, no ones trying to take your hand and your lotionbottle away so simmer down
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Lotion is for the circumcised.

Also, bite me.
Lol oh look its dxps own resident emo on anti suicide meds and dxps resident ass kisser lol both of you get immediate dismissal
I dont belong to anything ignoramus ive accepted Jesus in my heart. BUT I wouldnt expect simpletons to understand that lol
Posted by tiziani
I'm just happy being a simpleton, cheers smile

Continue with your important mission. Nothing us little people can understand, I'm sure.

Indeed smile
Posted by Damous
All praise be to the Lord for these wonderful crevices that hold the sacred brown starfish. For it is you, Lord, who hath given us these divine treats. And to you, Lord, we celebrate when committing adultery. Just as you wished.

There are no athiests in foxholes. You can joke all you want but the last joke will be on you. Hope you dont die tomorrow.
Posted by tiziani
You can't script this place sometimes.

You cant, like when you were stalking the pisces on this site
Posted by Damous
You can't, lol

Dont worry about me son, worry about your souls eternal address.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by tiziani
You can't script this place sometimes.

You cant, like when you were stalking the pisces on this site

May the Lord forgive me.
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I really wouldnt joke about it if I were u bro. In addition, ive seen your profile on other sights, youve got a lot of damn time on yo hands
Posted by Damous
The Lord has already forgiven you, my son. Sin again. Sin freely, for he who accepts is free.

I cant even engage with you, you re just too dumb to even take seriously.
i personally never watch porn and wouldn't really want my significant other watching it either


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