What is going on?????? Need Help!!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by shaiessence on Sunday, January 15, 2006 and has 13 replies.
Ok, My Capricorn man speaks of the future alot (often with me in it) like he'll say "I need to get my own apartment so you can move in with me" or "Yea,my uncle's real cool. You'll meet him soon." Or something like that but he's sends me mixed signals. He doesn't call me alot, doesn't say he misses me. And alot of times he would joke around about me loving him then try to make me say it. I mean, is this how all capricorn men are or is he the only one?
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No, this is how all cap men are (well I can't say all but most). You just have to learn how ur cap is and deal with it from there. Believe me, it took me a while to catch on to how my cap was. I thought for the longest time that it was me, but it was just him. They have a weird way of dealing with things, showing feelings, etc. They don't call a lot. My cap usually texts me before he ever calls, very rarely do we ever talk on the phone. I have learned tho, that if u want to talk to him, just pick up the phone and call him. I finally found out yesterday that my cap loves it when I call him. He loves hearing from me, I guess it makes him feel wanted. Him speaking of the future with u in it is a very good sign, so just be patient with it. That shows that he does care a lot for u and that he loves u being in his life. If it's really bothering u that much tho, sit down and have a chat with him. Just come out bluntly and tell him what u want from him. They will listen, you may not get a direct answer, but after he thinks about it, you will get an answer.
Again, these men are strange. U just have to learn how they are, and play it out that way. It does seem like playing games, but it's just how it is.
Hope that helped a bit. Feel free to ask more.
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I agree w/ MyCap. Take it at face value, and that what's he's saying is genuine, even if done in a joking manner. Way back in the beginning, mine had referred to me as "a girlfriend" on the phone w/ a buddy, looking over to see my reaction... and made other off-hand comments about 'dating', etc. I never gave him the positive reinforcement he was seeking, and things went from good to rocky and have never gone back. So, respect what he's telling you and don't blow it off or make light of it. I had a cynical, suspicious mind that he was playing me, which brought on alot of frustrating games. These guys are already insecure, so if you reject them, even indirectly, it's an uphill battle trying to later convince them of your interest/love.
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Right capgirl. See mine told me that I never came out and told him what I wanted and that I didn't even show that I really wanted to be with him. I thought what, why would I hang on to u this long if I didn't want you. What he needed to hear was that I did want to be with him and that I wanted him. I didn't realize that i needed to be that direct with him. Sometimes caps say things in a joking manner because that's the only way they can say it to you truthfully without being all gooey about it, if you know what I mean. So even if he is joking, you take him serious. These caps are pretty good about giving 'signals' about how they feel. U just have to know how to spot them! it's hard but u eventually catch on.
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Hmm, they all seem alike. He is kinda like that.
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Yeah it's strange how they are all alike. Do you think u can hang on for the ride shaiessence?
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Bad thing about it is. I really want to hang in there because I feel through all this HELL im going through, once it's all over, it'll be worth it.
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I was the same way. And it is worth it. I like him so much and I know he's worth it.
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But i am a Cancer and he is a Cappy, do we even get along?
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yes you do!!!
i have a question I need to go back and read but.... dont you have a baby with him?
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Yes, we have a 3 month old daughter together.
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So he calls me and talks to me about his day, what happened today with his friends and what not and he usually doesn't call me on his break at work. I mean everyday he used to call when we weren't together, but now since we are togehter, he doesn't call on his break alot anymore. What does that mean anyway?
And he says he's going to call me in the morning but yea the hell right. He won't, Wanna bet?
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