What is up with Capricorns and not communicating?

Can go weeks without hitting you up and when they finally do, its like they talk as if nothing has happened.

I mean you could have been on an amazing date, then they don't hit you up at all for a week or two and suddenly bam

"sorry I was just focusing on my thing and being productive" I mean is a text or two that difficult...

LOL, I like to know that answer too....

What I wrote didn't make sense. lol!

With friends and family, yes I agree with this scenario. I don't contact very often and don't need it. When we do, things are just like no time has gone by.

It's different with someone I'm dating or in a relationship with. In that case, I expect some kind of daily communication, even if it's only five minutes.

Posted by WoundedLeo

Posted by MsImpala66
LOL, I like to know that answer too....

Most non-Caps hanging around here have asked themselves this question repeatedly.

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sigh

I'm experiencing this too! I see that this is "normal". I wonder what it is they do lmao.

I'm pretty good with communication and contact... friends and family alike. i'm the one who's calling, texting and closing the gap... that's what i call it.

It's a different story with some of these guys. My cell phone has literally been nicknamed "the pony express" well known thing about me.

i hate to say it, but creating slow communication is one of the easiest and most time saving ways to keep someone at arms length without them reading you wrong or getting buttfuckinhurt when you are otherwise blunt.

Posted by JenLove
Lol I am completely guilty of this. I can go months and months without talking to family and friends but, I like to frequently communicate with my really close friends especially my best friend. In an intimate relationship though, daily communication is a must for me to really keep the connection going. I guess it really depends on how much someone means to me. I just like to have my space and time for myself. It comes natural to me to be distant, I don't like to have too many intense emotions all the time I need to be detached.

this exactly!

Posted by BalmyTigress
I originally found this site because I was googling Cap disappearing acts. Then I came here and read a bit. I found my zen and am no longer bothered.

Me too 🙂

Posted by xxoommmxxoo
yes i need daily communication. Disappearing for 2 weeks, i don'think so, did i land in the virgo forum ? LOOOL jk

Lol!!! I had a virgo disappear on me. We hadn't dated very long - not exclusive. While he was gone, I went out with the aqua, connected with him, and the rest is history.... virgo lost and found that out when he tried to come back around. Maybe he won't disappear on the next girl.

I disappear in a way. The only person Im able to stay in contact with, as far as friendship, these days is the Capricorn, and he does all the calling.

Im not a fan of calling people with nothing to say. I check on my mom daily, and call my grandmother every week or two....but other than that, I dont call anyone. Just those two really.