what should Caprics do when Virgos asks for space?

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what should a capricorn male do when a virgo female asks for space?...

Hi never really been into star signs but my friend with benefits is, she used to refer to us as affectionate friends.

Looks like as a result of personal family issues on top of other dramas that she is exposed to in her life, she is asking
me for space and cutting off contact with me, claims im suffocating her when tour frequency of communication and
interaction has only decreased not increased in the last 2 weeks.

Since she sent me a link to let me know what Virgo's are about and that Virgos need space its led me to the question of
what should i do as a capricorn man and friend that genuinely cares do knowing that she is is pain?

I could be wrong and it could be that she sees this situation as an opportunity to cut me off, trying not to take this personally and oblige?
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Posted by aquasnoz
Not sure what a cap should do but from experience when a Virgo asks for something they usually mean it. You can do squat to change that decision and you're at her mercy whether she'll ever share what she's really thinking on the inside.



this is the link she sent see and said it describes her http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/virgo.htm this tells me lots of things - she has already opened up and shared details of her situation yet still saying wants to be left alone
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Posted by aquasnoz
I think that's a pretty good and clear indication she does want to be left alone. The fact she even clued you in means she still cares I would seriously advise you to give her that space before she feels like she's being stepped on and probably even hate you for it later on.



leaving her alone isnt the the issue, prepared to do that - as its something I find hard to stop thinking about I feel like theres something i should do as a friend.
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Posted by M
You should give her space when she askes for it. No astrology, just out of respect. Especially when you know there are mitigating factors...details seem moot when she's going ahead with it whether or not you know why. Hopefully given some time and space the rest will fill in.



I totally agree about leaving her alone - just feel helpless that a mate is hurting, and wants to be alone really.
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Posted by M
You should give her space when she askes for it. No astrology, just out of respect. Especially when you know there are mitigating factors...details seem moot when she's going ahead with it whether or not you know why. Hopefully given some time and space the rest will fill in.



I totally agree about leaving her alone - just feel helpless that a mate is hurting, and wants to be alone really.
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hahaha i figured that I the caps and the virgos wouldnt be checking out each others pages - if you look at the responses on the virgo page the virgos are sharing from useful insights (well to me any way)
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As a friend she asked you to leave her alone. We all need time to figure out what to do next. If you want to be part of her future, do as she request. Sounds like shes falling for you and it's not the right time in life for her to do so. Respect her judgement...

As the saying goes "If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."